>dated a trans girl from 2014-2016>she broke up with me>I ended up having sex with multiple cis women in 2020 because I gave up hope on her ever getting back together with me>We got back together this year and it turns out she didn't get with anyone else while we were apart but I did. How do I stop hating myself and feeling guilty about this? I did not enjoy having sex with cis women at all and only forced myself to to try to get over my then ex.
>>40900705Its not cheating because hes a dude and theyre women.
>>40900705people fuck it's whatever
>>40900705Its ok gay boy. Homosexuals rarely enjoy hetero sex. Why did you put yourself through it?
>>40900705Why the fuck are you letting a bitch string you along like that for a literal DECADE + 1????
>>40901073The heart knows what it wants i suppose
>>40900705Why you force yourself into having hetero sex if you are homosexual? Self harm?
>>40900861>>40901178self id'ed gay men don't find trannies attractivetrans porn viewership on pornhub shot u 500% when they moved it from the gay site to the straight onegay men aren't into trannies, straight men are
you got dumped and tried to move on in your own way. there's nothing to feel bad about.
>>40901174 “the heart wants what the heart wants” it’s the more traditional saying anon
>>40901192there’s a point around 2 years plus on hormones when gay men stop being even slightly interested in you desu
>>40901192Straight men are not into trannies. Hetero men don't get a boner from estrogenized males unlike gamps do, who are gay and in denial. 40% of men are down for homosexual acts and lots of these people identify as straight despite being into homosexual sex. Why are some men so insecure about their homosexual desires, its nothing to he scared of. My peepee goes soft when I see mixed sex characteristics on a "woman", we are clearly not the same.Tranny porn was a way for men to experience homosexual sex while still identifying as straight. Its not possible anymore cause everyone knows its gay. Its time to accept yourself.
>>40901258There is lots of gays dating trans girls :)
>>40900705a cis pussy is LITERALLY designed to pleasure your dick broyou mean to tell me you honestly prefer estrogenized man ass to the real deal? for real?
>>40901333He is homosexual, don't bully him
>>40901352oh damn youre right im being homophobic af rn :\
>>40900705hey anon, if you were my bf that would hurt a little, i did tell him that he should try date real woman before me and if he liked if it was ok to like, leave me for a real woman, the thing is, seems to be you dig up this grave for your mental, if it helps have you tried come back to her after the break up? what was your mindset to fuck cis girls?
>>40901316i love how you think the more reasonable position is that 40% of men are secretly gay rather than the fact that men are attracted to female bodies and passing trannies have female bodieslike i know you know you're lying it's all a bit to trigger the troons or whatever but the idea that you've arrived at is that nearly half of all men are gay and that's just delightful
Sociopathic replies in here, good job guys
>>40901420Kinsey studies showed that 40% of men are willing to have homosex, its a fact, cope with it. It should make gays very happy but you all are bitter for some reason
>>40901420Porn trannies look anything but female :D
>>40900705This would be a bittersweet realization. Firstly I might worry about how quickly you moved on and whether you'd even like me like that, whether you felt in any way dissatisfied during the relationship but it would also coincide with some weird surge of relief that you managed to find (multiple) other women to hold you over before getting back together, it would be sad to think of you alone through that time.This is a confusing one but it would probably be reassuring to her to know that you're sexually capable and active enough to be regularly having sex with multiple other women over a long stretch of time. I know this might sound pretentious but when more and more men of this generation seem critically undersexed, neurotic and chud-ish, it would be a relief to know your lover isn't among that number.Like I said, she'd probably have many feelings.
>>40901996No, they don't. If this was true it would be cis gay porn they'd watch, cope.>>40902002>Casually admitting to your trans porn addictionWell, you're more honest than other chudsLosers like you acting like this while being the least attractive type of guy to any trans woman is hilarious
>>40901316GAMP's are closer to heterosexual men than homosexual men.
>>40900705The reason these losers are so mad about this post in particular is because you posted about having regular sex with multiple kinds of women while they struggle to get anyone to show interest in them, it pissed them off even more that you treat your gf with love, loyalty and respect.You essentially chadposted where incels could see it & now we're hearing them screech.>>40901333Like here for example, the seethe is palpable. You can tell he has little experience and his only option is to live vicariously through those that do have it. Because you acted differently than his fantasy of how he'd act if it was possible for him to be in your situation he's lashing out. Completely oblivious to the fact that his off-putting, antisocial behaviours & personality (talking about women like they're fleshlights) is exactly why girls are so repulsed by him
>>40902147Hetero men ain't turned on by penises and othern male features, gamps are by definition homosexual as they prefer males. Insecurity ain't cute.
