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Serious question. It seems that cis people are in crisis right now what it means to be a man or a woman. They can’t seem to define it, nor enjoy it.
I wanna know how trans people look at these terms, signs, symbols and how they feel about them. When is someone a real man to you? What does it mean to embody femininity?

To me it’s all about paternal and maternal prowess. The degrees to which one can take care of kids, teach it to have morals and be upstanding, to teach them valuable skills and to see them happy, loved, and fulfilled.
To me a woman stops being feminine the moment she starts treating her pets or random adult migrants as if they were her kids. A man stops being masculine the moment the money he makes gets spend on a Bugatti. Is there anything worse than pseudo-homosexual masculinity cults where men stop being caring dads? Will we ever recover the family man archetype?

Now that people aren’t connecting their souls anymore and stopped partaking in the divine act of perpetual procreation and the expansion of consciousness, it doesn’t surprise me at all that people are left confused, frameworkless, as an ersatz of what used to be.
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Sorry this board only cares about ragebaiting and not metaphysical debates
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>>41017468
Bad timing now that Kirk's cold
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>>41016662
Biological sex is the only thing that matters.
It also makes no sense that a woman would stop being feminine just because she baby talks to her cat sometimes or that a guy stops being masculine if he buys a car??
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>>41016662
hmm lets see so fundamentally I guess it comes down to pre-historic times where men were hunters and women were gatherers and caretakers of offspring.
so in a sense I agree with you that it is very much connected to who bears and raises the child.
I guess evolutionarily the fittest family were those where the typically physically stronger party (the man) took over more demanding physicals tasks like hunting, this these prevailed.
These archetypes persisted in various manifestations up until the digital age, where physical prowess was all of a sudden not as important anymore.
Now as we all know sexual dimorphism exists and thus physical labour being male dominated is hard to avoid imo.
Beyond that, masculinity and feminity are mostly historical norms that are societally enforced. I doubt that adhering to these archetypes bears any more evolutionary advantage unless if physical labour is considered.
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>>41018910
>Le biological .. le sex
I'm willing to admit that misdirected masculinity and femininity doesn't mean they aren't masc/fem themselves but it's certainly a perversion that I'm seeing nowadays in our society. And yes, it's gay to buy an expensive car.
>>41018985
From my historical research the strong division between male hunters and female gatherers really wasn't that apparent, but it makes a nice story. Physical prowess is one of the most observable differences between the two, but I personally don't define masculinity and femininity via pure physicality. To me it's a personality thing. A guy can be muscled and still be really feminine in spirit



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