Why do cis women automatically assume you as a transwoman are attracted to them? Does this happen to you and what do you do?I feel gross when cis women assume this.
>>41027447i get this too, but i notice they become a lot more relaxed around me if i say i have a bf. it sucks
transbians became the face so people assume you cut your cock off in order to rape women better now
>>41027496>became the face so people assume you cut your cock off in order to rape women better nowHow does that work?
>>41027447If they do it means they just see you as another man. If you say you have a boyfriend, then they just see you as a gay man. >>41027483
>>41027447Its because yoi come of as a man and men are mostly attracted to them. Try to not look like a hon
>>41027580OP here, I pass to everyone out in public for a couple of years.
>>41027607Do you pass or do they just see that you want to be treated like a woman
>>41027656I pass, it's not like I wear a hon outfit.
>>41027526i mean yea captain obvious
>>41027682>i mean yea captain obviousSo what do we do?
>>41027501It doesn't. Cis people understand absolutely nothing about the trans experience so they either project that we're all theyfab feminazis or agp rapehons because the idea of a passoid who takes hrt is like explaining you're from the moon somehow
>>41027447it makes sense if their assumption is that we transition because we're sexual deviants. if someones sex drive was so horny as to make them turn their whole life upside down, it would be weird if they weren't also dtf anything that moves
I have this fat cis female friend, she's nice and all or so I thought. I told her I am trans, and a few days afterwards she was wearing a skirt that was very short. I glance down because I see something moving and she instantly starts scrambling to bring down her skirt and readjusts herself.Like, did she think I was looking at her with interest? I wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot pole, even if you paid me.
>>41027447As a cis man I must confess no woman ever speaks to me unless necessary, nor do I get the impression they enjoy it. The feeling is mutual.
>>41027447often when I tell them im trans they get interested sexually on me, they feel like im a new experience they can try
>>41028078i kind of like it when that happens. i don't like it from men
Because most of you are attracted to women and could behave the same way cis men do so it's just a safe bet.
>>41028098yea cause you like girls, I dont.also, no one likes it when men do that unless they're hot as fuck
>>41028102>could behave the same way cis men do so it's just a safe bet.NO I COULD NOT!
>>41028102it is impossible as a tranny to behave the same way cis men do, because actual cis men won't let you
>>41028078>often when I tell them im trans they get interested sexually on meWell isn't that a good thing in comparison to when men do it, everyone just thinks they are gross so we aren't exactly the same.
>>41028210wym I dont get it
>>41028214trans women are >they get interested sexually on mecis men are>no one likes it when men do that unless they're hot as fuck
>>41027987Why the fuck you think she is into you :D seems like she was uncomfortable of you looking at her, most likely she think you are creep
>>41028252If she saw you as a woman, she wouldn't be uncomfortable. If she saw you as a man then she would.
>>41028210oh youre a cis woman? I mean, its definitely less nasty that when men do itmen say, let me suck you off or fuck me, very direct obscene thingswomen are smoother, more persuasive and they understand consent more easily.it feels like men approach you like how they would approach a gay man and women like they would approach a woman
>>41028282i have literally been asked by a cis woman if i'd have sex for money
>>41028118Most cis men couldn't either but some do and that's enough to warrant being careful.
>>41028306Most cis men WOULD ABSOLUTELY given the chance.The difference is I don't want to use my genitals on anyone.
>>41028313Probably should've guessed you're a misandrist. You don't need to use your genitals to make a woman feel uncomfortable around you or feel violated.
>>41028305Most of trans women do sex work, so its a pretty common thing to assume. Maybe you can tell fun whoring stories and bond over them
>>41028357>You don't need to use your genitals to make a woman feel uncomfortable around you or feel violated.>>41028270
>>41028365they don't but i realise it's a common bigoted belief about us. anyway all i wanted to point out with that is that cis women can be gross too
I have a resting bitch face and I kinda dislike women by default so they don't think that, just some homophobic and transphobic ones have strong reactions against me and some others like me but I don't think they think I like them
>>41027447I rape women just by being near them, my masculine presence combined with my estrogen levels creates a unique atmosphere of a true rapehon
>>41028400>my masculine presence combined with my estrogen levels creates a unique atmosphere of a true rapehonthat sounds kind of hot...
