sex

>>40864545
giwtwm

>>40864545
QotT
-Not at all fashionable. Im figuring everything out on my own and can barely dress myself properly. Ngl 90% of the time I either recycle clean outfits or get frustrated and throw on a hoodie or a solid color + jacket.
-I sing a lot on my own. I used to play guitar, flute, saxophone, and harmonica. I love music and wish I had more time to practice - especially fixing my voice up so I can sing like I want to. Every person Ive ever dated or loved has had music in their heart in some form or another. Its a huge part of my life and hearing someone express themselves through song melts my heart faster than anything.
-Honestly havent dated enough... I just kinda fall into relationships without realizing it's happening.

>>40864545
>Are you fashionable? How would you describe your style? Are you a musician?
fashionable goth musician
favourite item of clothing is probably the cropped leather jacket i just bought. it's really cute and my first real leather piece
>What instantly ruins a date?
silence. i get that ur nervous but like just say anything, it starts to get boring when all you can do is anxiously stammer out single word replies over dinner

is this hihi puffy amiyumi

>>40864769
I can get behind this. If im the only one talking, ur gonna lose my interest. I *can* get along with anyone, but I need another chatterbox to really gel.

>>40864827
100% yeah i need some back and forth here

lesbian suffering

girlpussy

>>40864545
QOTT
>no. dog shit. bag that goes over my face.
>no. no.
>midnight.

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>>40864545
>Are you fashionable? How would you describe your style? What’s your favorite clothing piece or outfit?
I'm fairly confidently not. I mostly boymode still but I'm over a year on hrt now so even that looks good on me sometimes. my friends keep pressuring me to go clothes shopping though
that said for most of this summer I was often rocking a sports bra and holy shit I looked hot I think

>Are you a musician? Have you ever dated one?
I did last year for a few days, she was another tranny and was in collage for music
she got together with and broke up with me after like 2 days, and we were seeing eachother for a little over a week before that. we also fucked on the first date which was just to get some fucking coffee

after a few months of mostly radio silence though we started hanging out again this spring, which has been nice desu cause somehow she treated me better than most other girls and I'm not really upset for her perusing when looking back on it it was clear as day it was never gonna work out.

also I found out a little bit ago she got diagnosed with BPD and like everything clicked the moment I saw it

>What instantly ruins a date?
anxiety and nervousness
I have girls often be too scared to even TRY to kiss me or hold my hand or something, expecting me to do all the heavy lifting or something, and I'm so fucking tired of it. its cute like maybe once and then just gets annoying. plus I'm in my 20s now and year by year it just gets more repulsively immature to see
we need more confident and experienced transbians so badly

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ughhh can't sleep I'm stuck stressing about stuff
>>40864573
this is so true
>>40864545
>Are you fashionable? How would you describe your style? What’s your favorite clothing piece or outfit?
Well I used to be but then I got too fat to fit most of my fav clothes, can't wait to lose some weight so I fit in them again though. getting back into jirai kei has been interesting me recently.
>Are you a musician? Have you ever dated one?
I'm extremely tone deaf and don't really understand music but I'm dating a musician currently.
>What instantly ruins a date?
probably a bad political opinion

having a woke tranny gf who says words like transfem and posts traa-esque memes is kinda endearing...

i like transfem not for woke reasons but its shorter. i wish it was more common place.

>>40864692
How the fuck does one just "fall into relationships"? Where can I learn such a power?

>>40865299
just say tranny

>>40865324
i cant say tranny at work it makes cis people uncomfortable.

>>40865299
Honestly it just rolls off the tongue better than most other analogs. I dont like using the abbreviated "t-girl/t-woman" because t by itself is associated with testosterone in my mind, and "tranny" has bad connotations outside of /tttt/ adjacent spaces. Transfem just flows.
>>40865309
Uuuuh, idk, I talk to people, make friends, hang out with em, sometimes I get kissed and am like "wait is this a thing??"
Obviously hasn't happened for a long time so I dunno if I could pull it off these days. Im gonna get rekt in the dating game cuz Ive never been on a straight up date I think, lolol.

>>40865335
transfem is misgendering because it describes transsexual women as "fems" not women

>>40865362
> I dont like using the abbreviated "t-girl/t-woman"
i dont like tgirl because i see it as infantilizing and combined with being trans has bad connotations. i dont like twoman because its clunky to say.

