>hrt for almost 5 years >still a virgin at 22 >romantically only attracted to men>mostly grossed out when i think about sex>but there’s one exception >this guy makes me feel safe and comfortable and is the only person i would ever consider having sex with >i am so in love with him but i don’t even know if he thinks of me that way sooo what’s my diagnosis?
>>41127310Yup. You're a virgin.
>>41127336well i already knew that
>>41127310you are scared of sex (due to genital dysphoria + bein a vigin) and also you have a very normal fembrain sexual attraction style in which you only wanna fuck someone you trust/love.desu its not a big deal. you should ask him out and try to remember that someone else will one day make you feel that way even if you get turned down. good luck
>>41127364but if i take the initiative he might think i’m weird
>>41127310u can try just making out with him no need to go straight to having sex
>>41127427you must be brave young nona. wait for him to be dressed nice then adjust his tie or collar for him. Or just make dumb excuses to hang out with him.
>>41127455i can’t just kiss him out of nowhere or he might think i’m a creep
>>41127466we hang out a lot but he has never made a move on me
it’s over isn’t it
>>41127500Do you actually hang out or do you mean Discord?
>>41128467we hang out physically too
>>41127310same except not a virgin and still scared of sex
>>41127500>>41129738OK but this could just mean he isnt a sexual predator and hasn't interpreted any signs from you (maybe just bad at picking up signs). And in that position it is very scary to make a move and taint the vibes with the girl you are secretly in love with. Speaking from personal experience You can "what if" forever, either eat
>>41130094this
you should allow him to fuck you, and no, he don't need to start it.just tell him, if he's kinda autistic it might be better if you're blunt, "i find you attractive and want you to fuck me"gl nona
>>41129753based
