Not sure if I’m Asexual or just not very into sex? Been thinking about this a lot over the last few months and I’m just not huge into sex. I have a girlfriend and we’re LDR so we don’t even get to sleep together a lot, but when we do I really enjoy it. But like, as much as I enjoy it, I don’t see it as the end all be all thing. I’d actually say the two best things we do together are when we play vidya or when we cuddle while reading together. Is this a form of asexuality or does sex just not do it for me like it seems to for others? When I’ve heard other guys speaking about it, they make it out like sex is the ultimate culmination of life or something and I just… don’t agree. Pic for attention.
>>41032086Heyya anon! I’m asexual and my biggest forms of affection in a relationship are cuddling and sharing hobbies!Have you talked to your partner about this?
>>41032102No I haven’t. I’m not even entirely sure if it’s what I am. I haven’t really even looked into it. This is my first foray into really seeing if it may even actually be something for me. I figured if anyone would have an idea it would be the people on here.
>>41032086This is how I feel. I think I am probably demisexual. I could probably have sex but I want it to be a part of a long term relationship where it enhances the relationship rather than the end goal. I am very hypersexual and think about sex a lot but I get cold feet when I have the chance to actually do it, and most of the times I did I felt basically nothing. I'm not sure if I want it all to be honest. Not sure. I feel you though I mostly want to cuddle and play vidya but in a romantic way.
