Anyone else here shunned by their family for being gay?
They talk about how they think gay's are disgusting. But they used their woman intuition power's and know I am gay without telling them. Don't ask don't tell situation.
>>40921540mine don't even talk about how they hate gays - it's weird - all their prejudices are publicly on the down low - it's just CLEAR they are disgusted by me being gay and gays in general
>>40922348It suck's. People hate thing's they don't understand. It would be easier if science nerd's hurried up and found what cause's it.
>>40922618then conservatives will just abort all the gay fetuses
>>40922622Shieeeet. Idk how to feel about that one.
>>40922630bad?you should NOT WANT them to abort the gay fetuses...
>>40922636Why? I repressed being gay for 12 year's. Everyone hate's us. Why would I want more kid's to have to go through that. Obviously I don't want them to abort gay fetuse's..... But damn it suck's being gay sometime's.
>>40922651men don't hate us, only women do
>>40922656I guess. Women are really mean.
>>40922656Men will attack you for being gay. I am itching to fight someone if they have no weapon's so they can see what happen's when you call a guy like me "faggot".
>>40919159Not really officially. I think they stopped calling and inviting me because I started remembering all the sexual and emotional abuse I endured as a child. Both my parents are now addicts anonymous types and pretend like they can't remember it too. But I definitely have had less contact with family overall since I came out officially as bisexual (gay lite) and started painting my nails
>>40922703men only attack to impress womenthink of all the movies about male criminals - men being violent is glorified>>40922921the uh whole point of shunning is it is unofficial
>>40922926It's less shunning and more like "we don't talk about uncle anon". More like being unpersoned, though my parents go through the motions of telling me every time they go on some international expedition to subtly remind me that if only I had had my life together better then I too could be a world traveler by now (they dumped grandma's asbestos and mold filled house on me at 21 and fucked off the Florida for half a decade while I struggled to afford bills and upkeep)
>>40922949that's what shunning is, anon
>>40922926Straight men are bumbling unhygenic brute's that let their emotion's dictate their every move.
>>40919159meI once saw my dad had gay porn in his search history, but he married a woman so I guess that was fine for them
>>40922994I guess it is huh? Feels weird to admit I guess
>>40923564its sort of an unofficial crime
>>40919159genuinely don’t know how people are so brave being open about it. I grew up listening to my family yell “faggot” at the tv so I didn’t even try being open, but it makes me sad, I’ve never felt safe enough to date and I really want to get married but I feel like I’m too much of a pussy to be open about it
>>40925420I think most gays tried to hide it to some degree given that it's clear everyone around us wants us to hide it.
my dad was pretty upset for like 10 years.>>40922656>men don't hate uslol
>>40925947men hate gay people because women direct them to - same reason men don't show emotions other than anger or hold hands in public - it's not their own decision, they do it to impress females and fit into society that expects it - but it's not in their nature and they would stop doing it if females went away or stopped hating gays
>>40925960Do they do all of this because women tell them too?
>>40926329women aren't prosecuted for the things they do wrongcriminal justice is a way of patrolling male behavior, the rules don't apply to women
>>40923564very weird to admit, even weirder to tell those shunning you