I'm dating a mtf right now but I don't see them as a woman. I see them as a very effeminate man. I play the game though. I use the pronouns she wants, I support her ability to use hormones and get surgeries. I just don't think you can change your gender. Is that wrong? I feel like most allies probably think the same way.
Yes it is wrong and I hope she finds someone who sees her for how she wants to be seen instead of some anime 4chan faggot who takes her for granted.Consider killing yourself.
>>41048308kill yourself, please. hope this helps! :)
>>41048320/thread
>>41048320But the end result is the same. She's happy, I respect her. Why is it bad?
>>41048340I doubt she'll be happy if she finds out you posted this 4chan thread
>>41048320based takea trans woman deserves someone who loves her for her, not someone who uses her as a minority card to show off being an ally
>>41048340won't last! the dissonance will explode in both your faces eventually!! and it will only be YOUR fault!!!!
>>41048353She doesn't use 4chan so it's fine. I would never say this to her. I just keep it to myself
>>41048320>>41048328If you have a cock and you aren't super feminine it's honestly hard to see you as a woman and not thinking you're a guy during sex.
>>41048320this.>>41048308OP. post like these are extremely hurtful, but I'm sure you know that already.
>>41048365Your relationship is predicated on her not knowing how you feel.It's as if a husband went on 4chan and said "Yeah I don't think my wife is attractive at all, and in fact think she's an annoying bitch, but she has money and she's raising my children and she thinks I love her so she's happy."It's totally missing the point if your reaction is "She won't find out, so it'll be fine."
>>41048374OP is kind of right though. Most "allies" don't actually like you, this goes for any minority really.
>>41048369tadtotal ally death
>>41048386But my opinions on the validity of transitioning don't affect my feelings towards my gf
This thread kinda goes to show that trannies are after your mind. It's not enough to treat transgender women with respect and like a women.You literally have to forcefully change your internal beliefs.
>>41048398if you don't like trannys then don't date them retatd
>>41048308you’re right, that’s probably how most allies think, which is why we don’t really like milquetoast “allies” who agree to literally the bare minimum but fold under a little pressure. is it so much to ask for a life partner who actually sees us the way we want to be seen?
>>41048404Who said anything about not liking trannies?
>>4104841 1(You) did
>>41048415Where?
>>41048404How did this:> treat transgender women with respectTranslate to:> don't like trannys
>>41048398here's my stance: if you don't see me as a woman, I don't want to date you. it makes you sneaky lying snake, because what else do you believe about me that you're not telling me?This is why we have trust issues, cissiods keep showing their true selves.
>>41048424what respect? this whole thread was made to disrespect trannies.
trannies itt acting like op's mindset isn't shared by a significant number of other trannies deep down is wild. imagine pretending not to be self aware
>>41048308yes it's wrongit means you're transphobicmany people are. they so desperately want to understand or 'get' it. they don't. you placation of your partner contrary to how you feel will ultimately be the undoing of your partner. you can't really love them if you don't accept them for who they are. you 'tolerate' their identity as you see it as a charade because transphobia leaves you unable to accept a sex change is possible.
y'all have got to stop falling for this obvious bait. getting legitimately pathetic atp tbhon
>>41048434This is why I don't go outside. people (even trannies) perceive me as a man if I'm not 100% a passiod. fuck me I hate being a tranny so much.
>>41048463The problem is that it isn't bait. This is how the chaser mind operates
>>41048308Two males makes a homosexual couple so I get you
>>41048471it's not just the chaser mind. it's how laymen see trans people. they see acknowledging the trans person's identity as placating a child and when respectibility erodes their true feelings are exposed. they don't see trannies as the sex they identify as. ever.
>>41048463i don’t insult you for how you spend your time
>>41048429Moids will never comprehend this because their entire view of relationships and sex is transactional. If they're saying and doing all the right things, they should get the result they want, even if they're completely dishonest and duplicitous and if you call them out, you're asking for too much
>>41048496I don't have to care what they think deep down. That's why you have to go stealth.But I'd want my romantic partner to actually see me and understand me for who I am on a deeper level.
Unlike others, I don't see the issue. As long as you love and support her, it really doesn't matter what your thoughts on gender are
Based
>>41048308>if male cursed, kys, she deserves better >if female holy, perfection even. keep that moid in the palm of your hand
>>41049535How do you even develop an opinion like that?
>>41049634>self deprecating>tranny>bishit
>>41048308Thats normal
This is what every chaser bf thinks. The game is how well you convince your tranny otherwise
>>41048308my self esteem is so nonexistent that i would be ok dating a guy who was upfront and honest about this. so long as he is treating me like his princess and loved me, i can't control what he sees in his head. whatever gets him off ig
>>41050637This is the rational take to have. As long as he treats you good, it really doesnt matter
I hate chasers so much
