>20 yo tranny>want to save myself for marriage>incredibly embarrassed and self conscious about still being a virgin at 20I don't want to do anything I'll regret but it's embarrassing, I've only so much as kissed a partner.It's not like I'll ever find a partner with the same values as me anyways, everyone finds trannies disgusting and LGBT people seem to be so promiscuous it's gross
Nah that's based, keep working on your career, keep up your health, make friends. Someone will find you eventually
>>40899540not a tranny but im embarrassed im a 18 year old virgin
literally happened to me. i was a virgin till i was like 20 till i found this weird chaser cis girl that took T. she drove me a nearby lake in the middle of october and stripped me on the roof of my jeep under the pale moonlight.anyway it will get better, keep chasing tboys and voice training working on surgeries etc. everything moves you forward and everything has led you to this point.
>>40899540There is no age where being a virgin bottom is a negative.
>>40899549I really hope so>>40899572That's not that odd, most of my HS friends were still virgins at the end
No one who likes you is going to be upset that you are a virgin, if anything there is an 85% chance it is a positive, regardless of what anyone is willing to admit
the fact that im a 20 year old virgin just makes me a truecel and that gives me a sense of pride
>>40899540in the same spot as you. i've kinda just accepted that i'll probably be a virgin forever unless i get raped.
29 and a virgin. Laughing at these fucking zoomers.
>>40899624Christ I want to lose it do
>>40899540>26 yo tranny>over 3 years hrt>made lots of progress mentally, physically and financially>still mostly in the closet>still present male>still a virgindoes failing to even be a girl count as being a girlfailure
>>40899834If you present as male probably you look malw right?
>>40899540there's nothing a man wants more than to take his wife's virginity, you're doing a good job
>>40899857not alwaysi get gendered both ways it's 50/50i have a feminine body shape but a masculine face but if i'm lucky i'll have ffs done within a year from now
>>40899940Aight
>>40899950
>>40899963This picture is deep
>>40900042ya it's a cool vibe i like it
>>40900053Yeah he ate so much lasagna so they had to amputate 3 legs
>>40900062yeah and he's just so chill about it like it's honestly inspiring
>>40900089Yeah he needs more lasagna Aigh aight too bored to continue
>>40900099ha sametake care anon
>>40900106U2
sucker, I'm saving this garf
>>40899540My tranny gf is a virgin and is too scared to do anal with me so we just frot and kiss
>>40900445holy based batman>tranny virgin scared of anal
>>40900445My gf had only been with a trans girl before with a small wiener so she was scared of my cock. Just play with her butt. Eventually she'll want more.
>>40900582she says that maybe one day we'll do anal, but I'm not really in a rush. I like frotting and I like when we jerk each other off while making out.
>>40899540homosexuals often lose their virginity and do basically all socialized activities like that much later in life due to social stigma and it being statistically unlikely that you'll find someone you're actually into due to being like less than 7% of the population.don't worry about it. Saving yourself for marriage is a cute idea but its' very unlikely the person you'll like the most would have done the same - might be very difficult to navigate a relationship for multiple _years_ before letting someone fuck you because they'll want to fuck you. It's an important part of most relationships.
>>40899540wait to be my age, faggot
>>40899540>>want to save myself for marriagewhy thowhats the pointsex is fun :-)
Shhh. That's your male socialization talking. You are conditioned to base your worth in sexual pairings, but you are a proper lady. It's okay to be chaste and wait for someone who loves you instead of wanting a quick fuck with you
>>40901015how old are you
>>4090104923 and v. not particularly ugly. just autistic
>>40899540Being a 20yo virgin was bad but I lived through it telling myself I was just a late Bloomer. Just know it only gets worse from here and I'm no longer sure if I'll live through it or what to tell myself I am besides utterly fucking worthless and ugly.>t. 30yo virgin tranny
>>40901176are you a transbian or straight? what happened to cause you to still be a virgin at 30?
>>40901261I've tried being both but I'm only truly interested in women.Literally nobody wants to fuck me? Idk what to tell you, it's an obvious lack not an obvious cause. I've changed a lot since I started dating 10 years ago too and every new iteration of myself has been as unfuckable as the last.
>>40901282have the people you've dated shown interest in having sex/do you make a move? im just surprised cause of the transbian stereotypes of meeting up and having sex immediately.
>>40901311>have the people you've dated shown interest in having sexNo, not once it was actually happening.>do you make a moveYes, but I don't push if they're not receptive because I'm not a rapist.As for stereotypes, I've only dated a couple transbians and one bi tranny. Both transbians were slower burns and the bi girl was a non-starter that eventually cheated on me with a Nazi who looked like boogie2988.
>>40901330what happened with the most recent girl you dated/tried to have sex with? do you only want to have sex in a relationship? im sorry to hear about you being a virgin at this age nona, im sure youre very pretty and there's just been some hang ups along the way for one or both people
>>40901101I'm ten years older than you I virgin mog you hard
>>40901358>what happened with the most recent girl you dated/tried to have sex with?As far as sex, nothing, just the usual stuff about wanting it and then when I try to move towards it just not responding to it. I don't want to get into the rest of it because I don't want to jeopardize the restraining order, but it was very bad.>do you only want to have sex in a relationship?Ideally yes, but I suppose it's not a strict requirement, just someone I'm comfortable around would work. Ironically that makes me feel worse because I feel like a worthless slut internally for thinking that and *still* can't lose it.
