it has been like four years since i have been "misgendered" and it always seems to surprise people when i bring up being mtf, which i feel like in most cases should be enough to just say "okay, i pass; no-one knows"but i look, like, really, REALLY obvious. or at least i feel as though i do. from straight on, i'm fine, and even pretty sometimes, i think, but from any other angle it seems almost impossible to me that anyone can't tell. i dunno if that's just because i can't normally see, like, the sides of my face or back of my head or whatever etc and so those parts of me are a little more alien and weird by nature, or if they actually look super weirdand then on top of that, i don't know whether, if they DO look super weird, it's a kind of weird that is somehow still totally write-off-able and therefore passable, OR literally everybody everywhere always knows and they're just being REALLY nice to me, which seems exceedingly unlikely, but also no-one in my life has ever really been explicitly mean or unkind to me in all of my twenty-three years which ALSO seems exceedingly unlikely so maybe i'm some kind of hyperautist who can't determine even how i'm being treated by other peopleanyways tl;dr: title pretty much how do i know if i pass, like, for real and for sure
>>40931591>but i look, like, really, REALLY obvious. or at least i feel as though i doyea i am in the same place. i pass all the time but still feel like i look like a man. ill let you know when i find a solution that isnt lobotomy
>>40931603lel </3i am hoping someone on the board will have one for us both then
>>40931591idk, could give measurements/outline i guess but that doesnt tell the whole story.really the only way is to post pics/video, just go to passgen and use unsee
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>>40931591i hear that youre trying to find a problem where there isnt one and that you wont be satisfied until then. go on uhmegle until one of them clocks you then u can spend the next 4 years thinking about this
>>409315911-10 how passable is your voice?how tall are you?1-10 how standard (for women) are your mannerisms?
>>40931956op replies with arbitrarily low numbers and u reaffirm her dysphoria
>>40931846i would but we've got a discussion going over here >>40923052 about excactly why i should not do this lol. measurements and outline wouldn't help i don't think because i'm pretty sure it's mostly my face/head>>40931927i was looking for this one but could not find it lol>>40931946i don't want to find a problem i want to know for certain a hundred and one percent that there is not one>>40931956>voicebeing conservative, 8 (meaning that it is not perfect (i don't necessarily want it to be, but that is an entirely different thing)) but it has never been clockedthis i will post bc i recorded it for voicegen anyways https://voca.ro/1lyF3rkGW0yj>height5'7''>mannerismsprobably like 3 i am a complete social maladroitbut really i don't know how to gauge this and it isn't something i think about
>>40931591I don't get misgendered, but I always wonder if people know and are just being nice. Ah, the fun of being a tranny
>>40932029Your voice is extremely passable which is one of the most important things, plus your height is only two inches above the average for adult women (at least in the US)
>>40931591walk by any gender critical/terf rally if those happen near you and see if you get handed a pamphlet about keeping biological men out of women’s spaces
>>40932089I pass those out to everyone, regardless if they're a faggot or not.
>>40932029>https://voca.ro/1lyF3rkGW0yjBAHAHA!HE THINKS HE SOUNDS LIKE A GIRL!
>>40932040i wish it were fun!!!!!!!!!!!>>40932075yea..like i said, i think it's really just about what's above my shoulders. i'm fairly certain i DO look like a woman; i just DON'T want to look visibly trans, which is my fear. i just don't know how to be sure of that.>>40932089this is actually a really good idea anon i don't see those around here but if i ever do i will try this
>>40932135You will never pass.Your parents and school mislead you down a horrible path by affirming your mental illness as an identity and you will either live to regret it or kill yourself.
>>40932135You will always pass.Your parents and school prevented you from being forced down a horrible path by affirming your gender and you will live with love in your heart without wanting to kill yourself
>>40931927Me in this photo
>>40932172lol thanks nonnyunfortunately i didn't get to transition until after my parents or school could have had anything to do with it. trollposter is just stupid. but things seem to have turned out alright, anyways :) i just have to reconcile the me that i see with the me that the world sees, somehow. which maybe means finding a terf rally to go to lmao
