i'm an incel tranny because i'm ugly and unpassable

>>40932508
Even the ugly and unpassable ones are having sex. You'll soon have sex too.

>>40913388

>>40932536
Honestly not many incels in there

>>40932504
It's super easy to get laid in the queer community.
Incels are not a problem since you basically need to be the most mentally ill, avoidant, perma neet to not have a bunch of people still be willing to fuck you.
There is a reason why former incels stop being incels real quick once they troon out.

Im a personalitycel, I understand male - female relationship dynamics on an analytical level, which causes me to resent society and anyone who takes part in it, at the same time I am too detached from every day life (autism + avoidant + regularly have disassociative episodes) to feel the warmth from other people

9 years hrt, get wolf whistled whenever I show skin, fit, plenty of surgery, started hrt 18 tug tec, I kW I could find a chaser to fuck me, i just don't care for causal sex and I'm too repulsed by other people to want anything resembling a relationship

>>40932504
Never met me then

>>40932504
i am a trooncel

>>40932583
>I understand male - female relationship dynamics on an analytical level, which causes me to resent society and anyone who takes part in it
What's wrong with it?

>>40932504
I’m a volcel

im an lgbt volcel

>>40932622
>>40932617
More like copecel lmao

>>40932624
fuck you i wont be sullied

>>40932504
I'm a 30yo incel tranny. Yes we exist, no we're not having sex.

>>40932598
I wrote a schizo wall of text and deleted it, it's easier if I just say that I don't like how sex appeal and depth/maturity are considered to inversely proportional in women in the west. You see this everywhere, woman gets a promotion, suddenly she stops wearing makeup and gets fat because her femininity made her seem like a vapid whore to her cumbrain psychopath superiors.

Easiest way into a man's heart is through his erection, I don't want to debase myself to please a potential lover, I want there to be a mutual understanding that I find sucking his cock while wearing whorish makeup to be as enjoyable, interesting and exciting and self fulfilling and he finds being the recipient of, but nope, enjoying this means I'm just a dirty sex object in his eyes, not a person but some kind of subhuman companion like a dog. If I want to retain my dignity ill need to find a man who's okay with me putting hard limits on my own sexual expression.

This is clearly a false dichotomy and yet it's so prevalent in the inter-subjective unconscious thanks to literal millennias of sex roles all around the world, I see it in every piece of media I consume (fucking women being called "conquests", smart women acting like flirty vapid bimbos on affluent podcasts that have primarily male audiences, actresses accepting roles where they do nothing but stand around with perfect faces and sad eyes while the ugly men and old men do all the thinking) and it drives me insane, it feels like I'm constantly being pressured into accepting this contract as part of transitioning, or otherwise my brainwashed future husband won't feel like real man.

>>40932660
ugly women and old men* do all the thinking

again it's important to point this out, women can be people, just as long as they present as lazily as men do.

>killed an incel thread with my incel rant

>>40932660
Idk it seems like you just want an open-minded guy who is as sensitive to gender dynamics as you and there are a lot of them around anyway

we are all desperate. all of us.

Never been in a gincel thread?

>>40932966
Yeah but how many of them are reasonably attractive, chasers, willing to put up with my autism and avoidant personality, and most importantly, interesting to me?

Like last night I went to bed dreaming about reenacting Chinese cultural revolution propaganda posters with my imagined husband, I can't describe why this seems like such a fun or interesting thing to do (I'm not a tankie I just love 20th century history) but I've been weirdly fascinated with it for a while, what guy wants that in a woman?

same "woman" also eats the same 3 meals every day, works as a software eng, listens to classical music, has 4k hours in paradox games. I don't measure up, life would be so much easier if I was a blanchard was right and all male brained trannies were transbians.

Only thing I have going for me is that I atleast like looking pretty but even then I'm super insecure about it because I feel like my all coworkers see me as an object if I wear too much makeup or show too much skin
dededebohahodqdqcamatdqgqxocabo AAAAAAAAAAAA I HATE BEING A PERSON SO MUCH

>>40933106
>Yeah but how many of them are reasonably attractive
In literally the first sentence you become guilty of the exact same thing you seethe about men doing to you.

I don't mean to brag but I don't have sex every day

Also gincel << fagcel

>>40933106
Those malebrained hobbies are shared by a lot of men.

>>40933120
At least you have sex once in a while

>>40933117
No? I accuse men (and other women) of being brainwashed into viewing sexy women as dumb servile objects, I don't mind if a man wants an attractive partner, that's just a biological constant that I can only blame "God" for.

Attractive men can be smart too and everyone knows that, not that I demand a 6 foot tall gigachad anyway, I just want someone who's face I can stare into without feeling grossed out and who is reasonably fit (I. e sub 25% body fat percentage)

>>40933130
yeah but that makes men ashamed of being with you, men are attracted to feminine "souls", they'll feel gay if you came across as a bro, having mostly masculine hobbies makes you seem like a bro.

>>40932504
have you seen all the virgins on here posting about how they wish they had a bf?

>>40932583
KYS

>>40933251
WHY?

>>40933188
The problem is that our desire for beauty and the sexual dynamic of men being dominant means that when the male sexual role is triggered by beauty, the man’s job is to display dominance and disrespect.

>>40933188
>that makes men ashamed of being with you, men are attracted to feminine "souls", they'll feel gay if you came across as a bro, having mostly masculine hobbies makes you seem like a bro.
You need to talk to more men. This is pure projection and brainworms.

>>40933325
Exactly, I could believe that men are literally biologically hardwired to view beautiful women as pets to tame and keep as trophies.

I want to more beautiful, but I dont want to be seen as object or even some darling bambi that needs to be treated like a kid

>>40933345
I'm speaking from experience
A few days ago I told an anecdote about how a young cousin dared me to eat a spicy pepper and I, wanting to impress the kid, obliged which resulted in me running 10 minutes to the local shop to buy yoghurt because my mouth wouldn't stop burning, in my boymoding days that would have had everyone howling with laughter, instead I just felt the stern disapproval or even confusion of my coworkers who understood that my behaviour was that of a juvenile boy and not the woman I'm pretending to be.

After that I had to excuse myself to go cry in the toilet, being a woman means I'm only allowed to talk about true crime and traveling apparently.

Moments like this make me wish I could be a ghost or some other kind of imperceptible observer, because clearly I am not cut out to be a human.

>>40933510
Either you’re coping, transbian, or way less attractive than you think. Men who are uncomfortable with patriarchal gender dynamics in the bedroom are pretty common. Lots of them are highly educated, employed, tall, and in shape. It’s not a huge percentage of the population but they’re easy to find in a city.