is bpd really overrepresented among mtfs or is that a meme?
>>40882863Yes. Mtfs wish they had it cause its a "feminine" disorder but they often just have something else. Gaydens often have bpd
>>40882881>but they often just have something elsewhat exactly?
>>40882863it seems very common for transfemmes yeah
>>40882881guess if i'm a gayden
>>40882881does this mean ftms who get diagnosed schizo instead of bpd are malebrained
idk even know what bpd is because every asshole claims to have it to justify their bad behavior
>>40884080i'm ftm and i've been diagnosed both bpd and schizotypical. all i did was repeatedly say i'm going to kill myself and my entire family. and experience some delusions.
>>40882863I have bpd
>>40884114real
>>40882863it's a meme
>>40882863most people with a "mental illness" especially trannies just lie to the diagnosing professional
>>40884158i don't but have the diagnosisshould have listened to the psych hinting that it might be better to stop the diagnosis process before getting it(no, i'm far from a demon)
bpd is another “feminine” accolade in their crude and formulaic understanding of womanhood which they try and fail to skinwalk unfortunately
>>40882863mental illness as a whole is overrepresented in mtfs, not just a personality disorder
>>40882863>traumagenic disorder is overrepresented among the social pariah minoritywaow
>>40884493>>40884645who is right here??
>>40884563:(
>>40882881>>40884493diagnosed by a psychiatrist seethe harder
>>40882863Yes. 75% of the transgirls I've interacted with are cluster-b loons.
>>40884479>no, i'm far from a demonwe're not demons, just mentally ill. have some compassion.
>>40884114thisif you really have it then get a DBT workbook, you animals
>>40882881>mtf with bpd other mtfs want that?? because it doesn't feel like i hit the lottery, id do anything to make myself less mentally ill
>>40882863no lmao most of them are autists that think having the woman disorder would make them real women so they project that onto themselves since they don't have any real personalities of their ownthe rest 1000% do though
>>40882881i have it (was diagnosed and stayed a few months under the psych ward after attempts), does it make me fembrained?>t. mtf twinkhon
Psych won't diagnose me even though I fit basically every criteria in the DSM. Turns out one of the best practices for treating it is diagnosing CPTSD instead cause it's less stigmatising and gives you more power. Who knows. Anyway, got a call tomorrow with a local DBT service. I wanna get this stuff under control. I don't wanna hurt people any more and I don't wanna feel like this any more. I wish all the anons in this thread the best of luck. It's really not an easy synaptic situation to be saddled with. Apparently you can heal the neural pathways and central nervous system over time with repeated practice noticing triggers, noticing how stuff feels somatically in your body and using self regulation techniques to bring you back to a comfortable hum. But with BPD (or severe CPTSD, which is apparently essentially the same thing and there's ongoing psychological debate over this), the way the emotions go from 0-100 because the way the synapses tolerance gets wired over time, it's really hard to spot early signs of disregulation, usually it just feels immediate and then you're in that place again, reacting and not thinking. Anyway I'm gonna see if committing to DBT and giving it my all can help me with this. Maybe I'll report back to whatever BPD thread is up in about 4 months with some thoughts on the experience. But yeah. Like I said, good luck anons. I'm gonna try my best, I hope you can try your best too.
>>40882863Bpd is a feminine disease
>>40882863It's a meme - what often seems like bpd is just need and desperation amongst very lonely princesses.T. Not bpd mtf that is called bpd when needy.Everything is toxically medicalized.>have needs and some trauma>you're bpd!!!
>>40890063retard
>>40890073Please explain how I'm a "retard".
>>40890118retard
>>40890170I genuinely don't understand why you insist on calling me an ableist slur for no reason.
>>40890006People with CPTSD are really hard to deal with in my experience
>>40890063where do you draw the line between needy and insane?
>>40882863Personality disorders are not real, they are just different manifestations of CPTSD, which the majority of humans in individualistic nations have but never get a diagnosis or treatment for.
BPD is a meme. Just remember, it's only a collection of symptoms. The pathonogenesis isn't given. So as long as a person is exhibiting some crazy bpdemon behavior you can say they 'have' bpd but you don't really know what lies behind their actions, can't explain what it is that they have in a nonmeme manner. It's a meme.
>>40891769*pathogenesis lol
>>40891099Yeah, I can honestly be very hard to deal with. That's why I am pursuing treatment and trying my best because I'd like to be more functional and less volatile in every facet of my life. I don't expect anyone who can't handle it to stick around at this point. I realise I need to step up in order to fulfil my end of the social contract.
