Why do trans men have weird names like Xavier?
>>40961852My friend’s name is xavier she’s mtf tho and kept her name also no way ftm are this oblivious imma give this guy leeway since he’s 17 but how can he not tell what gives away that he’s trans
>>40961852‘i’m trying to understand why i don’t pass’as a pooner im so so so tired of all the other ftms. i dont need them to act as masculine as possible, hell even a bit fem-brained is fine. but there all living in a weird fantasy reality, you know why you don’t pass. there’s so many reasons. you just don’t want to actually change anything.
>>40961852Xavier is a perfectly fine name, there's about 3 Xaviers in my school who are cis men
>>40961852The desire to be the adonistic clay of masculinity
>>40961904lol she's called xavier and she's an ex-man
>>40961852Transmen are driven by "I'm not like other girls" syndrome.
>>40961852because their entire conception of maleness comes from YA novels, cw dramas and tumblr ships
It's a pretty common name for zoomer males. When I went to school there was at least 4 different ones... Picrel is the popularity of the name Xavier over the years.
>>40962484>>40962451Alright now ladies no need to be catty, Xavier is a common name.
>>40961852Xavier is a sexy name imo
>>40961852Xavier is pretty normal and better than alot of other options
>>40964179xavier is the fat wigger who vapes, cusses too much, and steals your blue eyes white dragon
>>40961852xaviersobased
>>40961852They have rock or mineral names. Cole, flint, stone or w/e
>>40961852because fembrain
>>40961852xavier is a cool name kyst. mtf
>>40961852Honestly the biggest clock for me is the nostril piercing. Dudes can have green hair, they may even have a septum piercing but that’s more rare and leans fem, but ONLY women get the nostril side piercing.
>>40961852because it rhymes with xe/xirbut otherwise desu it isnt such a weird name imo like i come from a spanish speaking country and to me it kind of sounds like the english pronounced version of "javier". maybe some people think it sounds cool and edgy cuz it has an x in it but i dunno
>>40964304both are almost as equally fem what are you talking aboutid even argue that the septum piercing is more fem than a nostril one because the nostril one is a bit harder to notice if its small but ppl let septum piercings get out of hand
what about octavio
>wears makeup>has pooner piercings>has girl hair>has 10,000 accessories like a girl>says "im" >why don't I pass !?!??!?!?
>>40964377Harder to notice =/= less femThe nostril piercing is strictly, ubiquitously fem, and being considered much more acceptable for stodgy company helps with that. I have met a significant number of younger church ladies with nostril piercings, it’s subtle and accentuating and thus it’s allowed to proliferate on the condition that it’s only for women. Septum piercings make a bolder statement, they are more confrontational and somewhat punk, the connotation is more like gauges than nostril being more like ear piercings. It’s probably still a bad idea for a trans man trying to stealth, but cis dudes can get away with it a lot more than they can with nostril
>>40962448Holy kek
>>40961852Most people are bad at picking their own names, probably because they pick names that people are choosing for their kids today rather than when they were born.
>>40961852met a trans dude named jasper few months ago he was so fucking hot and im kicking myself over and over for never getting his number
>>40964915This is true, but if you transition then you have to like your chosen name and cool names are easier to like. I think that a good way to get a unique name that isn’t too clocky is to look to the past, but that’s easier with girl names a lot of which still work well in the present
>>40961852It's a completely normal name where im from. But only Mexicans are named Xavier or JavierIve never seen a white dude named Xavier but i guess it sounds cool. Way better than fucking "Ayden" or "Jayden" >>40965553I knew a tranny named jasper in HS he was crazy and watched gore
>>40961852You don't pass because of everything about you Xavier
>>40962451This.
>>40965553Jasper infectionI know a he/them/whatever I don't care FaB
>>40967496>he was crazy and watched gorei need his email
You don't know pain until you're a cis man named Aidan.>t. Cis male named Aidan
>>40967828i had his insta but i deleted my account and i don't remember his anymore, idek if he's still a tranny (hope he's alive tho)