>babysitting my boyfriend's son this weekend since boyfriend is working>out of nowhere my boyfriend's son asked me why i can't have babies>apparently he asked his dad if we were planning on having children one day and he told him that i wasn't able to>boyfriend apparently didn't explain any further than that>told him that i was just born unlucky and my body isn't able to have babies (technically not a lie?)>apologized to him and told him that i wouldn't be able to give him a brother or sister>boyfriend's son must have noticed me looking sad>he gave me a hug>he said its okay and he doesn't need any>tfwi feel kind of bad for not telling him the whole truth...
>>41111180>raising another man's childCuck.
>>41111180He'll understand one day, sis.
>>41111180He sounds like a sweet kid.
>>41111200why do people act so cringe about dating someone with kids?
>>41111180that’s so cute but sac :(
>>41111200oh noooo someone is helping give a child a happy life!!!
>>41111200Dating single dads is based though.
>>41111180He's going to resent you and his father when he finds out you're a dirty tranny.
>>41111449why?
>>41111559Because having a tranny for a step"mom" is fucking disgusting.
>>41111632kys
>>41111632>having a tranny for a step"mom" is fucking disgusting.why?
>>41111632It doesn't matter if your mom is cis or trans, what matters is if she is a loving mother
>>41111790>It doesn't matter if your mom is cis or transOnly trannies say this.
>>41111855I am a cis bi man
>>41111855I'm a Cis guyI'd definitely say this
>>41111200raising any child is raising someone else’s child as an LGBT person, retard. also children of single parents need a second parent too!
>>41111932>t. cuck
>>41112005>Love and nurturing a child is cuckoldryYou let outlandish pornography dictates your reality?
>>41111180So what is the strategy for tranny stepmoms? Just never reveal it?
>>41111180You have a beautiful family, your son loves you, your husband loves you, and that's enough; you don't need more than that, and there are other ways to have children, like adoption.You don't need to say anything; he doesn't need that. What he knows is that he has a mother who loves him and a father who respects him, but I'm sure he would accept you as his mother anyway.
>>41112090For the most part, yeah.
>>41112090>Just never reveal it?Ideally. However if my husband wanted to reveal it I wouldn't stop him but I think its for the best if they just never know honestly.
I've too scared to date a dad because the idea of raising children scares me.
>>41112017>Love and nurturing a child is cuckoldryit literally is when the child isnt yours
None of you deserve to be parents.
>>41112005i don’t want kids or to date anyone with kids since i don’t believe i’d be good at filling a parental role, i’m literally just defending OP. i feel like labeling people cucks for any reason other than being into cuckoldry as a fetish is more telling about you than them.
>>41111200>tfw no tranny cuckwife helping raise my seed while also taking more of my seed in her ass every night
>>41111200I already enjoy some cuck porn now that you said raising a children with a single father is being a cuck I really need to find one
>>41113569Especially hot if she's just a sweet, modest housewife in everyday life on the surface, but she's always wearing a cage and in bed I smack her balls with my cock and tease her for being such a pathetic cuck, not only raising another man's child, but only being able to cum at all from getting it fucked out of her
>>41112226>>41112345how do you do this (mentally)? i feel like i would have to tell them at some point i couldn't keep that from my kid for their whole life......i guess it's not something that really matters but it's just such a fundamental truth of my existence whether anyone can tell or nott. not a stepmom or a mom at all so sort of ignorant
>>41111200Children are wonderful gifts from god and it is our duty to raise all of them with love and kindness regardless of our relation to them.
>>41114220Don't trannies want to cease being trans?
>>41111180Does bio mommy know that daddy is dating a crossdresser?
>>41111883>>41111866You guys are gays. I would not talk to my father if he forced me to pretend a male is my mommy
>>41115147i can't speak for others but the way i see it you can never "cease being trans". you can pass and even stealth and live so normally that you never have to think about it, but it'll always be a part of who you are. i would probably wait until my child was older and had the sense not to talk about it and get themself bullied, but if i were a stepmom i'd like for them to know.
>>41115185Would you be ok if you stepkid would call you a stepfather after learning your sex is male or would you be ok if you kid called you and the baby daddy gays? How would you react if you boyfriend went into a rage everytime his kid called him gay? Would you stop your bf or would you let him gaslight the kid?
>>41115185There is no reason to tell anyone anything if you pass. The only person that needs to know is the one you're planning having sex with
>>41115185If you get SRS is there anything trans about you still beyond your path of having gotten there?
>>41111200>insane anti-social ideologyyup, it's your average conservative m*id
>>41115197that's their prerogative, i guess. i'd be sad about it, but that's still my kid. i wouldn't want my husband to be upset about it, either, though i would understand that. if this were a real scenario it would be something we would talk about and i would try to have him understand doesn't actually materially matter, unless it starts deteriorating the familial relationship, in which case it would probably be best to just move on. i do fear that, actually, when thinking about future adoption, but as far as i am aware it literally never happens lol.>>41115207not even my child? i think family my deserves to know, but everyone is comfortable with different things and nobody is obligated to out themself to anyone, obviously.>>41115210well i still haven't got the rest of the reproductive system, for one. i've never had a period and likely never will (i do not understand the "transgender period"). and i have my own personal idiosyncratic feelings regarding my identity, anyways, which are relevant to this but not really worth going into. anyhow i think this is sort of a nuanced question that depends on the feelings of the person getting srs. to answer shortly, though, materially, yes, but in any way that really matters to most people, no.
>>41115291>family myi don't even know how this happened
It is immoral to let your child get close to someone and let them see them as a mother figure without letting them know that this person is a trans woman. I would go as far to say that its child abuse.
>>41115415>I would go as far to say that its child abuse.retard
>>41115415How is it child abuse?
>>41111180I think you will make one hell of a step-mum and maybe one day a grandma.
>>41111180;n;
>>41115291>not even my child? i think family my deserves to know, but everyone is comfortable with different things and nobody is obligated to out themself to anyone, obviouslyWhy? Pointless info for them unless you're about to get outed and want to get ahead of things
>>41115547To gaslight a child thinking a gay male is its mother maybe
>>41115668i don't think it's pointless. it's a part of me that i am sharing with my child because i value openness and they are important to me. it might not be something i outright say, like "hey i'm a tranny, by the way", but it's part of my life story; how i grew up; why i am the person i am today. my parents have told me these things about themselves and i value that and the relationship i have with both of them. i just see no reason not to tell my own kid this sort of thing. if, somehow, they make it to adulthood and this still hasn't come up, i might make it a point to deliberately come out, but i really doubt it would have to be that way.like i said, it's your choice not to ever bring it up to your child, and i think that's okay; i just couldn't imagine keeping that from them, myself. especially if it were relevant to a conversation we were having.
