That's literally it. This is the question. I'm a transgender man and I don't know if gay dudes would actually like me in the same way I like them.Though honestly I kind of doubt it, being a transgender man sucks sometimes because most time whilst trying to find a relationship it's always just a guy wanting to fetishize you. I've been getting desperate at this point, all I want is an actual relationship.
>>40939224you don't want to date the gay dudes that like you
>do men who are only attracted to men like women who dress like men
>>40939224Gay men are sexually attracted to trans men who can pass as cis men. I met my husband and made sure we connected first as cis men, then when I decided I actually wanted to bang him I fished for if he could handle T dick or not, when I determined it wasn't a dealbreaker I let him know my situation, we banged and have been together ever since
>>40939263I'm not a woman dressing like a man. I just used to be a woman because I was born as one, it was completely out of my control. I'm not sure if you're transphobic towards transmascs or not but seriously just stop.
Why not trying your luck with women?
As a BI man I think it's possible for sureI've found some trans men attractive for their masculinity especially if they're hairy and a bit chubb
>>40939314I'm not attracted to women, I've always been attracted to men.
>>40939308>I can't help refusing to accept that gay men are gay
>>40939316So do you see trans men as male?
>>40939324Then why make yourself unappealing to them?
>>40939338Listen, there's a huge difference between being a transgender man, and being a woman. I USED to be a woman, I live my life as a man. Cisgender women life their lives as women. You're either completely stupid or confused.
>>40939355Wdym?/gen
>>40939347That's hard to sayI definitely want to and I feel like I could but I definitely need to talk to more trans men first
>>40939371gay men don't want to date women, sorry
>>40939412Dude, seriously. Just stop calling me a woman, if I'm not misgendering you then why are you doing it to me? I wasn't being rude, I was just asking a question in the first place. I'm not a woman, I was one at a point but I no longer am.
>>40939464have you ever been on 4chan before
>>40939464you can "misgender" me all you like, it won't make you a man, or make gay men interested in your female body
>>40939380Someone who looks like a pubescent soi with a beard and a vagina scares away those who like penis and those who like the female form by almost an equal measure.
>>40939404Y'know what? Fair, I pat you on the back for being sincere with me when you don't stand to benefit from it. I hope you run into people who are that honest with you. It's easy for me to see trans men as male since I am one and was one of those boy since birth, everyone accepted me, and medically transitioned successfully as soon as possible cases. When I was young the images circulating of trans men were as masculine as possible, because the novelty was look how dramatic of a change someone can make to their body, but now most representation is saturated with men who look like women as much as possible because modern novelty is look how much someone can look like a woman and still insist they are maleIn a world that's vitriocally transphobic just the willingness to see past the mockery and attempt to understand our existence as sincere is appreciated
>>40939504What's a soi?/gen
>>40939524being trans is homophobictelling gay men they need to sleep with women is homophobic
>>40939531I never said that Gay men have to sleep with people they don't want to. It's fine if a gay man doesn't like me since I have a vulva, I don't really care. What I am looking for is a gay man who would be interested in me regardless of my genitalia and birth gender, a genuine relationship is what I want where it doesn't matter what I have between my legs.
>>40939525Someone who looks like a living soijak
>>40939562Just as you have your preferences and requirements, most gay men do too; in this case, a penis. So you can't simply ask someone to love you "no matter what's between your legs," because you don't do that either. Unfortunately, very few men who don't have a fetish or some other mental issue will want you. So if you're really desperate but don't want to detransition, you can try adopting a middle-of-the-road look that allows you to feel more or less comfortable while not being disgusting to other men, something more tomboiysh or butchesque
I'm currently with a FtM but i am bisexualI just hate women
Been together with my boyfriend (ftm) for almost 5 years and I'm planning on buying a ring soon. Lots of communication and lots of love. Never known or thought of him as anything other than a man.also sex is peak
>>40939942But are you gay?
>>40939525this has to be larp lmaooo
>>40939562You have to stop engaging with the trolls.
