>>40967845
Where are you?

i am serving my sentence on terf island

>>40967845
Anon
All action is motion
You must move your body
Sharks, if they stop swimming, water fills their gills
This might be a misnomer
But for our purposes it's true
Just consider yourself the shark
Start moving your body
Get paper
Get pen
Move hand
Pen on the paper
To do list
Start completing tasks
Their completion simply requires motion
Even digital tasks, you move your fingers you move your thumbs
When you get like this just be the shark, make a to do list and then just be in motion
At the end of the day you can rest
You, unlike the shark can take breaks
But remember, get back into motion
You must override this freeze response, even if it feels like moving through tar, eventually you override it
Start completing tasks
I'm on terf island too. But I have to keep moving and my life is great, I only know the shark wisdom because it's how I pulled myself from the pit.
It's not an instant fix but it sets the wheels in motion,
If you have no pen and paper go get some
If you can't afford them. Go get a free paper from a train station or go to the library. Just start moving.

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>>40968661
if you want to actually start doing stuff with your life you got to start getting out of your comfort zone. it's sounds nerve wracking but once you take those first steps you'll realise how easy they rly were and it inspires you to be even more social / outgoing
and we may be on terf island but luckily this place has many different active scenes and communities for one to try out
especially in the cities met some of my closet friends thru local events / venues i looked into

>>40967845
Hey same also 10 years here, good luck pal. I had a 6 month stretch where I somehow turned everything around and am now back at rock bottom, so maybe there is eventual hope for us

>>40969531
ive literally never seen an event in my life. i dont know how people meet eachother.

>>40969449
what tasks? what motion? what do you do?

i literally cannot think of anything worth doing, only pointless busywork that points me nowhere

>>40969633
That thinking will keep you trapped. Just start with small stuff, then you'll think of bigger stuff. Go get the paper. Get off the computer/phone immediately. Stretch your body

>>40969704
And don't report back with any of the ideas. Just go do stuff. Tidy your room. Basic self care. Keep thinking of stuff to do. Take out bins. Eventually. When stuff is nice. You'll think of stuff you want to do instead of stuff you have to do. If there's barriers to those wants. That's more stuff to do

>>40969542
well there ya go then.
find an event that relates to something you enjoy and meet people with similar interests at said event :)

>>40970049
i dont know how to find events, you mean like concerts?

>>40970055
Just like things and find some events for them dude it's that easy