>>40865366
>misgender
acktchuly is de-gendering. also im throwing a brick(me) at you

tgirl is a porn slur used by coomer chasers like shemale but a little milder
no idea why babytrans decided to bring it back in the last few years, i hate it

>>40865406
I heard it a lot from chasers first. Guess it spread from pornbrained individuals.

wydag who just broke her no-preordering rule and preordered borderlands 4 super deluxe because she loves the series not in spite of, but because of, the comedy slop, and makes sure to listen to every single bit of dialogue and do every single sidequest on every single playthrough because even though it's slop it's also soulful and joyful and sometimes has surprisingly good storywriting and is genuinely funny a majority of the time on top of being a really good series on purely mechanical terms?
..... t. femby yearner

>>40865451
if its just a one time thing...

>>40865451
seems like it will make you happy so that's a good thing. are preorder bonuses on games a thing anymore?

>>40865451
Wife immediately
BL is one of my favorite series. BL3 kinda sucked hard on writing, but was solid on mechanics. Im hyped for BL4 anyways, gonna play Harlowe on my first round - fucking gravity manip.

putting estrogen gel on your dick and then frotting with your gf to give her estrogen

coincidentally that exact same sentence was posted to ovarit a year ago

Hate being a transbian mid 30s top gooner

>>40865695
my libido has been fucking nothing recently kinda wish i wanted to goon

i sincerely don't know what i could have possibly done in my last life to deserve to live in an afab supremacist society as a transbian

i kinda hate my gf but it's too late to break up now

>>40866239
why and why would you do that yourself

>>40865465
bl4 only comes out once, so, sure yeah :)

>>40865510
yeah it kinda will make me happy, i love this series
preorder bonuses are a thing with this but i don't care about them (they're just cosmetics here, and preorder bonuses which affect gameplay are pure evil which i can't abide), i preordered because greenmangaming has a 15% coupon that applies to it and i'm not sure when it expires so i figured i might as well lock it in

>>40865519
based science siren enjoyer, she looks like the least reliant on non-gun gimmick mechanics too which i really appreciate in these games

>>40866249
well it's very simple, i hate myself

whats the end goal for trannies who date theyfabs and pretend to believe their gf is trans for pussy? surely one day the mask slips

>>40866582
i can't imagine how i would feel if my gf secretly hated me. do you actually have any good reasons? you shouldn't hurt her like this

GIRLPIV!

>>40866462
Ive always loved gravity manip as a power. Plus I just like her style and characterization. Vex's trailer was good fun, but Harlowe hooked me on how fun of a character she is. If youre gonna have science superpower you may as well have a blast with it! And then I saw her gameplay and knew that was it!
Kinda the same reason I ran Amara on BL3. Im here to have a blast blowing shit up. (Plus Amara is kinda goals <-<)

>>40867913
need

why are most transbians are white or asian? Or is it just the ones Ive met

gf is asleep and all my friends are too so im venting here
i woke up just now from a horrible, violent nightmare that ended with me having a false wakeup
i have these a lot when my brain kicks up nightmares
paired with a vast amount of paranoia, fear of the dark, nighttime hallucination, etc. im now effectively paralyzed by fear, alone in bed, with my string lights being my only sense of comfort
it was so horrible and violent, its been a while since i experienced something like that
and now im terrified to go back to bed
i wish i was at my gfs right now, so i could shake her awake and be held

i tell people about how vivid my nightmares are, how they sometimes chain false wakesup together, how disorienting it is and makes me feel crazy
im scared that im still asleep as i write this
i hate my fucking brain and i hate how broken of a person i am
i miss my girlfriend, she'd comfort me

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>>40864545
>Are you fashionable?
I try to be but I don't think I am
>How would you describe your style?
I am kind of high fashion pilled, I follow runways and such. But personally I just like having a weird silhouette and having it flow in a fun way
>What’s your favorite clothing piece or outfit?
I like it when it's the winter and I get to wear this big wool mac that I have

>Are you a musician?
I play the guitar and piano. https://voca.ro/1kKNYWb60dKs
>Have you ever dated one?
my ex played guitar and was very jealous of me for learning it quicker than them

>What instantly ruins a date?
anxiety and fear are the best bit. but if that makes the other person completely lock up then it sucks.

