> 3 year hrt, femboy> going into last year of college > mom and friends are convinced I’m some tranny in denial, they know I’m on hrt> she starts talking about what I’m gonna wear for graduation and suggesting graduation dresses from House of CBI have tried explaining that I am just going to wear a collared shirt and slacks but, she thinks it is not appropriate for a formal occasion. I really don’t want to have to wear a full suit tho, what do?
bitch just wear the dress
>>41008799>3 year hrt, femboyshow tits
>>41008799I wish i was her. I wish i transitioned in high school and dated chad or whatever.
>>41008799>"femboy">doesn't wanna wear a dressyeah okaystop boymoding already alice
>>41008860Nope, the dresses she was suggesting were super agp (even the graduation ones) and I am not a woman
most retarded larp ever
>>41008877Not boymoding, not female
>>41008799what's your goal with taking HRT? what would you want your partner to call you? how do u like dressing? in other words, what do you want to identify as and be known as publicly / in front of friends
>>41008910I have a gender neutral name already and when overly woke people ask I say he him. (Being asked pronouns has been quite annoying through college)
>>41008862Nah, going to get rid of them once I save enough for the surgery :)
>>41008932then why are you even on hrt?
>>41008898out of curiosity, what did she suggest?
>>41008898would you consider wearing other dresses if they weren't "AGP"?
>>41008799>>41008898fuck you. my mom disowned me for being a tranny, and you're not even one but your mother thinks you are and is like actually supportive and helpful. fuck you
>>41008941This was one of them, gay as fuck
>>41008939Because I prefer the effects of estrogen to testosterone and want to keep away twink death for as long as possible
>>41008976there's nothing agp about thatyou should definitely consider it
>>41008898>the dresses she was suggesting were super agp>I am not a womanunironically sounds like you would become one instantly if you got off this godawful site
>>41008955Ideally not, I kinda would look weird in a suit, but a dress would be just embarrassing desu
>>41008986ohhhhhhhh. so you're a gayass faggot twink?
>>41008989It’s quite agp and I am not planning to wear a dress lol
>>41008976this is just a dress for cis women, it looks formal and pretty, not AGP at all. you'd rock that shit, boy or not
>>41009004I like guys ig but iv never had a bf.But yeah I want to stay twinky as long as possible
>>41009008it's a normal dress, there's nothing agp about itand you already said you don't want to wear a suit
>>41008975I’m sorry Annette, I hope you find people who love and accept you soon <3
>>41009029But a dress is a whole nother level of cringe desu
>>41009016Not a woman and don’t want to look pretty in a girl way, you can’t rock dresses they’re so lame
>>41009045you'd probably look better in a dress than in a suitdo you have long hair?
>>41009060Yeah, but a dress would be so awkward and lame, I still have some male pride
Put on the dress nona
>>41008991No I wouldn’t , I respect trans people but I’m not one
>>41009067what, you have too much male pride to wear a dress but you take estrogen?
>>41009082I can hide the boobs but a dress is like telling the world look at how much of a fag I am
>>41009115you're on estrogen and have long haireven without boobs everyone can tell exactly how much of a fag you are
>>41009122A dress would just be to much, like accepting defeat ig
the thread is weirdos trying to coax OP into doing something they clearly dont wanna do. keep your fetishes at bay losers. just let OP do what they wanna do.
>>41009163you literally inject estrogen, wearing a dress is not any greater of a defeatyou're just scared that you'd be happy in a dress and heels, but you don't even have an alternative because you don't want to wear a suit
Put on the suit then?
>>41009180I can hide the estrogen effects to an extent but the dress would be such a public thing and like I’m giving up on maleness
>>41009227>giving up on malenesspretty sure you did 3 years ago when you started hrt
>>41009227>the dress would be such a public thing and like I’m giving up on malenessmaybe that would be a good thing
honestly at first i assumed OP was just airing their grievances over their family viewing them one way and them wanting to be another way.But the more i see ur responses, you seem like a silly pushover who's very timid. if i knew you irl, i wouldn't be surprised if i could convince you to dress up in whatever cute outfits i pick out for you.
