>ftm showers me with excessive amounts of sexual attention>then randomly ghosts mewhy?
wdyd when im asleep?
>>40961015happens... the one i liked found a man :)
>>40961119sorry anon :(
>>40961119nuh uh. stop.
>>40961015Probably the most male brained thing they could do.
>>40961015He's probably mentally unwell.
>>40961015He's probably just asleep bro don't worry
>>40961015Tell me more about this pooner of yours and I'll tell you what's wrong with him
>>40962674What do you want to know about him?
>>40962721Anything. How often do you talk, is this the first time ghosting you, do you talk about anything non sexual?
>>40962740often. yes. yes.
>>40961015Post nut clarity
>>40962746How long have you been talking?
>>40962808like 5 months
>>40962746>>40962808Also how long since he ghosted you?
>>40962823like a month
>>40962828Are you usually the one starting conversations?
>>40962837not at first. he was initiating all the time.
>>40962841He's probably just the kind of mentally ill that can't maintain relationships
>>40962854depressing.
>>40962875He might come back if you're patient
>>40962885thank you anon. i'll try not to get my hopes up though. it was nice of you to talk to me while i'm feeling down about this
>>40962905Honestly I do the same as him I feel somewhat responsible
>>40961015she's acting like a man, good for her
>>40962746Hey I'm in the same boat as you anon. I'm ftm and my cis bf just disappeared... Six months isn't bad, I was locked in for 15 months
>>40962841Bpd, consider it bullet dodged
>>40962962why do you do it anon? not judging. it'd be nice to get some insight>>40962970i'm really sorry to hear that :( fuck. that's really brutal>>40962980you might be right
>>40961015Most FtMs are like that thoThey still are women, at the end of the day
>>40963016I have a bad sense of time I can go weeks without talking to anyone before I realize, but it starts from running out of things to talk about (or post nut clarity)
>>40963034>post nut clarityredpill me on this. i think it played a role. which is weird because he seemed enthused over a long enough period of time. wasn't a one-and-done thing
>>40963043I'm bisexual and go through phases, the clarity can be the start of a shift in preferences
>>40963016>why do you do it anon?NTA, just answering. I do it because the other person brought up wanting something more serious or intimate, but I don't know if I want that. It makes me feel trapped.
>>40963060he had talked about his sex preferences being mutable, actually. it seems foreign to me. i don't know much about it. do you lose affection for people during those phase shifts?>>40963091that makes sense. it feels cruel to be on the other end of it though
>>40961015just like a cis man!!
>>40961015cause you are creepy and they were literally just keeping you around to have fun wit you and then show your reaction to their friendsyou are nothing more than a tpoy for people to play with then discarded
even the pooners ITT abandoned me...
>>40963319We all have commitment issues
>>40963319Poonahs aren't always used to hunting for their food...usually, someone else is initiating, like when they were proper girls and not poonahs
>>40963368>poonahsDon't you feel embarrassed?
Ftms are very prone to ghosting. More ftm have ghosted me than any other demographic. Just last month I was legit mid erp with one and he was fapping on cam for me and randomly blocked me on every place we spoke. It had been a month of lewdong him. Week ago a ftm had me over and I was mid fucking him when he revealed he was a virgin. After a few more hours of fucking I went home and notice... ghosted. Best bet is to just use ftms as fuck holes, getting attached is bad for your heart
>>40963386You can't use the hard r unless you're one of us, anon was just being respectful
>>40963394why do they do it>getting attached is bad for your heartit's over for me. i was head over heels
>>40963386It is pretty corny but they don't see that
>>40963405Yea i loved one once too and he ghosted me a few years back. I dunno what to tell you friend, just do your best to get over him in time then remember my fuck hole advice.
>>40963405One person always loves more than the other it sucks but it's true
>>40963430>>40963431thanks for your wisdom and your kind words anons. it makes me feel less alone. i'm sorry that you've experienced similar pain.
>>40963091this. as soon as a woman starts talking about wanting a real relationship with me, i'm looking for ways out.#femalesinmalefields
I haven’t ghosted anyone (in a serious manner) but it is bad that I see the “appeal” of ghosting? I totally condemn it as well, but yeah.
I'm a poonah and a chronic ghoster, no real idea of exactly why I do it but there are some factors that contribute:<I don't really get attached from people and feel nothing when I cut them off>I eventually get bored of people when I feel like I understand how they work >Once I already started ghosting someone it feels stupid to try and talk to them so I don't Best advice is to leave him a message saying you don't care if he's ghosting you and you're always up for talking again, if he talks to you again then be interesting and keep lots of secretsGood luck!
>>40961015Did you forget to shower him with excessive amounts of cum?
>>40962828Maybe something is going on in his life
>>40961015every single pooner i've ever met was a bpdemon. don't take it personally
>>40963855>>40963446How do you guys feel about >>40963990I'm not OP but I'm in a similar situation. 18 days of silence, and they kept saying they were busy and completely drained. Just want some insight from other ghosters on how honest it is.
>>40961015got too boring/annoying + post nut clarity>t. ghoster
>>40961015>why woman do woman thing?
>>40964077>busy and drainedCan mean not actually busy and just not interested in talking for a few weekst. chronic temporary ghoster
Who ghosts more often? FtMs or MtFs?
>>40961015as a ftm ghoster its usually either they lost attraction somehow from some arbitrary braindead thing that happened between you two, OR he was testing the waters and realized he didn't like you as much as he thought he did at first. rarely, but also it happens, he could just be drained from a stressful life and wanted to lighten the load and you unfortunately got tossed aside to ease it. either way sorry and i hope you find a hotter and more open and honest partner in the near future.
>>40964789thanks for your insight anon.>some arbitrary braindead thing that happened between you two>realized he didn't like you as much as he thought he did at first>could just be drained from a stressful life could very well be all of the above honestly.and thank you for the well wishes
>>40961015female brained behavior
>>40964789also>hotterkek, thanks. he was very handsome sadly
>>40964789actually, anon, if you're still here - and i feel retarded asking when you've probably already left - would you mind elaborating on this element?>he didn't like you as much as he thought he did at firsti'm curious how these revelations come about and what spurs them