>>40865695
mommy sorry mommy sorry m

>>40868349
homelessmancore

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>>40869066
that's what it's all about

>>40869242
cute twirl

>>40864545
lesgen I figured out what was wrong with me finally
my sacral chakra was out of balance
literally could've saved 5 figures in therapy costs over the last 10 years if I had realized this sooner
Now I've lost a lot of my brains grey matter (owie) and will probably develop some neurological disorder before I retire
Thanks trannies

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>>40864545
luring me in with fashion like years ago isn't going to work again... wait, I already post here occasionally, never mind...
>Are you fashionable? How would you describe your style? What’s your favorite clothing piece or outfit?
I can't be fashionable, I'm way too fat, it makes me really depressed... so I just wear cheap clothes until I lose the weight, like wearing rags and sacks
I've been losing weight tho, and started getting back into sketching and collaging, so who knows tbqh
>Are you a musician? Have you ever dated one?
no and no, but I always wanted to learn the harp and get in touch with my roots or something, plus it just seems really nice, but they cost way too much tbqh
looking to date someone with a harp that will teach me btw...
>What instantly ruins a date?
iunno, probably strong opinions, maybe politics, rudeness, rude noises, that sort of thing
>>40864692
wow, singing is so amazing, I picked up singing thru a straw and the sing! exercise book for unspecified reasons, but haven't started yet since I tend to lack vocal strength all my life
>>40865114
>Well I used to be but then I got too fat to fit most of my fav clothes, can't wait to lose some weight so I fit in them again though.
this is so relatable, I just want to cry tbqh...
it's been so lonely feeling like I can't wear nice clothes and everybody invalidating me and saying it's fine, but it doesn't feel fine...
>>40865366
>>40865406
have to admit 'communities' have a pretty awful track record in the terminology they adopt
>>40868349
>>40869242
the boots and the coat are pretty nice ig

>>40867253
i really hope we get to use her episode1racercore vehicle ingame, it's such a cool design
>Kinda the same reason I ran Amara on BL3. Im here to have a blast blowing shit up. (Plus Amara is kinda goals <-<)
based and same, amara is peak
also really good for soloing because of phaselock
zane is my current playthrough, he's basically a souped up axton/roland which is great for solo because turrets are just so useful

>>40867992
no one wants to date black and browns so they just cope pretending to be straight

racists deserve to die

>>40871034
take your pills luz

>>40871050
death is too good fo 'em

>>40867992
non white communities are a little more homophobic and by extension transphobic as compared to white communities. lots of black men still dont come out as gay because its so taboo within their community. i imagine being a black transbian complicates a lot of interpersonal interactions

>>40871126
>non white communities are a little more homophobic and by extension transphobic as compared to white communities
white people sure love padding themselves in the back with huge meme

>>40871209
i do

>>40871209
with this*
whatever, 10 minutes in colonial history you'd know europeans spent almost a century destroying culturesin the global south that didn't fit their white hetero ideal. If anything, homophobia is white people behavior

>>40871239
White people invented LGBT to colonize the global south. I heard this from my nonwhite friends in poor countries.

>>40871126
"white communities" are racist conservative enclaves
the term you're looking for is "multicultural" or "westernised" but both of those have weird connotations of their own

>>40871126
>>40871209
>>40871239
>>40871287
>>40871332
I love how ppl are always so reductive about this stuff, I think it's really interesting to think about
but like I also wonder if maybe in a few decades or a hundred years we'll develop a more nuanced understanding of influences through time and culture
even suggesting stuff like 'but what if we arranged the groups by historical ses instead' sometimes leads to woah bind blown omigosh can't be real moments
the future has got to be pretty interesting, huh?

>>40871469
do you think higher ses has more acceptance or lower. i kinda can see it going both ways. the truly cursed position is that both are accepting but the middle is where it gets unaccepting.

>>40871469
>>40871586
>ses
whomst?

