I'm in the middle of questioning my own stuff and part of not being able to accept it is that online trans women are either miserable, delusional and/or overly horny and I just feel uncomfortable with them. Every single trans space online is just these guys calling each other "Sweetie, Girlie, Sister, etc", telling each other that it was the best decision they ever made; meanwhile they post selfies weekly where they look like a 45+ man in ill-fitting womens clothing. Using face filters and claiming to be natural and saying shit like "Bushy eyebrows make you look fem". It all just feels either fake and artificial or outright self destructive.When I think about myself transitioning, I don't think about changing anything about myself other than the way I present and caring more about my physical look. Afaik I've always been straight, the idea of being with a man as a man and men wearing makeup is not attractive to me. But I can see myself being more willing to experiment with men who meet a stupid amount of prerequisites if I'm a passable trans woman.Where does the fetishizing end and the genuine desire begin? Why do so many trans women act like this is a game of roleplay and I feel like I'm only having trouble accepting I want to be a woman because of how the vocal minority of trans women act? Do I not see trans men doing the same because it's not as fetishized by straight people?
>>40933474omg who cares
>>40933491So are you miserable because you don't pass or just in general
>>40933474Just focus on yourself
>noooooooo you can't be a le doomer that's le bad
>>40933474I can already tell you are going to be the most annoying, transphobic pickme imaginable, constantly comparing yourself to and putting down other women, concluding that everyone is a fetishist except you, then wondering why no one wants anything to do with you, and wrongly concluding it’s because you’re trans or they just can’t handle “the truth.” Yep, transitioning will go well for you with your competitive, busybody mindset.
>>40933474I'm not reading all that, just transition if you want to who cares what random twitter troons are doing
>>40933474if you want your transition to be successful you need to leave your home and avoid being a discord user for a looong time. I wasnt active on any big discord servers for the better part of 2 years and it helped me significantly.I took example of trans women who actually leave their home and have real hobbies and dont make being an 'uwu cutegirl trans girlie' their whole personality
I really don't think you need to completely troon out Annnon I'm struggling with Uh coming out as they say. I've basically shut out my family because when I broached the subject they don't want anything to do with that topic they just want to ignore it like it isn't a factor'cause sometimes I gotta admit it's nice to put on some a nice outfit some nice clothes and just pretend for a minute and then you get back to the real real world Do not please do not start taking any kind of hormones HRT etcetera etcetera etcetera Just experiment with being yourself. I'm Moar Important to Me than they are. You are too
idk does genuine desire means having the same fetishes but passing and attractive? I really dont know
>>40933491I Care.
>>40933602it's always this and you know they're one of the john 45+ they talk about
>>40933887Caring too much about behavior that doesn’t directly affect them whatsoever is always a dead giveaway
>>40933474Me and my trans friend ,when we talk about trans stuff ,just talk about voise training and HRT and how muc our dysphoria is fukking us up
