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I'm a cis girl who would date a trans woman but I would see her in a masculine light and expect her to fill in the role of the man in the relationship
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>>41038429
tbhon that is gross and I would never agree to it.
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at least you're (((hon)))est about it
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>>41038429
what if im not a tranny but a cute mildy agp guy with a pretty face and nice penis...
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>>41038455
exactly. lol
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>>41038455
i have such little self respect i would agree to it
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>>41038511
>i have such little self respect i would agree to it
YOU DUMB HON
IF YOU ACT LIKE THAT THE NEXT MTF IS GETTING TREATED LIKE THAT
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>>41038519
I mean I wouldn't like directly say anything to her like "I want you to be assertive and dominant" but I would have those expectations and desires in my head. and this is why I have never pursued a trans woman
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>>41038429
I would do it but im post op. How would u feel about that?
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>>41038550
you post op hon.
well she doesn't get girldicked at the very least
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>>41038429
>I'm a cis girl who would date a trans woman but I would see her in a masculine light and expect her to fill in the role of the man in the relationship
I'm a hussy and this is how I feel about transbians.
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>>41038596
>hussy
so you're cis or trans?
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>>41038429
lmao i legitimately could not fill that role. I've tried and it makes me feel sick, and I leave them and break their heart. it's a skill issue on their part
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>>41038429
so she gets to actively trash the house, do none of the chores, and win in the divorce? sounds like a good deal tbqh
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>>41038634
>so you're cis or trans?
A woman.
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I'm a cis girl who's into anyone who could be into me. afabs, amabs, mtfs, ftms doesn't matter. But I am not really a likeable person so yeah. Not gonna happen.
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>>41038649
so a tranny.
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>>41038519
good fuck you bitches i hate trannies you all suck and hate me anyway
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>>41038550
need penis sorry
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>>41038429
I'm a trans girl who dates transbians because I see them in a masculine light and expect them to fill the role of a man (plapping me mostly)
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>>41038810
it's okay when a trans woman does it but when cis women do it, it's creepy
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>>41038596
>I'm a tranny who would date another tranny
>I'm not a transbian
>Transbians are bad
Bravo
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>>41038429
most trannies that are into woman are desperate enough for pussy to settle for that dynamic. better than having to resort to another transbian (the worst possible fate for a tranny)
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>>41038931
>most trannies that are into woman are desperate enough for pussy to settle for that dynamic.
the most pathetic trannies.
At least when it's 2 transbians it's somewhat on even grounds because neither see each other as a man but 2 gocks frolicking in a meadow of flowers.

1 cis women and 1 transwomen.
The cis woman sees it as some guy with a clothing fetish, but still has a penis so similar to a straight relationship
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>>41038951
>1 cis women and 1 transwomen.
>The cis woman sees it as some guy with a clothing fetish, but still has a penis so similar to a straight relationship
not evry cis woman is your ex anon
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>>41038995
>not evry cis woman is your ex anon
are you saying you are different
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if i dont treated like a princess by my partners, i will destroy them emotionally. they will still be picking up the pieces years after i leave their sorry ass. us trannies arent stupid and we know chasers games at this point. we play our own games too, OP :)
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>>41038429
You should kys thank
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>>41038951
>2 gocks frolicking in a meadow of flowers
i kinda want to see what this looks like
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>>41039459
it's the most beautiful thing in the world.
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I watched a hunter schefer interview and some cis girl tried to get her to top her and it freaked hunter out.
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>>41040179
post the god damn interview

