does anyone else feel weird that they are attracted to men?i feel so cursedwhen i was a teen i tried really really hard to get myself to be attracted to girls, i’d try to convince myself with logic, give myself pep talks, i’d look at sexualized pictures of women and try to see what straight guys see, etc. i hated guys, they were gross and loud/annoying and way too rough/mean. but i was still sexually attracted to them… everyone could tell tooi didnt really process my feelings on it before transitioning. it’s weird now because i guess im straight now and it’s normal and expected of me, but i still get this feeling that i’m doing something really wrong and that it’s really weird, no matter how pure the attraction itself feels…i wonder a lot why my brain has such a strong attraction to men. it genuinely feels weirder than the trans part, which feels 100% natural
lol how are you more comfortable being trans than just being a homo, it was the complete opposite for me
>>41025728anyways, liking men as a trans woman is a good thing it helps a lot with social acceptance, transbians freak people out
Yep, I only feel attracted to men and wanna rope daily for it, I’m not even trans just a hrt repper with pseudodysphoria but meta attraction is so bad I can’t stop thinking about being some guy’s loving wife and mothering his kids and shit. Nothing seems get rid of it and I fucking hate myself for it
>>41025742You would rather be a transbian? What the actual hell?
>>41025725Idk why but knowing there’s someone out there who resents being attracted to me but still is makes me horny
>>41025728i don’t really know, i think because a lot steps towards transitioning kind of happened way before i transitioned… transitioning mostly just meant she/her pronouns, wearing women’s clothing/make up outside and taking ebut liking men was a lot more of an internal conflict. i still tend to avoid them since they scare me, and also i feel bad, like im tricking them or dragging them down
>>41025750i guess that makes sense, i was a little chudlet as a teenager so I masculinityrepped while figuring out that I wanted to date dudes. The trans stuff was what I diden't want to be but the homo stuff no one really convinced me was bad (I had trouble with it at first but I got over it)
>>41025746;-;>>41025744desu i don’t really want to be a transbian, no hate! just that wouldn’t really be a good fit for me
>>41025744Rather not be trans at all, and rather just be asexual or something not attracted to anybody, I had symptoms of ‘dysphoria’ since I was like 12 but i know it’s fake, and I hate fags and idea submitting to another man makes me suicidal >’lol just top a guy then’bottom dysphoria I’d rather cut my shit off and never use it and plus dont wanna be fag still
>>41025763why do you feel like your dysphoria is fake? it seems like it’s been persistent
>>41025763wdym "submit"? You don't have to submit to them, you should love eachother as equals. There are plenty of nice men who can love you like that.
>>41025759Your resenting is attractive, I know you hate it about yourself but I think submitting to a man, me or any lucky guy, is WELL within fairness : D
>>41025769just know desu, probably developed from autism & isolation and bullying as kid and got never treated, but I know I’m not trans >>41025783that’s even worse and even more pathetic, idea ‘loving’ some guy and playing into it is horrifying
>>41025783im not them, but for me i’ve never been with a guy and had it be equal. im soft, meek and i invest a lot of my energy into supporting others… i think i still have strengths, value, and intelligence, im just not the one in charge and thats okay. it doesn’t make me lesser
>>41025801not op btw 2 separate people between one saying hates it & her saying it feels uncomfortable
>>41025801You seem a bit mentally ill. That's alright, the gender dysphoric feeling is real and there is nothing wrong with loving men.Just know that your feelings don't come from a rational place, you are in a better place than it seems.
>>41025797i don’t really hate it about myself… it just feels weird still, even though i know it shouldnt. guys seem to like me a lot, but they’re still really scary, and also i don’t go outside
>>41025725Most women ain't attracted to men. Its just the gay male in you. I have never gotten exited from looking at nude males, but I get all wet from pretty girls. This is normal for hetero women.
>>41025844actually i think it might be the hetero male in me
>>41025825You’re going to be fine Nona. Some guys are scary but that’s just life & with any luck you’ll learn to navigate off those ones, don’t miss out on being happy, lots of nice men too
>>41025858im kind of scared of all of them desu ;-; also idk where to meet nice guys
>>41025867i think you should try hanging out with other autisti nerds, they are the nicest guys and usually pretty cute
>>41025867What specifically scares you about them? Do you think they’ll beat you up or something?
>>41025893i don’t really know, i think it’s probably a childhood thing>>41025874i don’t know where to find them either. um also im pretty sure im not autistic ;-;