>>40902062I don't watch trans porn, I have tried it but I'm just not gay, I think :)
>>40902062Gay cis porn does not allow you to pretend that you are totally hetero, silly willy
>>40900705You guys had broken up. You didn't cheat on her. You need to accept this fact.
>>40902216>>40902226Keep coping, if you watch porn regularly enough that you're out here comparing random girls to pornstars you've seen, you're an addict. Either deny it or own it, it makes zero difference to the fact that you're the type of guy no woman could ever find attractive & the only partner you'll ever have is made of pixels
>>40902231Do you think that watching porn privately is the same as actual sexual activity or are you that deep in addiction
>>40902289I'm fine and happy, thank you. I have experimented and know what I like. You can pretend you are straight but we both know the truth. I'm not insecure, but you sound very protective about being "straight", its kinda sad
>>40902298Masturbation is a sexual activity. If I would be wanking to animals, it would tell something about my nature, lets not pretend otherwise
>>40902216Homosexual men only like men or prefer men.Heterosexual men only like women.GAMP men like women and transwomen, they dislike men.Guess which group is more similar to GAMP's.
>>40902317>>40902317het men
>>40902305>Ive experimentedin my ideal world you would be in a camp with other fags
>>40902317Liking males ain't straight buddy. Tell to any woman that you like to watch and suck dicks and they tell you the same thing. You are male attracted. Gamps prefer males over females. Deal with it
>>40902324I don't care. I'm not ashamed of myself
She's lying obviouslyI think she did it out of the fact that you had sex with bio women and wanted to seem like the better loyal option out of reflexEither way you took the bait and feel upset, as plannedI mean theres a chance she is telling the truth, but if its true then why not reach out to you sooner?
>>40902315>Masturbation is sexual activityHoly incel, your hand is not a sexual partner, keep coping. And no, what porn they watch makes no difference to actually closeted men, stop discussing things you don't understand
>>40900705if she has anything to feel bad about then it’s on her for ending the relationship initially. anything is fair game once you’re single again, and waiting several years before having hookups is literally nbd
>>40902340you should be
>>40902351You masturbate to things you don't like :D you need to get out of that closet, you will feel better
>>40902305>>40902340You literally sound like you're coping even here, you've "experimented" but never found anyone willing to stick around for more than 5 seconds, I wonder why. Your insecurities are obvious, which is why you're on here pathetically trying to drag people onto your self effacing bandwagon so you don't feel as alone in your inferiority. If you were even slightly "confident" you wouldn't be hear screeching at a guy that managed to get multiple women willing to stick around & invest time with him, in fact if you were "confident", we would never hear from you.>>40902378>Masturbating to things you don't likeDid you have a stroke mid sentence or this the repression showing through
>>40902182Before you respond to any of these losers, keep this in mind
>>40902407I have a gf you silly willy. Why are you so mad when someone tells you the truth, that you are not straight, that you are homosexual. You are very angry, it must be hard when you cannot accept yourself. Its ok to be gay
>>40902441And now we've reached the larping stage, as if the insane autism & lack of social interaction isn't obvious even through text
>>40902472I'm sorry you cannot accept this part of yourself. I hope that one day you will. Then you will be less angry
>>40902494>Instantly assumes I'm some self loathing chaser he can wrangle into his pathetic self-pity partyGotta love when they plainly let you know it's all just projection of their own insecurities & desperation to drag people down to their level.
>>40902333>Gamps prefer males over females. GAMP's like women and transwomen to a very similar degree. They don't like men. They may not be 100% straight since they also like troon dick, but definitely like women.
>>40902643They still prefer males. They prefer penis.
>>40902666They don't prefer penis. They like both pussy and dick on a woman.
can i get a tl;dr for what the fuck actually happened in this thread?seems like ppl are attacking op because he likes trans girls?what the actual fuck are you autists bickering about?
