did anyone have to gay conversion camp? My colleague at work made me attend a 2 week seminar to convert me, but failed at how gay I am. I was asked to leave.
i know a dyke who tried to do conversion therapy on herself and failed. kudos to you anon. I cannot imagine ever trying to be heterosexual.
>>40891607my colleague found my /pol/ reddit account and started sharing it with everyone if I didn't attend. HE still shared it!
transgenderism is anti-gay conversion therapy under false pretenses
>>40891710idk transgenders still seem gay to me.
>>40891719the concept of "straight trans women" implies otherwise
>>40891596I had to go to conversion therapy for a few weeks. Im still gay and now I'm also a tranny.
>>40891617>/pol/>reddit>retarded enough to agree with blackmail demandschecks out>>40891710How does this theory account for gaydens and transbians?>>40892440Based
>>40892471>How does this theory account for gaydens and transbians?they try to pressure gay people to date the opposite sexits homophobic conversion therapy from the other side
Yes i got to experience being kidnapped and put in a cage and being tortured and made to do hard labor for a year when I was 13It didn't make me cis or straight but it did give me PTSD and a burning hatred of religion
>>40892543Was there sex?
>>40891596I've been in therapy for 7 years and now the thought of having gay sex is boring to me. Falling in love with the yin to my yang is where it's at.
>>40893268How did the therapy function? As in, what did you have to do in it?
>>40893282Mostly EMDR to address abandonment, abuse and gender incongruity. I've made several lifestyle changes as well, like confronting my dad and stepdad for emotional neglect (ie watching my mother abused me) and getting away from porn.
>>40893268Its ok to be gay!!!!!!Gayness is about same sex intimacy not just sex!!!
>>40893310I was gay for 12 years bub it's bs, sorry
>>40893298You had gender incongruity?And all that therapy made you uninterested in having same sex relationships? At what point did you notice that it stopped being exciting? Are you interested in the same sex now, or are you basically asexual now? Sorry, just curious, I've never spoken to anyone who had any kind of change after these kinds of things.
>>40893316U cant escape being gay.
>>40893328AMA :D I come here to help you guys, the LGBT world is so dark.What I've discovered is that there are layers to sexuality. With men, I find it easy to look at them with contempt, to feel the need to dominate them, which is what sometimes gets twisted into lust, in order to try to calm myself down. These days, I just feel a twinge of jealousy. I want to be him. With women, I used to deeply hate them without really realising, again I had contempt for them, and I assumed that all women were out to dominate me in some way. Therapy effectively helped me undo a lot of the lies I believed. Now, I don't really experience lust, and I also feel better about myself as a man, so I notice women and very much see them as my opposite, in a positive way. I believe I have something to offer. I still look at men but it's more curiosity than lust. >At what pointIt has come and gone over the years subtly but a big change started happening when i confronted my stepdad. I had a incredibly overwhelming hatred towards him which fuelled my lust for men. Homosexuality comes from the tension between admiration and hatred.
>>40893416Do you think it's impossible to love men, be attracted to them sexually, etc. while being a man without it being some kind of hatred and admiration struggle?What does the "I have something to offer" thing mean?
>>40893557Yes, i would even say that it's impossible to be sexual with a man when there's meaningful mutual respect. Love for a man is respect, admiration, and building him up. Gay sex is a perversion like BDSM and like all perversions it's about power play. This is why gay relationships don't last for more than 5 years.>something to offeri used to think a woman would just chew me up and spit me out, therapy increased my self-esteem, basically.
>>40893624Why can't loving men be gay sex? Why would it be mutually exclusive from respect, admiration, building him up?
>>40892487>uh.. straight trannies are homophobic because in appearance theyre erasing homosexuality>but gay trannies are homophobic because... uh forcing into non-faggot grid sex or something that pooner is forcing me to put my dick in xis pussy help help
>>40891596you see if that were me, I would've told them to fuck off with their conversion therapy bullshit. That's very weak willed of you OP. Don't ever let bigots blackmail you like that again, that's genuinely pathetic behavior for you. Be your own fucking person you coward.
>>40893224dude..........
>>40893667Because gay sex doesn't bring men together, it pushes them apart, hence so much promiscuity in the gay community. It's an illusion.
>>40893741But why does it push them apart? It's intimacy. Why would it do that?Just trying to understand because all sex to me currently looks the same because I'm not having any kind, so this is hard to understand XD
>>40893769Haha I encourage you to give up masturbation and see what emotions come up, you'd learn a lot about what i'm talking about.You say it's intimacy, but it's not. Real intimacy is being honest and open. Getting naked and getting off is the easy part. But what follows is weeks of depression, because your body produced the bonding chemicals but it's not designed to be bonded to another man and it knows.
>>40893826How long is one supposed to give up on masturbation to see what you're talking about (curious because I had given up on masturbation for some periods of time, so I'm wondering whether I accidentally ended up at that point already without it clicking)? And what kind of emotions are they supposed to be?Well, what stops two men from being open and honest to one another?Does sex bring a woman and man apart too, or is it different? What about a woman and woman? Is it only male and male when it goes wrong or is it with any kind of sex?Also, I'm not sure if everyone experiences these kinds of periods of depression after sex, that seems a bit weird (but what do I know, I'm not a sex haver).
>>40893826schizo
>>40893916>And what kind of emotions are they supposed to be?Deep resentment and frustration towards your mother and father. It all comes from being made to feel small, excluded from the pack, in childhood.
>>40893972Nta. It's literally the most mainstream kind of opinion. Far from schizo.
>>40893992I don't need to stop masturbating to feel that XD
>>40894010oh so you're just lying
>>40894097The whole "man not made to bond with men because nature hurr durr" thing is pretty common to hear all around, idk. And the masturbation being a contributor to gayness thing too. So that's why I called it mainstream.
>>40894097Not the same guy.
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>>40894482oh
Conversion therapy works, so long as the goal isn’t to make a homosexual or bisexual person heterosexual, but rather celibate.
>>40898932or...castrated
>>40891596how does a coworker make you attend? you're both adults
>>40898941You’re pretty fucking dumb. We already engage in conversion therapy against heterosexual people: people with mental and neurological disorders are put through therapy to make them celibate, and nobody doubts the efficacy of that.
>>40893826Choke on a dick, you Puritan asshole!Every time I "gave up masturbation" even for a small time I've found myself to be horny about extremely gay shit. That's fucking how I even found out I wasn't straight in the first place.> be me, 19 y.o> had to live in an extremely non-private environment for 2 weeks> nowhere to jerk off, even shower is off-limits> endure it> visiting local museum> see cute twink with bleached hair, dressed oddly colorful and nice for my shithole locality> instant hard-on> imagine him giving me a head> OHFUCKFUCKFUCK> feel like almost cumming> dart out of the fucking museum and bite my own hand to distract myself> go into depression for a while because I never had this reaction over a woman, even the sexiest one
>>40898971I mean people criticize gays for being hypersexual, and really I think what that is is efforts to make gays celibate by totally repressing their sexuality backfiring
>>40898932hows that work for the preists
>>40901850it wasn't just catholic priests doing it - many, many other religions have some form of socially elevated clergy who use their power to abuse kids