>>40871672
socio economic status

>>40871586
who knows really, not sure I'd do it by ses, since a lot of pink/lgbt ppl tend to earn less, but sometimes it's more relevant to these things
some of the research I like is stuff like how historical food cultivation practices could impact cultural attitudes
I just wish I could live long enough until we figure it all out y'know?
>>40871672
socioeconomic status, it's like a whole thing sometimes with inter-generational effects

>>40871712
>I just wish I could live long enough until we figure it all out y'know?
yeah i hate how finite time is and how dumb i am. too much i wanna learn and know about.

>>40871735
basically, are you me tho?
just have to settle for trying to live the best we can I guess

>>40871747
>basically, are you me tho
idk i feel like ive aped my personality from various places on the internet and i have no authentic self. so maybe?

>>40871708
>>40871712
ty
i think SES is a sort of red-herring lens to use, since it depends which culture dominates which rung of the SES ladder in a given place
e.g. low-SES could be woke punk or baptist trailer park depending on a lot of situational factors

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>>40864545
QOTT1: i dont dress well most days but when i put in the effort i try to make my style something like picrel. My favorite piece of clothing i have is this cute dress with a really intricate cream top and green bottom that goes from my waist to my shins.

QOTT2:I play bass and have made an album. The album isnt very good and i suck at bass but music is still one of my favorite things and probably the biggest of my special interests.

QOTT3: Anything along the lines of "the right isnt that bad"

>>40871764
oh no, I'm just teasing, but mimicking ppl is very human-coded tbqh
>>40871983
nah, it's just an example of one factor that already upended a lot of reductions where ppl used to group by skin color, language, and nationality
it's not the only possible factor, the point being that explaining why groups tend towards certain beliefs or behaviors will dive into complexity more and more, rather than say reduce to skin color, language, or nationality
an interesting example is how views on independence-interdependence research have evolved over the years

>>40872080
>I play bass and have made an album.
well now you have to post it

>>40872880
>mimicking ppl is very human-coded tbqh
wow look at that im being normal. thanks <3

>>40873102
aw any time
>>40875344
true tho

>>40864545
I think trans women are beautiful and brave and admirable but I would never ever ever ever ever have sex with one.

>>40875480
braver than the trannies tbhon

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>>40875480
same but I want to have sex with them

>>40872922
add me on disc if you want to hear it.

squiglythesequel_09044

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>>40875480
Cool! Preferences are valid! <3
>>40875553
Based

>Are you fashionable? How would you describe your style? What’s your favorite clothing piece or outfit?
idk if im fashionable really
i have a sort of "light grunge" look? im not sure how you'd describe it
a lot of flannels, band shirts, denim, leather jackets, mostly black attires, black combat boots, etc.
i have a lot of piercings and tattoos as well
i thought maybe people thought i looked lame or something but i was in a group last semester and thats basically the only time i talk to people on campus, and i got to talking to the other girls in my group about piercings and i was showing mine off
and i made some deprecating comment about mine and they were like
>"what? no, you look really cool, we love your look"
so im not sure, if im a good judge on if im fashionable
my favorite piece of clothing is my oversized leather jacket that i got from a vintage place, its my favorite find and people seem to really like it

best t4t transbian dynamic is girl who is like omg we're a based yuri couple and girl who is like omg we're a based yaoi couple

can trans men be lesbians?

>>40878444
real lesbians inject testosterone

gaygen is talking about you girls again

Only t4t in this thread please.

>>40878489
there aren't any girls here

need gf who will beg me to dom her or make me beg her to dom me

>>40876065
Right??

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went to the meguro parasitology museum and got a diplozoon necklace, theyre a species of parasitic flatworm that mates for life and forms a conjoined body out of two individuals upon copulation
does anyone wanna be my gf and get a matching one of these.....

>>40879680
that's what I've been saying the whole time basically
>>40880354
that's so unbelievably cool ngl

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>>40880354
incredibly romantic

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Can't be a lesbian without actually being female <3

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It’s tuff having two sad trans gfs.

>>40880971
cope faggot terf

>>40880971
we can play pretend and you dont need to join if you dont want to

>>40880986
how do you learn to share

>>40882929
one is a cuck and the other the BVLL
bnuy gets her chat history deleted

>>40864545
lesbians are fucking cool

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>>40882929
idk built diff ig

When its MTFs its called being straight retards

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>>40883125
mtfs aren’t downright retarded, they just have autism

>>40883125
nothing straight about MTFs