I'm longing for a gf who's into pain and being dominated while also happy to listen to me talking about my feels :U.For example having dommy feels by itself isn't that easy to talk about because a lot of people dont get it regardless of how carefully you frame it, but also I just normally experience a lot of intense emotions that I need to express in ways that don't always involve a cane.Pain slut gf who will tell me it's gonna be ok, where are you?>t. hrt myselfmoder exclusively into girl-shaped peoplePic maybe somewhat related (?)
>>41035957This is pretty based actuallyhttps://voca.ro/1cJ3HAPsc7CjI have a friend who i'm a bit jealous of because her gf is very dominant and hurts her just to feel better and i can bet behind closed doors she does it just for the convenience and joy of inflicting pain and it sounds so nice... i also have a very reliable settling down response when i experience a lot of pain its very calming to me idk. I used to get shocked hundreds of times a day with the pishock too...
I want to get 3 more of these things actually because the idea of someone being able to press a button and inflict debilitating agony to me at their pleasure is really hot...i realized something was wrong with me when i got my first set of nipple clamps desu
basically yeah there are some people like you say who view this expressing of intense feelings through pain favorably... and might be okay with being an abuse toy for someone
>>41036103I just think girls who are in pain or even just seriously uncomfortable are cute and hot. Obviously this reqires a good amount of trust, but my fav thing is pushing a girl far enough for her to genuinely suffer. I'm honestly more of a sadist than a dom.I'veen thinking a lot about how girls who cut should really just get into kinkstuff because as you said, it can be very calming for the sub (and dom as well).I have no experience with shockers but sounds interesting. I'd have to look more into it and make sure they're safe desu.You sound really cute btw ^^.
>>41036151Hmm this could be really good combined with some verbal abuse / mind games imo. Also there's nothing wrong with you. This should be the default, and we're one of the few sane people :^).Fwiw I'm in central Europe.
>>41035957I have the reverse ailment. I want to be tortured until I lose my voice by a trans gf : (
>>41036218the shockers are safe if you dont have a heart condition and don't put it on the neckI put it on my inner thighs and sometimes back of calf or upper arm. The instant gratification of hearing them scream after pressing the button is probably really fun for the domme. It has a web app with controls to press for how strong the shock is, and ofc you can hold the button down to be mean until sufficient pain noises have been extracted...And thank you so much, sadists are cool.I like hitting tools too, like this thing
the little blinking light is surprisingly ominous when i know someone can use it to hurt me>>41036218Yes especially the discomfort can be very cute sometimes, it can be simple things too like struggling to play a game when you really have to pee>>41036259i'm in texas but its lovely meeting likeminded people
>>41036103that's a weird gamecube
>>41036271Sounds like a great way to make a girl do or say things she really doesn't want to just to earn herself a reprieve from pain. The shocks will continue until morale improves.
>>41035957I'll do it with youI'm switch but I love this stuff
>>41035957same same same. problem is the girls who want this setup are almost never attractive :/
>>41036293I feel like this would be a lot better with sound, but I see the vision yeah.Also meh about everyone being in the US, but hey nice to meet you.
>>41036342My issue typically has not been the attractivenes but more the emotional support part. In general I've been finding men to just be kinder and more emphatic, but for better or worse I'm not into men in any way.
>>41036336Hey I'm technically a switch too, perhaps that's the ideal config :p.
>>41036401i'm not really sure what girls you've been dealing with, personally i've known a lot of (unattractive) masochist girls who want to do anything to feel valued, whether it's being a punching bag or listening to you vent.especially if you're okay with troons.
>>41036420I mean if the girl isnt a masochist, then I dont wanna do stuff to her either. If you dont want it, I dont want it.
>>41036406We could test each other :pSee how far we could go and stuff with each other
>>41036432did you read my post?even the ones that aren't true masochists are into masochism on a meta level because they want to people please. if that means getting hurt, they want to be hurt.
>>41036444No I get what you mean, but my subs well being is my absolute no. 1 priority at all times. I want an equal partner not a "punching bag".>>41036442:3
>>41036481>my subs well being is my absolute no. 1 priority at all timesthis is the hottest thing, i enjoy masochism and being treated worse than garbage but the knowledge that my partner loves me so much and would never treat me like that if I wasn't actually into it and would stop instantly if i were to use my safeword makes me fuzzy and warm like nothing else
>>41036541You get it yeah. It's a bit complex because there definitely is a degree of pain after which things get hard for a sub, and they may not really directly enjoy it any more, but that's also when things get interesting for me, and I love observing their reactions. You probably know what I'm talking about as a sub.
>>41036585When it becomes challenging to endure the pain and it feels like you have to push through to endure it, and sometimes you have no idea how its going to feel.. ahh.. Needs some big trust with your partner to get there but its very worth it.. i try not to visibly notice the excitement they get when i'm struggling but i notice!!
>>41035957I need someone to hurt me who I can also hold when they cry ;_;
>>41038178Thats so adorable ahh, so happy for you. God I need a masochist gf again ^~^.Somehow it always feels like we're doing important work together. Its one of the most intmate things you can do with a person, and not to mention how hot it is. If there are no tears in your eyes when I cum, something has gone wrong.>>41038218Haha hii...
>>41035957Where do I have to go to find people like you?
>>41035957hello ma'am im not pretty or dateable but I just wanted to say that youre based and cool and there are plenty of us out there who ARE worth dating... I wish you good luck finding your painslut gf.
>>41038489Thank you so much anon, I also wish you luck, and you probably look better than you think ;))>>41038483I wish I had any tips. Definitely try joining your local queer events desu and go from there. Theres also Fetlife I guess, but it doesnt work well for my country.
>>41038601I tried to make an account on fetlife and they wanted me to upload my ID or face. I'm not even in the UK it's infuriating lol. I really should go out to queer events more though, thanks for the hint
>>41035957will u give me genital piercings? I've already done a few on myself 10g
>>41038726Wtf thats so weird. But then again, uploading your face to your profile might give you an edge.
>>41038766Sorry no lol, I dont break skin at all. I know thats a disappointment for some.
>>41036103>>41036151>>41036293god i really have to get around to making that openshock stuff