>>41009247It’s honestly a scary idea, it’s like making a statement to my friends from college and family about what I am and conforming to their ideas of me
>>41009281I know it's scary, but also maybe it's a bit excitingI think it's a good idea
>>41009257That’s mean anon, I have always struggled with sticking up for myself ig but I am not weak or stupid
>>41009243No, I haven’t given up on who I see myself as and I still wear male ish clothes
>>41009293I just don’t want to end up conforming to a gender role which I’m not thrilled about. Cis man was worse but idk
>>41009316so do boymoders
>>41009340wearing a dress doesn't mean conforming to a gender role, you can still be a femboy in a dress
>>41009298i didnt say youre weak, nor that ur stupid. im just saying that youre very submissive and timid. that's good and bad. bad because if someone came along with bad intentions, like some in the thread, they'd just be taking advantage of you. its good because if the right guy comes along, you'd be able to really trust him and let him lead you in the relationship.
>>41009357It kind of does because my mom and friends have been trying to get me to come out or whatever, they know I am on hormones but I think they see it as me being ashamed or whatever.Wearing it would signal to them that I see myself as a woman or something
>>41009358Part of me likes that idea, another hates me for liking it and wants to be independent and masculine in nature.I feel very conflicted lately
>>41009378yeah but wearing a dress doesn't mean you have to come outdo you have shoes to wear by the way?
>>41008799>House of CB If you won't wear the dress I will. I love those dresses but they're too expensive for me to just get one for fun.
>>41009387life is not black and white like people on here would lead you to believe. there's a lot more nuance to it. you can still be independent and have a strong, leading male partner. but there are some things that one cant avoid, which is ur own nature. i dont know too much about you, but from how you talk im gonna assume youre a fairly lightweight person, probably on the shorter side and you dont workout. so youre light and short. compare that to me, someone who is larger, much more masculine, more muscular and far more extroverted. In a situation like that, do you really think you could practice being masculine when youre with me? it wouldnt be a matter of you 'trying' to be more masculine. your body would naturally assume the role of the feminine person. but you could still be independent in terms of mindset. do you get what im saying?
>>41009406It does, it signals my gender role to the world. My mom bought me some heels to learn to wear, she said if I can’t learn then I can wear flats instead
>>41009457ok goodso wear the heels and get a dress that matchesit's not really that hard to walk in them
>>41009428Yeah, I just want to be respected as an independent person I guess. I don workout but not in a body building way
>>41009427I don’t want to waste money and if I accept it I will have to wear it
>>41008799get used to girlmoding>HRT FEMBOY LOLyeah whatever the full transition has a lot of baggage but most people are supportive. if you grow boobs keep them, show them off in cute outfits
>>41009493I'm someone who just laid out the whole situation. If i was in a relationship with you and we liked each other, i'd respect you the way you want to be respected. im ngl, i am a bit intrigued in you. if i drop my disc, will you add me? i wanna get to know you better.
>>41009517Yeah, what’s ur disc?
>>41009511I’m quite ambivalent about them desu, I’m not sure if it is a good idea to get rid of them and be left with scars
>>41009557nooooooooooooooooooo keep your breastsI want to socially transition too but I know it's a lot of effort. You just have to put in the effort and pray that the powers of youth and hormonal changes combine to make you beautiful. You have to believe!
real advice: get a hundred bucks or so, go to a salon and get a full hair styling and have makeup done on you by a professional. Make an appointment. Look at yourself all done up and pretty and get used to it. Get used to your dress too, long before your graduation
>>41009539distantspectrumIm not home, I will be in an hour or so. talk to you soon OP
>>41009666Sent a friend request :)
>>41009613I might try that and see how it goes, thanks anon
