my gf won't let me drink or smoke weed, what do? this shit sucks
>>41103369My gf buys me edibles
why not?
>>41103434same im her retarded puppy im high pretty much 24/7 unless we go somewhere together
>>41103434>>41103491i'm so jealous (˃̣̣̥ᯅ˂̣̣̥)>>41103460i'm not entirely sure, she just says "i'm not feeding your addiction" or "i'm not dating an addict"
>>41103369Do you become grating while drunk or high?
>>41103530Were you ever a boozer or hophead?
>>41103537i mean i'm not interesting to talk to when i'm high, unless i only take a couple puffs but she's against that now too. i think the thing she hates most is that i fall asleep after being high or drunk awhile and we can't hang out when i'm asleep>>41103544idk what that means but when i lived alone and had money for it i would pretty much just drink bourbon and rewatch taxi driver. we used to always smoke weed together when i lived alone though
that’s gay as fuck i wouldn’t date anyone that isn’t on the same shit that i’m on desu. fucks the point if we can’t do whippits and make out with each other. i wanna get fucked up i wanna get geeked i wanna get faded
>>41103570i lwk get that tho like that’d be lame as fuck to have ur partner high or drunk ALL THE TIME
>>41103570Ah, so that’s the problem, you just crash & she wants more time with you. Hard to really say. Is she willing to compromise? Like you won’t do it as much or she won’t tolerate it even a tad?
Idk I used to smoke weed all the time but desu shits lame as hell and destroys your brain.
>>41103628No it doesn't, if you continue nurturing your brain you'll keep your intelligence intact, but most can't do that so yeah, it destroys your brain in some way.
>>41103611>>41103620yeah i had an ex who was drunk all the time and it was lame af she would drink like a bottle of wine in the morning a bottle in the afternoon and a bottle in the evening and sleep all day in between. i don't do that i do it like once a week when i'm allowed to>>41103622she used to let me do it like once in a blue moon, usually i'd only take a few puffs or we'd split a bottle of wine but last week or so she just decided i can never do it again and there's no reasoning with her now
>>41103460ntn but my job has random drug tests, otherwise I'd be high 24/7
>>41103636Idk I cant say anything good about weed in good faith because right after I had my head injury when I would smoke it I could actually feel it making me stupider, and it was very directly correlated to me smoking weed.
>>41103663yeah well most people don't have a head injury
>>41103570>drink bourbon>rewatch taxi driverholy shit, your gf had better marry you cos otherwise you sound thoroughly wifeable
>>41103651lmao>>41103663same diva i was so fucked up after my tbi i think i acc fried my shit a bit.., i went on a whole psych and cart binge like 2 weeks after getting out of the icu when i was 16 lmfao. weeds gay and retarded. it’s fun ONLY when u go out for the night and smoke. i fucking despise ppl who smoke at home every day it reminds me of being fat and depressive and having no control or sense of self. made me brain dead omg i miss how weed felt when i was 14 before the tbi i acc haven’t smoked in years tho so maybe my brains more recovered and itd be better now. also FUCK INDICA
>>41103651Have you ever stood your ground with her yet on anything? If it’s getting to you that much just smoke & tell her you’re going to do it, if she leaves she could still end up coming back. Don’t know how much you like her though so I don’t suggest that as the be all remedy.
>>41103730well we live together and i don't have the resources to move out yet, so whenever i try to stand my ground on this or anything (she yells at me all the time and sometimes hits me a little) she threatens to kick me out
>>41103756Anon…are you ok? That sounds like abuse : (
>>41103818yeah i'm ok, i just talked to her and she said we can go out to a gay bar and get some drinks tomorrow so i guess i made this thread too soon
>>41103883It hurts to say as I am in a similar situation, I managed to escape once but well then something happened that basically forced me to stay, it's been a long time and the abuse never ended, I know it is difficult to lave someone manipulative but if you are not into violence, you should leave, sometimes it just gets worse.