how the fuck are you supposed to do it? everyone else has their space. gay men and women have their spaces and date amongst each other. t4t transbians just form ever growing unstable polycules with one another until it inevitably implodes in on itself from the sheer physical weight they all possess. cishet people have the entire world available to them, they have the ultimate privilege of never having to think about "does this person know im gay/trans?".but as a straight trans person? you have to insert yourself into cishet dating spaces as an ostensibly queer person. you compete with cis women, or cis men if youre trans (i feel for my trans brother - i think thats even worse actually). the vast majority of men will not even consider dating you. you will be automatically near undateable no matter how many otherwise sought after traits you might have: attractiveness, compatibility, agreeableness, etc. its dangerous and stressful. i am on the verge of giving up and practicing gratitude over what good things i might have in my life.what are your thoughts tranners?
>>40992331I've honestly never had trouble dating as a straight tranny, don't use apps either.
>>40992331st4t maybe but even that can be difficult. being trans is just a horrible curse no matter what
>>40992331just give up like everyone else does
>>40992376st4t is fucking impossibletrust me i tried
>>40992331> use he/him pronouns> date fagshope this helps
>>40992359what has your experience been like? do you make friends with guys and it goes from friendship to romance? i find it difficult myself because all the guys i interact with are normie, outgoing, etc. because i have for the most part integrated with cis people socially, yet guys still dont wanna date a trans person no matter what. im curious whats different for you.>>40992376yeah it really sucks. its something at least always at the back of my mind, if not at the front, in many of my daily interactions.
>>40992331idk I literally got my bf on first try and we've been living together for 3y now. he's "bisexual" though, ie probably wouldn't date a manly dude
Every time I've tried to make friends with a guy they always try to at least fuck, sometimes ask me out. Three were bi, two were "straight." Gay men hate me, women, cis or trans, aren't interested.
>>40992887Same but I am ftm. Are you mtf or ftm?
>>40992902MtF. The reality of the matter is men will try to fuck anything vaguely feminine or with a vagina and people are stupid and pretend it isn't so
You have the answer right in your chart. Date bisexual men
>>40992759>what has your experience been like? i'm a black escort with 4 stds
How achievable is getting a girlfriend as an MtF in everyone's experience?