>>41028392>just some homophobic and transphobic ones have strong reactions against meWhat kind of reactions do you get?
>>41028405Maybe for you. But being a manmoder is an existential nightmare that never ends and despite my many attempted copes nothing ever works. In the end, I'm just a failed tranny, just a subhuman person who should be FORCED to be more masculine, because that's what I am. I am a man. I will always be a man no matter what I do. I deserve ridicule from passoids and boymoders. I like it when they brag about how feminine they are compared to me. I like them. I like the pain, please just make me hurt.
>>41028412Disgust mostly, they do weird faces, they recoil when I get close, cashiers are mean and push the change against my hand and move it away as fast as they can, they give me the side eye, whatever they can do to show they feel uncomfortable.
>>41028443everyone has been a manmoder at some point. you're not special
>>41028443I'm sorry about that anon
>>41028471What do you mean?
>>41028447No I never gotten that, that sucks
>>41028478your self pity is misplaced. you act like you have it worse than everyone when everyone has to go through the stage you're currently in. navel gazing won't fix anything and makes you look weak
>>41028497I like your way of mentally torturing me
>>41028520how am i torturing you? by not letting you self destructively wallow in self pity? not affirming your pitifully low self worth? get better
>>41028520yeah anon you need to get out of that shell and find a way out of this
>>41028490Yeah, like I'm visibly feminine but not enough to pass so I think that makes them very uncomfortable, some women really like me tho, and men give me special treatment so it's not that bad.
>>41027526This is itpack up the thread
>>41028547Somehow you can't seem to accept that someone can really be very masculine and never pass in a way that they are bothersome to everyone around>>41028647Suicide.
>>41028659you fat chaser cat anon.I see you. this thread will be up FOREVER
>>41027447Because they think you're a man. They see through the facade.
>>41028681>Because they think you're a man. They see through the facade.How do we change that? I don't even like cis women
>>41028664you're not bothersome to everyone you're around and even if you were, you can always change the people you surround yourself with. touch grass and meet some other trans people irl, you'll feel better
>>41028686Be more deceptive I guess. Get a better disguise.
>>41028692Sorry but when I did that I swore I would never do it again, because I was much taller and more masculine than them. I was clearly bothering them.
>>41028686go stealth the average cis person will never understand because they don't give a fuck
>>41028713you just imagine things other people think about you to get upset about. i guarantee you, people don't think about you anywhere near as much as you think they do. you're being extremely self centered
>>41028712>>41028750>stealthI want to make the norm change, I could go stealth but I don't want to because then it will think everyone that is trans is this way or another they see online.
>>41028754I don't want them to feel bad being around me
>>41028764they don't. go outside
>>41028754>people don't think about you I wish, I'm a micro celebrity in this shitty small town I fucking hate it.
>>41028829how and why are you a micro celebrity?
>>41028829>I wish, I'm a micro celebrity in this shitty small town I fucking hate it.do people ever come to talk to you? Does it ever piss you off you have to act all cheery and happy when they come up?
>>41028846Not that kind of celebrity...>>41028841Well, I'm a city flower and I was extremely rebellious, when I first came here my behavior was terrible, had the police called on me a couple of times and it took me quite a while to calm down, had civil protection on me for a few years and they still follow me around fearing I might do some shitty stuff at some point.
>>41028961>city flowerthe hell does that mean
>>41029119I was always delicate but I was born in a very dangerous neighbor, I had to learn to protect myself and never trust anyone, to break through concrete.
>>41028270that's not necessarily true. i would be just as creeped out at some random woman staring at me as a random man.
>>41029202>neighbor*Neighborhood I think I have brain damage
>>41027447Omg yess. It's so annoying
