>23>tranny>moving in with bf this sunday>moving away even further from my friends and grandma>cant even give him childrenhow do i cope?
please help
>>40874647girlie he's isolating you to abuse
>>40874879if this was true it would still be preferable to the momsters abuse
>>40874887thats a really good point
>>40874903that woman has been torturing me for over a decade and its a surprise im not dead desu, hes known me since before my transition, going on over 4 years now, hes been there through my highest highs and my lowest lows, if hes actually going to abuse me.......
>>40874647 (OP) #Honestly the sooner you can accept this, and have a conversation about it, the better. You will probably still cry about it dozens of times in the future, but it will help in the long run to grieve it. The best you can ask for is a man who is either OK with adoption or a surrogate, or OK with not having kids.Personally, I cannot imagine the future without kids or being a caretaker role as part of a family. So if this matters to you, make sure it is an upfront conversation and that he’s willing to go into the weeds about it, and not just give you a passing “yes, it’s OK Nona” because that’s almost certainly bullshit
>>40874969im conflicted, on the one hand id love to raise kids and give them the love my own mother failed to give, but on the other im too pessimistic about the world at large, adoption is probably the only ethical choice
>>40875016Good goal, but parenting is ultimately not about us. Just laying fertile ground for them to grow well and pursue their life. It’s easy to get caught up in the narrative of healing our inner child through parenting but it takes us away from the present child in front of us who has their own needs and wants
>>40875041realistically im too mentally ill rn for anything and idk if my bf is on board, definitely not now, maybe in a decade, if i even still can by then
The world would be so much better if trannies could get pregnant from potent male seed
>>40875187My boyfriend came in my boipussy while I was boivulating and made me boipregnant. I don't want to get a boibortion and I don't want to go through the process of boirth what do I do?
sometimes i want to be a real mom so bad :c if i wasn't such a hideous freak i would love working with kids
>>40874647make friends with a lesbian and have her carry your or your boyfriend's seed
>>40874647Adopt some lgbt kids and take them in as your own. Give them the good life you weren't given The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb
>>40874647if its any consolidation dont think the reason for you being unable to bear children too closely to your trans identity. as in, there are tons and tons of cis women who are infertile too. either way, if this was a serious issue for him, he wouldnt date you in the first place. unlike ciswomen they and their partner usually find out later years into a relationship they cant have kids. your boyfriend, knowing youre a troon, knows from the get go, and still wants you.you guys still *can* have kids, just not directly from you, you can adopt, have a surrogacy there are other options. i know this still hurts, but stop thinking about it being a issue because youre tans, you could be cis and in the same situation of having to use these alternatives.
