2 questions for my fellow transbians: How frequently are you intimate with cis women? Do you feel comfortable approaching them?
>>40913227Never and no
>>40913231Any reason why?
more interested in cis men than cis women tbqhon
>>40913267Cuz it’s wrong unlike t4t
I'm not transbian but I've been with a woman, I never approached her and I never started anything, it was always her call and it was always awkward, I've talked to her about it but I've never gotten a solid answer to why would she want to do that, only stuff like " I like you" or "I was in the mood".It always took me a lot to get off and sometimes when I made her know I didn't want to do it she'd start getting angry to the point of being rough, claiming that "I liked that", it's not that frequent, once a month sometimes, not always, we've gone for up to two years without doing anything.When she's not being a psychobitch we cuddle, that happens more frequently as I enjoy that way more, on a good month we go for up to a week doing that but then she just snaps and spends the next weeks being a terrible person.
>>40913227>How frequently are you intimate with cis women?my wife is cis so whenever she or i are horny.>Do you feel comfortable approaching themno
>>40913319T4t is ok! I prefer being with cis women personally >>40913325If you’re not happy in this situation I hope you’re able to leave soon>>40913339Good job on being married!
>>40913359I'm happy, there's a huge reward for enduring all of that, it makes it all worth it and I love them so much, I could give my life for them.
>>40913379Well I hope you stay safe im glad you’re happy!
>>40913426^^She might be terrible but they are the cutest gremlins I've ever met, they gave me a reason to live.
>>40913227I’d say I’m biSince I’m boymoding some girls assume I’m an alt or emo guy. I won’t have sex with women because it makes me feel dysphoric having to top. I’d only ever have sex with one if I really like her and she respects my boundaries.
>>40913471That’s kinda where I’m at rn. Usually dating apps are the best way to meet top women. Her is a great one>>40913456That’s so sweet! <3
>>40913359> I prefer being with cis women personallyWhat? That’s just transphobia
>>40913545>Her is a great oneHER is terrible because it keeps feeding me cis women who like me and I want to be with trannies, not enough trannies on that app.
>>40913227never. and no.Im pan but I am skeptical on all cis people and wouldn't go out of my way to make conversation with them.
>>40914629Well grindr is the best option for that unfortunately Sleeping with cis women can be healing
>>40914443Huh
>>40913227im bisexual boymoder but ive never slept with a cis woman and dont plan to because i'd probably cry from her mogging me. approaching cis women in general is fine. im friends with a few.
>>40914825I’ve cried before and their usually very nice about it and it doesn’t affect the rest of the night thankfully
>>40914867ehh ive interacted with cis lesbians before on a dating app and got told that we're not sexually compatible because i have bottom dysphoria :/
>>40914892>because i have bottom dysphoria :/>cis lesbiansthat doesn't make sense
>>40914892Yeah that sucks :(I had to put "I won’t top" in my bio and that seemed to work fine
A cis woman sexted me her pussy once. It was really gross but I made sure she felt like a pussy queen of coirse.
>>40913227never, no. khh since figuring out i don't really like men (over a decade). real women are scary
>>409151841. You are mean2. Don’t speak about women like that it’s very disrespectful and disgusting
>>40914892thank god ive never had this experience>>40914443no desu if you're more normal than terminally online they're usually easier to relate to and i think being with another tgirl would just leave us in a vicious dysphoria cycle lol one person's dysphoria is enough for a relationship to handle already imo
>>40915218I promise that they are not scary nona It’s just very nerve racking
>>40915325Yeah 2 people with dysphoria would be a lot to handle
>>40913227like once a week and yes?i'm post op though so i don't have any dysphoria
>>40916289That’s great!What’s it like? If you’re comfortable sharing of course
>>40916533wdym? it's a vagina we're lesbians we eat each other out and use straps and stuff
>>40916682Being post op and not have bottom dysphoria
>>40916762oh idk i'm just a girl now i don't think about it much
>>40916797Ah ok understandable
>>40915069yeah I dont know either. the girl that said that and I had great chemistry too. then there was an "afab trans masc nonbinary person" (their description) who wanted me to exclusively top them when I had told them I couldn't whatsoever. I broke it off with them. This was on taimi and hinge :/>>40915087yeah.. I just kinda put "bisexual" and described myself without thinking of sex because well um.. i wasnt
>>40917665Yeahhh being on a dating app and not looking for sexual intimacy is roughI’ve never used hinge or tiami so I can’t really understand those
>>40915297Did you not notice how I was a victim in that situation? She walked away with an ego boost and I had my appetite ruined.
>>40917752Unless it was an unsolicited nude then yes you’re a victim If it wasn’t you are just being disrespectful