>>40901316>Hetero men don't get a boner from estrogenized males unlike gamps do, who are gay and in denialBruh i get a stronger disgust reaction from watching tranny porn and seeing a pop up with add with two bearded guys going at it then i get from watching gore. You can say its gay to like tranny porn, idgaf af, but i sure as hell don't like men. If I did that would be happy about it because i am one and get along way better with them. Having two masc men in a couple is like the ultimate power couple if you look at it objectively.
>>40902678Gamps prefer males, so they prefer penis. Their attraction to females ain't that strong
>>40902678always goofy moment when the GAMP is ONLY FUCKING AMABShmmmmmmmmmm
>>40902707You like males and a penis. Not every homosexual likes the same type of men. I don't like hairy fat girls and they really repulse me, that does not mean that I am now gay
>>40902695Op was asked why he forced himself into having hetero sex when he is homosexual. Why did he self harm like that? op never answered.
>>40902731I'd fuck a skinny petite girl or a big 6'1 girl with a hairy pussy. Both are hot.But only petite "men" are hot.
>>40900705Homie, that's not cheating. You weren't together. In terms of how to stop feeling guilty. Therapy, self regulation techniques, etc. The fact you're here looking for reassurance suggests that you can't find that reassurance inside yourself, and either you can't accept her reassurance or you're afraid of what will happen if you tell her. Anyway long story short, you're feeling bad somewhere in your body, it's probably built on some past hangups. Gotta go put in the work to unlearn that so you don't feel so bad about stuff in the future.It's also fine if she is hurt over it, cause that'll be her own hangups you know? Everyone try your best! The better you can do for yourselves, the better you can do for others too! Good luck anons! I'm gonna go try and do my best today too!
it's her fault for breaking up with you
>>40902342>why not reach out to you sooner?We were in contact off and on but I didn’t think she’d actually be willing to date me again after our breakup. I was a total jerk and she dumped me for good reason but I was a much younger man and didn’t value the love we had like I do now.
>>40902903Why did you force yourself into having hetero sex?
>>40902922Because I figured “well if my ex isn’t gonna get back with me I should just get used to dating cis women instead”. I couldn’t bring myself to try dating another trans girl, she’s the only one I ever wanted.
>>40902903Did you tell her that you hate having sex with females and love male x male sex that you guys had? Did she feel good about hearing how different her body is? Did you tell her that female body repulses you and you hate it?
>>40902962She deserves better than some gamp loser desu. I would kill myself if my bf told me this
>>40902966I was drunk and told her that I had sex while we were broken up and that I didn’t enjoy it. I didn’t phrase it in the way that you did because I’m actually not gay contrary to what people seem to think in this thread. I like feminine beauty.
>>40903004Don't let them bother you, they're just projecting their own insecurities
>>40903004You hated sex with females but liked sex with males. You are a homosexual who likes feminized males
>>40900705OP is asking for help and all you can see here is people discussing if hes gay, what the fuck is wrong with yall
>>40903139He hates sex with cis women yet pretends like he is a good bf or what a straight tgirl needs. Disgusting human.
>>40903183Chasers, take note of this thread as exhibit 9000 of why trans women aren't worth your time.
>>40903139He's a coping gay man. He doesn't like real women.
>>40903183why would a trans girl prefer a guy who enjoys having sex with cis women? A guy who actually loves her body would make more sense to date.
>>40900705Heartwarming. You both deserve each other and should get married as a beautiful straight couple.
>>40904481I'm planning on marrying her. I'd genuinely rather rope than marry anyone else.
>>40903248He would not see me as the same as cis girls and would hate if I got srs
>>40904882Will you leave her if she gets a pussy? If she becomes too cis
>>40904949She has zero interest in getting srs or any other surgery.
>>40905018That did not answer the question..you would leave her if she had a pussy?
>>40905233No I wouldn’t. Sometimes I even wish she was cis just so we could have children together. But our relationship isn’t about sex. I partly think my dislike of sex with other women wasn’t as much to do with them being cis and more to do with them not being the woman I love and feeling this same guilt like I was “betraying” her even though we’d long broken up. I never stopped loving her, even when I tried to convince myself that I stopped.
>>40905313Tbh if you can wait a few years till stem cell derived organ transplants and IVG develop and get good you might be able to have those kids too
