> be me .mtf 21> pretty passoid> install tinder to try and find a partner> I talk to a lot of pretty and interesting men> I tell them im trans> instantly try to make it about fucking me> some even say they're trans virginsis this what my life will be like going forward?
I know cissoids also get weird sexual comments but at least they get to have men who wanna be in relationships with them
>>40912636>downloads hook up app>finds guys wanting hookups Retard
if you tell a stranger about your genitals they're going to think about sexeither put it out there up front before matching, or save that conversation for after you've agreed to go on a date
>>40912636yeah pretty much.and dont do anything for free either.make sure you get something from them.
>>40912645how am I supposed to get a date then, third spaces dont exist anymore
>>40912655inst telling guys that youre trans after you've gone on a date more dangerous
>>40912662yeah they do. just go to any nightlife spot and hang out.not even once.. like just live there. and give each spot like 1-2 months.and you'll see all sorts of people come out of the woodwork. some people are fast and others are slow but they all come around eventually.
>>40912636try to not use hookup apps and instead meet partners through events, mutual friends and irl networking
>>40912636Yes.Get SRS and go stealth.
>>40912703would I get hate crimed if I try to go on stealth without getting srs yet?
>>40912662You don’t have a career do you anon? Third place is networking and job related events nowadays.
>>40913024inst job related relationships frowned upon?
>>40913024Nta I've never worked with dateable guys my age.... You guys had coworkers who weren't teenagers, flamer gays, or men +40?
why do people use tinder? you are all disgusting normies and you deserve what you get, i got my boyfriend from a gaming discord and i wouldnt have it any other way
>Tell a man who thought you are a 9/10 that you are actually a 4/10. They immediately stop considering you for a long-term relationship and just see you as an easy hookup.It has always been like this.
>>40913614FEELSthis is exactly how it goes
>>40912636I don’t get it. As a cis guy, the thing I like most about trans girls is how easy to talk to they are and how their interests are (I’m sorry ladies) more malebrained but in a good way. It’s like having a best bro who’s also a cute girl. I’ve never even cared to fuck one, I just think they’re cute and friendly.
>>40912644Nah, they don't.Not any more than trannies anyway.I sexualize both and yet I'm perfectly capable of having a relationship with both.It's just a matter of interest. Most people won't be interested in you, how hot you are will only shift the percentage of people that want to fuck you, and while you could argue beautiful people might get into more relationships I don't think you want any of those, they are miserable and vapid affairs.Genuine, unflinching love is a precious resource and anyone that stumbles into it knows it and knows just how random and unfair it is.
>>40912675sounds extremely expensive
>>40914108I personally dont have male brained interests but at one point or the other I interacted with those hobbies cause I had boy friends
>>40913515Doesn’t have to be from the same workplace. Just you meet someone you wouldn’t have met any other way through your contacts and job. >>40913566What do you do anon?
>>40912645is tinder a hookup app?
>>40914282Regardless, a cute girl who's into video games, anime, music, etc on a deeper level than your average normie woman is the biggest plus for the average trans girl. That being said some of the super HSTS trans girls who are just normie women don't interest me at all either.
>>40912724Honestly no. It's possible but most guys will get mad and kick you out, they're not gonna do much more than that.However I'm not sure what you mean. Like clothed BJs? I wouldn't risk it if i were pre op
>>40912636Sorry girlie, it only gets worse after you hit the wallt. 30+ tranny
>>40912662>third spaces dont exist anymoreyes they do you just never go to them because you're addicted to your phonelock it in a dungeon for a month and you'll go the fuck outside and meet normal people that say normal things
>>40916293today i went outside with some friends and there was a ton of people looking at mei thought i was giving gigahon but actually someone asked for my ig so i guess they were looking cause i was giving giga hot
>>40917247good girl
>>40917345hehe thanks sir
>>40912636I would tell you to get off of tinder but idk how else young people dateTinder is only good for casual sex if you're hot. If you're female (or close enough) you can try to get free meals and drinks out of boys (don't do that please).>oh i walk into a gun store and they want to sell me guns lol wtf niggers??
>>40914149yeas especially when discord is free and the latest streamer friends game is only like $8
>>40917610but discord men are hideous
>>40912636I recommend going out to queer events, bars, outings. Art bazaars and craft meetups maybe even protests and mutual aids.But you need to stopp trying to run headfirst into dating genuinely. Be casual. Network. You have to be someones friend before you can date them and surprisingly alot of people seem to forget thatApps i recommend: Lex if you filter out the white cis people and drug dealers. Grindr if you ONLY put t4t on profile name and filter by trans.Taimi and Hinge are eh but ive gotten nice dates from them but genuinely hve met some of my exs and partners on Lex/grindrAlso. you have cis men hitting you up, snap back to reality and accept the fact half of them are gonna immediately treat you like a sex object/goal
>>40917886I could go to a bar maybe
>>40919178I BELIEVE IN YOUUUU DO ITTTstay safe and know ur limits with drinking! have fun ^^