>>40939525please leave this website. itll be good for you. and i mean this genuinely
You guys think you know what it's like "to be a man"?Fucking hilarious.Being a man is not a homogenous principle except solely to describe people with a penis. Otherwise it's just a sociocultural concept. It changes depending on the society and culture. Even masculine and feminine is just an arbitrary grouping of traits that changes depending on social and cultural values. Which is ironic that you intentionally avoid being socially treated like a man - as society truly treats them... Even marking yourself as different to malign men when the chance of you being tarred with the same brush arises, or a man actually with a penis does something you disagree with.But hey, you want to get surgery or take hormones, that's your choice. It doesn't really change anything. Doesn't matter either way. But you'll never be a man because you'll never have a penis.. at least not in your lifetime.When technology finally catches up and you can truly "become a man" it's going to be amusing when you realize I was right and you wasted your life on a truly pointless endeavor to realize you are still you and having a dick changes nothing because what you really want is validation. Unless you want to father children, having a penis means dick. It means as little as those titties you cut off or that uterus you dug out. It's just meat. Enjoy your fetish and cosmetic surgery addiction. Cause that's all trans is.
>>40939989You're right and I hope he listens to you
>>40939224just date a bi chaser poonbro it's not worth it real gays don't want us
>>40939380>/gen
>>40939224A quick look at this board shows a disproportionate number of straight men that are only “gay” for pooners saying the magic words to keep you around while plotting to forcibly impregnate and detrans you. Tbh if you haven’t had a hysto dating a cis man at all is playing with fire.
>>40939496You're not a gay man. You're a straight woman pretending to be gay for clout and internet TERF points.
Yes I would love to cuddle an ftm.
>>40939224No they All Veiw pooners as WomenEspecially the Ones That say they dont. Smart chasers Grift For more pussy. But its A Lie at the End Of the Day.
>>40940002you type like the navy seals copypasta bro. this is embarrassing
>>40940828holy shit now that you've said that I can't unsee it, the brainworms did him dirty
>>40939224idk if this is a troll but turn back now dude. this board sucks for ftms, i can tell youre either young or tumblry by your mannerisms and assumptions everyone here jokes about rape and racism and 70% of discussion about trans men is about how theyre actually all stupid women specially if theyre gay trans men. to answer your question its possible but the reality is that when you tell someone youre trans they are most likely to inmediately try to imagine you as a woman and it sometimes sticks as the way they see you for life. being trans is a nightmare when it comes to dating so all advice i can give you is guys are able to lie to you and tell you they see you as men and you need to try to tell them apart from the ones who genuinely like you as a guy. good luck.
>>40939371you sound like an exasperatingly obnoxious tiktok pooner and i am willing to bet testosterone has never touched your body, and if it has then it's completely useless in your case
>>40939525get off this board bro this place is not for you. you need thicker skin.
>>40939224I'm bi and I am attracted to the same sort of poonies as I am cis boys.
>>40941117So, women ?
>>40939338Motte and bailey
>>40941142Yes but the irony of pooners is that the most malebrained thing an effeminate small dicked manlet can do is develop a MEF fetish and become a femboy, so the real valid FtMs are those ones.
>>40939224I would not want a gay man as an ftm. All gay men who approach me want me to get pregnant.I don't have culturally anything common with gay men. Id rather date a bisexual.
>>40939308Your the one being homophobic and trying to invade homosexual safe spaces ugh. I can’t stand people with such low self-awareness… cringeeee
>>40939868Nothing about this is true.. Don't listen to this guy cause he has no idea what it is to live as trans. Never detrans. I have not been a single for longer than few days ever since I transitioned. Men love me :3>t.ftm
>>40939478The answer is obviously noOp is a thin skinned bitch who has a lot of growing up to do
>>40941552Homosexual safe space = dark rooms and other deviant std rave holes, circle jerk masturbation gangDon't worry, you can keep them
>>40939978I think it’s a child idk how they discovered this place but they need to leave
>>40939970They didn’t answer hehe
>>40940828I thought he sounded cool. Navy seal copypasta is an icon. New copypasta???
>>40941641New copypasta
>>40939224No because you are a woman lol go back to posting yaoi on twitter
