I'm a cis girl who would date a trans woman but I would see her in a masculine light and expect her to fill in the role of the man in the relationship
>>41038429tbhon that is gross and I would never agree to it.
at least you're (((hon)))est about it
>>41038429what if im not a tranny but a cute mildy agp guy with a pretty face and nice penis...
>>41038455exactly. lol
>>41038455i have such little self respect i would agree to it
>>41038511>i have such little self respect i would agree to itYOU DUMB HON IF YOU ACT LIKE THAT THE NEXT MTF IS GETTING TREATED LIKE THAT
>>41038519I mean I wouldn't like directly say anything to her like "I want you to be assertive and dominant" but I would have those expectations and desires in my head. and this is why I have never pursued a trans woman
>>41038429I would do it but im post op. How would u feel about that?
>>41038550you post op hon.well she doesn't get girldicked at the very least
>>41038429>I'm a cis girl who would date a trans woman but I would see her in a masculine light and expect her to fill in the role of the man in the relationshipI'm a hussy and this is how I feel about transbians.
>>41038596>hussyso you're cis or trans?
>>41038429lmao i legitimately could not fill that role. I've tried and it makes me feel sick, and I leave them and break their heart. it's a skill issue on their part
>>41038429so she gets to actively trash the house, do none of the chores, and win in the divorce? sounds like a good deal tbqh
>>41038634>so you're cis or trans?A woman.
I'm a cis girl who's into anyone who could be into me. afabs, amabs, mtfs, ftms doesn't matter. But I am not really a likeable person so yeah. Not gonna happen.
>>41038649so a tranny.
>>41038519good fuck you bitches i hate trannies you all suck and hate me anyway
>>41038550need penis sorry
>>41038429I'm a trans girl who dates transbians because I see them in a masculine light and expect them to fill the role of a man (plapping me mostly)
>>41038810it's okay when a trans woman does it but when cis women do it, it's creepy
>>41038596>I'm a tranny who would date another tranny>I'm not a transbian>Transbians are badBravo
>>41038429most trannies that are into woman are desperate enough for pussy to settle for that dynamic. better than having to resort to another transbian (the worst possible fate for a tranny)
>>41038931>most trannies that are into woman are desperate enough for pussy to settle for that dynamic.the most pathetic trannies. At least when it's 2 transbians it's somewhat on even grounds because neither see each other as a man but 2 gocks frolicking in a meadow of flowers.1 cis women and 1 transwomen. The cis woman sees it as some guy with a clothing fetish, but still has a penis so similar to a straight relationship
>>41038951>1 cis women and 1 transwomen.>The cis woman sees it as some guy with a clothing fetish, but still has a penis so similar to a straight relationshipnot evry cis woman is your ex anon
>>41038995>not evry cis woman is your ex anonare you saying you are different
if i dont treated like a princess by my partners, i will destroy them emotionally. they will still be picking up the pieces years after i leave their sorry ass. us trannies arent stupid and we know chasers games at this point. we play our own games too, OP :)
>>41038429You should kys thank
>>41038951>2 gocks frolicking in a meadow of flowersi kinda want to see what this looks like
>>41039459it's the most beautiful thing in the world.
I watched a hunter schefer interview and some cis girl tried to get her to top her and it freaked hunter out.
>>41040179post the god damn interviewand do you think she would freak out if a transbian wanted her to top?
>>41040476https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujo2BHqx0PY
>>41038652Why arent you likeable
I am an AAP cis woman and I would do the opposite
Anyone have hunters teen news report ? I cant find it
Heart wants what the heart wants
>>41038429why can't you just say dominant instead of making it transphobic lol. there are plenty of trans girls who would be perfectly happy with a submissive cis gf
>>41040154This post was sponsored by big tranny
>>41038429most gynephilic cis woman
>>41038429this is why we hate foids would feed you to a bunch of immigrants and forget you ever existed
>>41038821If you don't actually perceive them as women then it doesn't count, does it. It's like when cishet guys date pooners.
I would never date foids or pooners. Any dickless gender is inferior.
>>41038429i unfortunately think this is probably fairly common. Makes me sad. why couldnt i be cis les?
>>41044149Category 6 Truthicane
>>41044149if we were born with one but had it removed are we still superior?
>>41039036if ur not the man in the relationship I won't get emotionally attached enough to be "destroyed" by you tee hee
>>41043732you have a point actually, are there really trans women who want to dominate cus girls though? I don't see a problem with that
>>41038429What does role of the man mean to you
>>41044692guide me around and put me in my place and complement the womanly parts of my personality. like be calculating and rational when I'm not etc
>>41044670literally yes lol i am one of them
>>41044729awesome
>>41038429I honestly wouldn't care if a cis girl saw me as like a femboy but "fill the role of the man in the relationship" is nasty>>41043640Based
>>41044305No.