>>40891803I think the person I know with CPTSD killed herself
>>40882863BPD is overrepresented among MtFs, but that's just because personality disorders in general are overrepresented among MtFs. I don't know a single tranny that does not have a personality disorder of some sort.
>>40890006CPTSD is not in the DSM or real. Usually they would just diagnose someone with PTSD and specify that the trauma was recurring but if that doesn't fit then you likely have BPD. Changing the name doesn't change what you have.
>>40882863I like how there's no sources in the thread and it's all honscience and vibes. I hate the anti-empiricism of trans people. You're just anti-vaxxers with another coat of paint
>>40891769Absolutely pseudo intellectual nonsense. Psychopathologies are measured in assessments based on behaviors and questions closed or open ended to get at the emotional and cognitive reasoning of the patient. BPD is absolutely real. The only people who deny it are people virtue signaling (many have BPD) or people with BPD.
the entirety if mental illness is psycopathic narcissists manipulating gullible retards.if the black person doesn't like being called the n word by white people and the white person calls them the n word are they bpd for flipping out on the white person? no.extend this same logic to trannies. if you keep calling the troon male, are they bpd for flipping out on you? no.the over representation of bpd in trannies is cis people being allowed to openly discriminate against them as the trans people are third class citizens.
>>40882899Agp = npd or sociopathHsts and ftm = bpd
>>40892671That's not that BPD is. BPD is your now ex-partner, who is a trans woman that you, also a trans woman, have done so much for including paying 60k out of pocket for FFS—splitting on you and throwing you away.
>>40892735no that just sounds like you're the asshole. you think because you paid 60k for their ffs that you now own them. that screams if narcissism and psycopathy.investing into someone else with the expectation of something in return is manipulative (machiavellian).it sounds like you're the abuser and they finally escaped you.
>>40892635CPTSD and BPD have similar but not the same presentation. CPTSD is characterized by a stable but negative sense of self, while BPD people have an unstable sense of self.
>>40892756I don't own her and I never thought that I did. I would have been fine with the relationship running its course resulting in an amicable split. I'm not fine with the way she negged and discarded me.
>>40892768again: narcissism. you feel owed something when you are entitled to nothing. get over yourself. people like you are why mental illness is a joke.
>>40892768... not to mention the hoovering after the breakup where she continued negging me.During our relationship she kept asking me to do more physical activity. (She was correct about that!) Last time we got lunch together I mentioned that I've seriously taken up cardio and strength training, with the goal of eventually going to a meet. She said to me "is that it?" That's what I mean by negging.
>>40892832I think you're just trolling at this point. The point of being in a relationship is being "entitled" to love and care, and not being negged and being alternately treated as the best person and the worst.
>>40892866By the way my current partner (also a trans woman) does not have BPD and our relationship is fantastic. We haven't fought once in 5 years, she doesn't split on me all the time, she doesn't neg me, and we show up and care for each other. Better relationships are possible!
>>40892866no anon.true love is unconditional like the love between a parent and child. it's a willingness to do something for someone else without an expectation of anything in return. it's means they didn't love you the same way you loved them and they capitalized on your desperation / naivety. if anyone's bpd, it's you.
>>40892949This is a child's view of "true love". In real life, when you give and give (and I worked so hard to understand her) and you don't get your own basic need *to not be split on* met, it breaks your heart.I still love her to the bottom of my heart. I just can't be with her. It's soul crushing.
>>40892974that's not true love. that's unrequited love. there's difference.you loved them more than they loved you.you wouldn't accept their rejection of you (still refuse to).you guilted / manipulated them into the relationship through the expression of your love vis extravagant gifts (like ffs).you're the asshole.you try to play it off they took advantage of you and abused you. they didn't. you played yourself.
>>40893027Okay.
>>40893045the first step towards growth is acknowledgement.you can't control other people, only yourself.you can't make someone else love you, only learn to love yourself.chasing unrequited love is symbolic of a lack of love for the self. they can tell you don't love youself and reflect that.
>>40890006>Turns out one of the best practices for treating it is diagnosing CPTSD instead cause it's less stigmatising and gives you more power.yep, huge diagnostic overlap too, and bpd is basically "ur bpdemon how dare you go kys" while cptsd is more "damn that's a lot of shit you went thru, no wonder you have maladaptive responses, let's work on improving that"and being most flavors of lgtvbbq is going to fuck your shit up during childhood and beyond, in most situations
>>40882863i was recently diagnosed with bpd actually. idk if it's a majority of trannies who have it or anything but it's not a small number either. makes sense tho, being a tranny is kinda traumatic
>>40884142do you want a cookie?
are bpdemons evil?
>>40892671see>>40892650its not even closethe thing is inherited.
i am bpd