and do you think she would freak out if a transbian wanted her to top?
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>>41040476
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujo2BHqx0PY
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>>41038652
Why arent you likeable
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I am an AAP cis woman and I would do the opposite
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Anyone have hunters teen news report ? I cant find it
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Heart wants what the heart wants
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>>41038429
why can't you just say dominant instead of making it transphobic lol. there are plenty of trans girls who would be perfectly happy with a submissive cis gf
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>>41040154
This post was sponsored by big tranny
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>>41038429
most gynephilic cis woman
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>>41038429
this is why we hate foids
would feed you to a bunch of immigrants and forget you ever existed
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>>41038821
If you don't actually perceive them as women then it doesn't count, does it. It's like when cishet guys date pooners.
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I would never date foids or pooners. Any dickless gender is inferior.
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>>41038429
i unfortunately think this is probably fairly common. Makes me sad. why couldnt i be cis les?
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>>41044149
Category 6 Truthicane
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>>41044149
if we were born with one but had it removed are we still superior?
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>>41039036
if ur not the man in the relationship I won't get emotionally attached enough to be "destroyed" by you tee hee
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>>41043732
you have a point actually, are there really trans women who want to dominate cus girls though? I don't see a problem with that
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>>41038429
What does role of the man mean to you
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>>41044692
guide me around and put me in my place and complement the womanly parts of my personality. like be calculating and rational when I'm not etc
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>>41044670
literally yes lol i am one of them
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>>41044729
awesome
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>>41038429
I honestly wouldn't care if a cis girl saw me as like a femboy but "fill the role of the man in the relationship" is nasty
>>41043640
Based
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>>41044305
No.
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>>41038757
What's the reason for not being a straight woman with a man then?
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>>41038429
My brain perceives transwomen as "other," rather than female. I don't perceive them as men either. It's a weird spot, but oftentimes, I am reminded they are biologically male because of their jawline or overcompensating mannerisms. I can't see myself dating them because my bisexual brain sees that as gender non-conforming/androgynous, even if that person is turbo feminine and wants to be led and bottom. The worst part, is I have no problem leading or topping either sex, for some reason, it feel unnatural with a trans person. I don't know why my brain is like this.
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>>41045148
I don't mean this in an accusational way ofc, but I think if you really fell in love with a trans woman then all those things would melt away and your brain would see her for what she was. Maybe that's just my "romantic at 5 AM" brain talking, but yeah. This sounds like the start of a K-drama that I would watch.
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>>41044948
I've only ever dated men (and trans boys when I was a teenager) I was just considering transgender women when I was on a dating app
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>>41044885
>I honestly wouldn't care if a cis girl saw me as like a femboy
this is still pathetic
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>>41038429
>>41044173
>>41045148
I've seen this like 3 times. I've known like 3 detrans people from this. I am strongly of the opinion that cis women are as bigoted or as backwards or as gross and objectifying as cis men but they hold a degree of interpersonal capital that allows them to just sit back and do nothing while societies will to have transwomen detransition and perform the male social role in silent misery without being guilted and shamed for doing so.
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>>41038652
>i'm a cis woman who loves anyone who will provide for me and do everything for me and feel nothing so i get to feel things yet for some reason nobody wants to do this.
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>>41038429
okay but like in how many regards?
aren't most trans women feminized to the point of them not being able to take on the role of a man in the bedroom?
not to mention the emotional & psychosexual effects of having a dysphoric person top
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>>41049469
i used to try to make small talk with the smoke shop theyfab. but i made the mistake of asking them what they were doing one weekend and they got all sweaty like, "oh idk... i mean... why do you ask?... *fiddles with phone* uwu" bro i'm asking to be polite, it's a thing people ask each other, like, put your clit back in your fucking pants, i'm not trying to pick you up. skeeved me right out
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>>41045148
>My brain perceives transwomen as "other," rather than female.
This means that you perceive them as men. You don't perceive them as something other you just think you do because you can't accept your own lack of personal agency.
>Can't see myself dating them because my bisexual brain sees that as gender non-conforming/androgynous, even if that person is turbo feminine and wants to be led and bottom.
You are not bisexual, you are self-absorbed and willing to do anything for someone who provides for you, which is never a woman because women are taught not to think this way.
>The worst part, is I have no problem leading or topping either sex, for some reason, it feel unnatural with a trans person. I don't know why my brain is like this.
It feels unnatural because you are heterosexual and are frustrated that transwoman don't want to be the man in the relationship. The sexual action you are performing does not feel like something you are doing to get something in return but something you are doing out of love for another's identity.
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>>41049514
Yeah dude you will still be perceived as a predator because the social role of being a man is the one who takes the risk of being seen as a monster every time they try to initiate or do anything. With afab's who claim gender non-conformity it is always the case that actions speak louder than words.
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>>41049539
idk why i transitioned just so cis men could perceive me as a woman and demean me and cis women could perceive me as a tranny and demean me. truly the worst of both worlds
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>>41049566
You've got to find the right person and your right person is probably not an afab.
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>>41049614
afabs treat you like dirt and cis men most of the time want to kill you.

I think the world is just against us
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>>41050568
afabs treat you like boys, transwoman can't support you, cis men see you as a cheap thrill. Good luck out there.
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>>41049614
i have a bf who is good to me. it's just irritating, in public. and jarring. one second, a cis woman is sexually harassing me, the next, some moid is aggressively holding the door for me or standing out of my way, a "ladies' first" chauvinist, who would probably try to physically assault me, if he clocked me. i get psychological whiplash
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>>41050758
well hey that's better than most. Marry him and lock it down if he's gonna treat you good.
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>>41038429
Everytime. This is why I only date men
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>>41038429
>>41038545
seems fine to me.
i'm a trans woman but would still be the "leader" in the relationship, i don't see the problem. hmu ~
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>>41051185
>i don't see the problem. hmu ~
pathetic
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>>41038429
I'm okay with being the top/dominant person in the relationship but you would have to treat and love me like a woman...
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>>41051200
> masc lesbians don't exist
lul
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>>41051185
and yes i did mean what >>41051212 said... i'm not okay with literally being called a man and whatnot, but i understand that women will have some heteronormative baggage around gender-based relationship norms that will take some time to break down into something more realistic
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>>41051263
no you are agreeing to dick her with your penis.



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