>>41038757What's the reason for not being a straight woman with a man then?
>>41038429My brain perceives transwomen as "other," rather than female. I don't perceive them as men either. It's a weird spot, but oftentimes, I am reminded they are biologically male because of their jawline or overcompensating mannerisms. I can't see myself dating them because my bisexual brain sees that as gender non-conforming/androgynous, even if that person is turbo feminine and wants to be led and bottom. The worst part, is I have no problem leading or topping either sex, for some reason, it feel unnatural with a trans person. I don't know why my brain is like this.
>>41045148I don't mean this in an accusational way ofc, but I think if you really fell in love with a trans woman then all those things would melt away and your brain would see her for what she was. Maybe that's just my "romantic at 5 AM" brain talking, but yeah. This sounds like the start of a K-drama that I would watch.
>>41044948I've only ever dated men (and trans boys when I was a teenager) I was just considering transgender women when I was on a dating app
>>41044885>I honestly wouldn't care if a cis girl saw me as like a femboythis is still pathetic
>>41038429>>41044173>>41045148I've seen this like 3 times. I've known like 3 detrans people from this. I am strongly of the opinion that cis women are as bigoted or as backwards or as gross and objectifying as cis men but they hold a degree of interpersonal capital that allows them to just sit back and do nothing while societies will to have transwomen detransition and perform the male social role in silent misery without being guilted and shamed for doing so.
>>41038652>i'm a cis woman who loves anyone who will provide for me and do everything for me and feel nothing so i get to feel things yet for some reason nobody wants to do this.
>>41038429okay but like in how many regards? aren't most trans women feminized to the point of them not being able to take on the role of a man in the bedroom? not to mention the emotional & psychosexual effects of having a dysphoric person top
>>41049469i used to try to make small talk with the smoke shop theyfab. but i made the mistake of asking them what they were doing one weekend and they got all sweaty like, "oh idk... i mean... why do you ask?... *fiddles with phone* uwu" bro i'm asking to be polite, it's a thing people ask each other, like, put your clit back in your fucking pants, i'm not trying to pick you up. skeeved me right out
>>41045148>My brain perceives transwomen as "other," rather than female.This means that you perceive them as men. You don't perceive them as something other you just think you do because you can't accept your own lack of personal agency.>Can't see myself dating them because my bisexual brain sees that as gender non-conforming/androgynous, even if that person is turbo feminine and wants to be led and bottom.You are not bisexual, you are self-absorbed and willing to do anything for someone who provides for you, which is never a woman because women are taught not to think this way.>The worst part, is I have no problem leading or topping either sex, for some reason, it feel unnatural with a trans person. I don't know why my brain is like this.It feels unnatural because you are heterosexual and are frustrated that transwoman don't want to be the man in the relationship. The sexual action you are performing does not feel like something you are doing to get something in return but something you are doing out of love for another's identity.
>>41049514Yeah dude you will still be perceived as a predator because the social role of being a man is the one who takes the risk of being seen as a monster every time they try to initiate or do anything. With afab's who claim gender non-conformity it is always the case that actions speak louder than words.
>>41049539idk why i transitioned just so cis men could perceive me as a woman and demean me and cis women could perceive me as a tranny and demean me. truly the worst of both worlds
>>41049566You've got to find the right person and your right person is probably not an afab.
>>41049614afabs treat you like dirt and cis men most of the time want to kill you. I think the world is just against us
>>41050568afabs treat you like boys, transwoman can't support you, cis men see you as a cheap thrill. Good luck out there.
>>41049614i have a bf who is good to me. it's just irritating, in public. and jarring. one second, a cis woman is sexually harassing me, the next, some moid is aggressively holding the door for me or standing out of my way, a "ladies' first" chauvinist, who would probably try to physically assault me, if he clocked me. i get psychological whiplash
>>41050758well hey that's better than most. Marry him and lock it down if he's gonna treat you good.
>>41038429Everytime. This is why I only date men
>>41038429>>41038545seems fine to me.i'm a trans woman but would still be the "leader" in the relationship, i don't see the problem. hmu ~
>>41051185>i don't see the problem. hmu ~pathetic
>>41038429I'm okay with being the top/dominant person in the relationship but you would have to treat and love me like a woman...
>>41051200> masc lesbians don't existlul
>>41051185and yes i did mean what >>41051212 said... i'm not okay with literally being called a man and whatnot, but i understand that women will have some heteronormative baggage around gender-based relationship norms that will take some time to break down into something more realistic
>>41051263no you are agreeing to dick her with your penis.