The final step in trans identity self realization is that no trans people pass to anyone whos paying any amount of attention and once you finally clear yourself from the constant coping and lying to yourself you can start learning to love what you have instead of exhausting yourself avoiding acknowledging what you don't have.Yeah dude, we're all strange looking and cishet neurotypical people feel and can tell but don't really care, its when you start insisting and having internally incongruent neurotic hangups near them is when they avoid you like a sick member of the herd.Chill the fuck out and insist that you are enough to live the life you're in and move forward and everything gets better
taking hrt is choosing self hatred, you are rejecting your own body
Not a troon, but self love is a meme. People tell me that's how I'll get over my ex and it's been nearly 2+ years and I'm still not over my doro. Self love doesn't fix anything.
>>41014248This doesn't work and is just a meme you tell yourself to quiet the truth about all the stares and discomfort you create everywhere you go. I at least remain self aware of how I'm so broken I'm not even human anymore. This doesn't make me better than you, but it does make me more realistic, and reality is the medium through which we live our lives.
>>41015650do you get stares everywhere you go? 99% of the time i see people say this, its them being schizophrenic or having literal schizophrenia
>>41015650Unless you are a bot you literally are human and denying that does not make you realistic. Many other humans are pathetic and unwanted just like you. That's true realism. Tired of you fake realist attention faggots acting like you are not absolute schizos
>>41015680Only if I'm somewhere I'm not welcome long enough. So basically anywhere near humans that isn't waiting in line.>>41015686>Unless you are a botI get called a Chinese or Russian bot frequently enough to argue I am.>Many other humans are pathetic and unwanted just like youThen why do their lives work out and find them friends or partners, but mine doesn't? If they exist, why do I never see them? Everyone else I see has a life that's working out fine for them and meets all of their basic social needs.
>>41014248>no trans pass>t. 6'5 boomertranny
>>41015718I dated someone like you for a bit and the issue she had was that she was withdrawn/hyper independent in general and came across as intimidating. She didn't really rely or depend on others at all, which worked out well for her other needs but not her emotional needs. She was really wonderful, I just felt intimidated and my attempts at connection seemed to be met with lukewarm reciprocation.I don't know if this resonates or is relatable to you at all, but maybe it can be helpful.
>>41015760Okay? Stop projecting and then taking out your frustrations with your ex on me. I don't relate to it. I have never even known the feeling of being able to rely on someone else because I've never had the option. She seemed to be drowning in it by comparison and still refused, which is her own damn fault.
>>41014248>no trans people pass to anyone whos paying any amount of attention Skill issue
>>41015797They weren't frustrations, I just feel bad for her thinking about it and you seemed to have similar struggles and thought I could maybe help provide insight from the other side of things.>I have never even known the feeling of being able to rely on someone else because I've never had the optionShe felt the same way due to her upbringing, and when I tried to, it seemed to come across as very foreign to her, even something as simple as washing dishes after she cooked for us. Even doting on her seemed to be foreign to her.She wasn't used to receiving things in general and if I had to guess, that's why she had difficulty making connections with people. I'd flirt and be sweet and compliment her a ton, which she seemed to enjoy, but didn't seem used to it. Being open and receptive to receiving things allows for much easier connection with others
>>41014248Sounds like a cope lulPlenty of stealthersIt used to he the only way to do it
>>41015918Idk why you keep projecting her onto me. She sounds spoiled. I told you I don't relate.
>>41016110She wasn't spoiled and I ruined things because of me being a bpdemon in general. But sorry I'll stop talking about things with her.Have you been romantic with others before? How did it go?
>>41016153>romanticYou obviously didn't even read what I wrote before. Plus you're weirding me out with all the shit about your ex, and OP can't cope with reality anyway, so bye to both of you.
>>41016220Sorry anon, I hope you find the connection you desire, whether it's with friends or partners