>>40899540I'm a khhv at 26, it sucks and everyone who says its not a big deal has already had sex before
>>40901419right? it's the "money doesn't matter" from a multi millionaire but for normies
>>40901416>I don't want to get into the rest of it because I don't want to jeopardize the restraining order, but it was very bad.jesus that sounds awful nona, im sorry.>Ideally yes, but I suppose it's not a strict requirement, just someone I'm comfortable around would work. Ironically that makes me feel worse because I feel like a worthless slut internally for thinking that and *still* can't lose it.people can get very into their own heads about things, particularly when it comes to virginity, they can see it as something important and special to you and think of it as you needing to be the one to initiate it. when you say they're not receptive, what do you mean? its surprising that theyre open to a lot of other things but not sex, that would seem to make it about something other than attraction
>>40899540Based aktuallyI would probably agree if I believed in marriage ,but I dont like the idea of the government getting involved with or having any say in my relationship
>>40901458>think of it as you needing to be the one to initiate itI've tried to initiate it with all of them, this isn't lost on me.>when you say they're not receptive, what do you mean?I'm not sure how else to say it? They don't want sex, either directly stated or indirectly by trying to get out of whatever I'm doing. At both points I stop trying to have sex with them because they don't want to.>its surprising that theyre open to a lot of other things but not sex, that would seem to make it about something other than attractionI don't think I agree. I've been used for money or comfort before and it wouldn't surprise me if it was just that again. One of my girlfriends came out as ace a year after we broke up so I at least think she had a reason for it, but for everyone else I have as many answers as you do since nothing was said to me that could explain it. I do accept that I'm the common denominator between all of them but that self awareness isn't any help when *what* about me is the denominator isn't explicable. I guess at being ugly and unlikable because of how people generally react to my presence, but I don't really know either.
>>40901539what have you tried to initiate? do you try more than once or is it a try once and get rejected then not try again? do they know how you feel about sex? >I've been used for money or comfort before and it wouldn't surprise me if it was just that againcan you tell me about this? im curious. do you pass?
>>40899540even normie straights are promiscuous and gross nowadays u can’t escape it that’s why I choose celibacy
tfw 30s virgin Bottoming is just too embarrassing . I've topped before though
>>40901635>I've toppedthen you're not a virgin fakecel
>>40901621>what have you tried to initiate?Sex, fingering, mutual masturbation. With my ace ex it didn't even get to groping or kissing but I no longer hold that against her.>do you try more than once or is it a try once and get rejected then not try again?Like in the same day? No, they didn't want it so I stopped. For any time after that it's the same story, but the rejections can only pile up so high before you understand what they're getting at and stop trying all together.>do they know how you feel about sex?I don't understand what you mean? Half of the people I've tried with didn't even know I'm a virgin.>can you tell me about this?I don't know what else you'd want to hear. Just people pretending to be my friend for money or blocking me when I don't have the bandwidth to be their therapist anymore. I just meant it wouldn't surprise me to find out they were using romance as the attack surface instead. I'm not that paranoid though.>do you pass?By who's standard?
>>40901665in terms of initiation, i was asking more how you try, rather than what you try.>I don't understand what you mean? Half of the people I've tried with didn't even know I'm a virgin.I'm just thinking they might have thought you were a virgin by choice rather than something you want but just haven't had yet.>I just meant it wouldn't surprise me to find out they were using romance as the attack surface instead. I'm not that paranoid though.there would be easier ways for them to achieve this if they wanted that, especially from men if we're saying there wasn't attraction>By who's standard?by the standard of being able to live your life enough that others dont think youre trans or dont know until you tell them, at least the majority.have the last few people you've tried with ben people you were dating? they may have wanted to take things slow due to past experiences
28 / mtf / virginthe lack of sex means nothing to me. i have no drive, i don't even masturbate, who cares.the lack of romance, intimacy, LOVE absolutely kills me
if i were an ocean creature i would be a ...sea vurchin!!!! :-D
>>40901695>how you try, rather than what you tryI have been as direct as plainly asking "Can we have sex/do you want to have sex/etc". Turns out they don't want to, so I don't. How do you not understand this by now?>by choiceI just said at least half of them didn't even know I was a virgin. What is there to be confused by in that statement?>they may have wanted to take things slow due to past experiencesAnon, they have literally said to me that they wanted to have sex, some even bragged about how much they did. But when I try to make it happen they reject it or go cold and drop the subject. Only one of my exes was a virgin as well so it's not their first time jitters either.
>>40901899being honest with you, ive never been with someone who's directly asked me to have sex or do a sex act before doing it, i'd be kind of thrown off and freeze up if someone did. for me it's always been one thing leading to another with both people seeming into it the entire time and relying on the other person to say no. i mean ive only been with a couple of people and it's been after transitioning but that's how it's gone for the people ive dated
>>40901999I was just trying to get across how directly I've tried to make sex happen. I don't ask randomly or without foreplay, or always ask that directly.>one thing leading to another with both people seeming into it the entire time and relying on the other person to say noExactly... and then they say no. And then I stop. Every time.
>>40902040you said a couple of them were slow burns, which i assume means you were taking things slow and things just ended before it could reach sex?have you tried having sex with someone you haven't dated before? do people ever describe you as intimidating? ive known a couple of women who people were intimidated by their energy and were scared to make a move with them
>>40899540someone post the manmoder version of this image
>>40899540omg that's not even that old>>40900445she should get srs
