Ive wanted to be a femboy so badly for awhile, even considering taking it a step further and becoming a transgirl if I liked it enough. But when I finally got a skirt and fem clothes, when I put them on a just feel...nothing. I think they look nice but I dont feel anything, no happiness, no euphoria. Whats wrong with me?
youre actually normalgender euphoria isnt real
>>40918577I guess that depends what it is you really wantsome people really care about clothes more than anything else, and a lot of the time they're happy just being able to dress up occasionally and aren't interested in transitioning further. There's a difference between being a femboy and just wearing a skirt. If what you want is actually to look like a femboy then a skirt doesn't really do that, a femboy looks like a femboy in normal guy clothes too.
>>40918680>a femboy looks like a femboy in normal guy clothes too.I know but I assumed just putting on some fem clothes would atleast provoke some kind of emotion out of me, so that I could know if it felt right to me before going out of my way to try and achieve a femboy body.
>>40918776well you should think more about it I guess. did you like the way you looked in the skirt?
>>40919161I guess not. I hate how I look regardless of what clothes I wear though. I dont know if any amount of fashion can make me look good Ive been thinking about this for awhile actually, I actually got the clothes a few months ago, I just decided to post about it now
>>40919191it sounds like you have a pretty good idea of how you feelmaybe you should talk to a doctor or maybe a therapist? That's a good step to take
>>40919262From what ive read on here, I probably shouldnt go to a doctor when it comes to gender issues since they dont usually know what theyre talking about. Id assume the same thing would go for therapists, especially since mine is a very old lady.
>>40918577Congrats you’re a regular guy your thirst for satisfaction is quenched by your complete lack of yearning; leaving you mildly disappointed for the rest of your life
>>40919284there's no harm in going to a doctor or a therapist, sometimes they'll be able to help and sometimes they won'tif you want to try hrt I suggest going to /hrtgen/ and learning the information in the infographics, which is enough to know more than most doctors at least. don't worry about how you feel about the clothes. For you the problem is your body, clothes are really superficial. I think if you were at a point where you didn't hate how you looked so much, being able to dress in ways like that might feel a lot better
>>40918577youre a homosexual but wont let yourself be one outside of a specific aesthetic fixation
>>40918577idk I fapped like crazy the first time I put on panties
>>40919315But I really really dont want to be a regular guy though. The thought of living the rest of my life as an average masculine man makes me want to cry
>>40918577Being trans and being a femboy are different anon, its not a kink, you just have agp
>>40919408they clearly don't have agp
>>40919408I know its different? I know its not a kink lmao. Theres nothing inherently sexual about being a femboy, if thats what you are thinking. And how am I agp if im attracted only to men
>>40919470you're not agp, you're just trans
>>40919481Not sure about that either.I didnt feel any gender euphoria from wearing fem clothes while most trans people report that they do.
>>40919530"gender euphoria" is mostly a euphemism for getting a boner from wearing women's clothes, it definitely isn't a big part of being trans. here are the criteria for gender dysphoria, I think you qualify personally I had a really similar experience to you, before transitioning it made me unhappy to wear women's clothes because it only exaggerated how masculine my body felt. I'm way happier after a few years on estrogen and laser hair removal and stuff, because my body is way more important than clothes.
>>40919589Thank you for clarifying the gender euphoria thing, I was under the impression it was one of the most important aspects of being trans. The only criteria that I meet for certain is a strong desire to be treated as the other gender. I also have a desire to be the opposite gender, aswell as to be rid of my secondary sex characteristics, but im not sure if it would count as a "strong" desire. I definitley dont want to be rid of my primary sex characteristics though, also why im hesitant to take estrogen, i like having a normal dick.
>>40918577just be a femboy duh those are hot too
>>40919663well I guess it depends how much you want to risk your dicklike hrt won't make it fall off, but it will probably shrink and not get hard as easily
>>40919732I dont mind less frequent erections but i definitley dont want it to shrink. I know some femboys use topical testosterone on their dicks to prevent the effects but im not sure how effective it actually is. In general there seems to be a lot of conflicting information on the actual risks estrogen has on the dick, ive seen people say entirely different things about how it effected them and its just confusing.
>>40919800it'll definitely shrink a bit but maybe less than an inch if you use it regularlyI would recommend trying cialis before topical test
>>40919815Why cialis? Why not topical test?
>>40919846it's easier to get and cheaper, and it doesn't have the risk of masculinizing the rest of your body
>>40919854Is it just as effective though? Thats honestly what matters most to me
>>40919906it's hard to guarantee anythingyou might not need it at all, or it might shrink multiple inchesbut it probably won't so long as you use it regularly
>>40919937That sucks, how am I gonna be able to make a decision on whether to take estrogen or not if the results vary so wildly
>>40920014you can never know for sure, you just have to try
