>if your gf/bf wanted to, they wouldif they don't dote on you, if they don't make time for you, if they don't go out of their way for you:THEY DON'T LOVE YOU.and worse, they'll see you as entitled for even expecting stuff like thatthey will move heaven and earth for the perfect person that eventually comes along. you are not that perfect person for them. they are just settling for you, so they aren't lonelyi have had friends and partners treat me meanly or like i don't exist but the moment someone who's higher quality comes into their life, they're like a completely different person.>"oh but maybe they just aren't able to express affection well!"yeah, they aren't able to express affection TOWARDS YOU! stop making excuses for this behavior!stop holding onto this idealized version of what could be, when your person doesn't even like you. it's like trying to force blood from a stone. don't even bother trying to ask them to change, they'll just either make empty promises or act like you're too demanding. but if they do something nice for you following that, just know it's not out of love, but out of guilt or desperation. they don't love you, they just don't want to be alone. stop loving people who don't give a shit about you, especially the ones who prefend they do.ultimately i don't care about the actions themselves, it just speaks volumes whether someone is willing to mildly inconvenience themselves for you or not. im not trying to promote a self-sacrifical view of love. just don't be with someone who wouldn't ever sacrifice half as much for you as you would them.
>>41027180not a single false statement in this entire post
>>41027187im sorry that you've undergone the life experiences that would make you understand
>>41027180REAL took me way too long to realize thissome people are so absorbed with themselves and will stab you in the back the moment they get the chance no matter what you do for themif they dont love you the same as you love them dont waste your time and effort you should never feel guilty for leaving themfind someone who appreciates you for who you really are
>>41027180Autistic tranner discovers social cues
dunno if you know this but you’re always going to be acting on a man’s idea of what you think a woman is like. you have zero frame of reference for being female and will never authentically behave like a woman since you’re a guy self consciously trying to mimic them
>>41027512why is this relevant itt exactly?>"hey you shouldn't keep people in your life who treat you like they don't care about you ">"ywnbaw troon"
