/lgbt/ - It is REALLY hard to make friends and find connect - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgender

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI Archived

09/12/25(Fri)06:33:00 No.41015332

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Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI 09/12/25(Fri)06:33:00 No.41015332 Archived

It is REALLY hard to make friends and find connection in middle age.

Anonymous
09/12/25(Fri)06:59:22 No.41015453

Anonymous 09/12/25(Fri)06:59:22 No.41015453

>>41015332
try not being terminally online

40 yr old fat troonanon
09/12/25(Fri)07:02:27 No.41015479

40 yr old fat troonanon 09/12/25(Fri)07:02:27 No.41015479

>>41015332
If you stopped being racist it would open up your potential friend pool to more than just white people emily.

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI
09/12/25(Fri)07:04:35 No.41015490

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI 09/12/25(Fri)07:04:35 No.41015490

>>41015453
I'm trying, but what are the actual options?
I went out to a transgender social tonight and within three hours I'm back in my basement crying on 4chan.

>>41015479
I'm not racist tho. Everyone calls me racist and I don't give a shit because sticks and stones, but IRL I'm one of the most inclusive people you'll ever meet.

40 yr old fat troonanon
09/12/25(Fri)07:07:12 No.41015506

40 yr old fat troonanon 09/12/25(Fri)07:07:12 No.41015506

>>41015490
I've literally seen you bitch about jews and use the n word.

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI
09/12/25(Fri)07:13:44 No.41015545

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI 09/12/25(Fri)07:13:44 No.41015545

>>41015506
Jew is not a race, it's a religion, and it's a racist one.
And saying the n-word doesn't make you a racist, hating on black people for being black does. It's weird that you don't get that in 2025. Inclusivity isn't about following a set of linguistic rules, it's about including people in society who have faced exclusion because of reason.

Jews do not face exclusion. Catholics do, and I'm Catholic, but you don't hear me bitching about it because Jesus loves me. Jews are insanely over-represented in every concentration of power in the united states and Israel. And this idea that I have to be okay with that in order to have friends feels like oppression. That said it's not true. Australia has a population of 28 million of which 90,000 are Jews, and NOBODY likes Israel.

Anonymous
09/12/25(Fri)07:15:01 No.41015553

Anonymous 09/12/25(Fri)07:15:01 No.41015553

>>41015490
>I went out to a transgender social tonight and within three hours I'm back in my basement crying on 4chan.
was it good experience, do people reach out afterwards? If not, figure out why.

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI
09/12/25(Fri)07:17:36 No.41015564

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI 09/12/25(Fri)07:17:36 No.41015564

>>41015553
>If not, figure out why.
Okay, I'm listening. Why? I'm being gregarious, I'm joining in, I'm being supportive, what am I doing wrong?

Anonymous
09/12/25(Fri)07:17:43 No.41015569

Anonymous 09/12/25(Fri)07:17:43 No.41015569

>>41015545
>Jews do not face exclusion. Catholics do, and I'm Catholic, but you don't hear me bitching about it because Jesus loves me. Jews are insanely over-represented in every concentration of power in the united states and Israel. And this idea that I have to be okay with that in order to have friends feels like oppression. That said it's not true. Australia has a population of 28 million of which 90,000 are Jews, and NOBODY likes Israel.
are you aware that between normal people that barely know each other, bringing that topic up is a conversation killer?

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI
09/12/25(Fri)07:19:28 No.41015583

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI 09/12/25(Fri)07:19:28 No.41015583

>>41015569
And I don't bring it up.
It comes up on 4chan a lot because trans in the headline, Israel in the news search.
But IRL I don't discuss geopolitics because nobody is on my level.

40 yr old fat troonanon
09/12/25(Fri)07:23:40 No.41015608

40 yr old fat troonanon 09/12/25(Fri)07:23:40 No.41015608

>>41015545
Lmao did you bring all this up in your transgender social group?
Absolute shocker that you can't make friends.

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI
09/12/25(Fri)07:25:42 No.41015620

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI 09/12/25(Fri)07:25:42 No.41015620

>>41015608
No I didn't. We played celebrity heads.
Charlie Kirk came up, and even though it was OBVIOUSLY a distraction from Israel's strike on Qatar, I didn't have the confidence to assert myself amidst the hubub.

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI
09/12/25(Fri)07:59:13 No.41015810

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI 09/12/25(Fri)07:59:13 No.41015810

Great thread guis. I definitely feel supported and helped.

Anonymous
09/12/25(Fri)08:12:23 No.41015901

Anonymous 09/12/25(Fri)08:12:23 No.41015901

are you asexual

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI
09/12/25(Fri)08:50:31 No.41016164

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI 09/12/25(Fri)08:50:31 No.41016164

>>41015901
Not really. I'm definitely attracted to men. But I kinda identify with the asexuals because social isolation as a single person in middle age.

Anonymous
09/12/25(Fri)08:53:18 No.41016184

Anonymous 09/12/25(Fri)08:53:18 No.41016184

>>41016164
what age specifically

Anonymous
09/12/25(Fri)09:16:18 No.41016350

Anonymous 09/12/25(Fri)09:16:18 No.41016350

>>41015453

Tried, it's even worse

People don't want to be my friend

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI
09/12/25(Fri)09:28:27 No.41016445

Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI 09/12/25(Fri)09:28:27 No.41016445

>>41016184
40-ish.

Anonymous
09/12/25(Fri)11:08:04 No.41017324

Anonymous 09/12/25(Fri)11:08:04 No.41017324

>>41016350
probably because you're an abrasive, antisemitic hon with a repulsive personality

Anonymous
09/12/25(Fri)11:21:21 No.41017413

Anonymous 09/12/25(Fri)11:21:21 No.41017413

>>41015545
Why don't you go to your church? Plenty of events and people your age.

Anonymous
09/12/25(Fri)11:23:49 No.41017432

Anonymous 09/12/25(Fri)11:23:49 No.41017432

>>41016445
thats not specific! dum tripfag!

Anonymous
09/12/25(Fri)11:40:53 No.41017552

Anonymous 09/12/25(Fri)11:40:53 No.41017552

i think you were a neet for so long you have social skills you likely need to catch up on.