>this is what you have to subject yourself to as a straight tranny in the dating scene
>>41157999I've looked at cis womens' Tinder messages on their phone and it's about equally grim. To any guys out there, the meme that 80% of other guys are retarded slobs that open with "hey" is not a meme, it's just real apparently. If you can hold a normal conversation for >3 messages you're halfway there in 2025
>>41158058Real.t. straight tranny with female friends who are on the verge of quitting dating because men are clueless af
>>41157999st4t is the holiest love
>>41157999It's just not worth it. Chasers are better off being foreveralones or hermits.
>>41158562half of st4t ftms are like this too
>>41158562Where the woman sees the man as a woman and the man sees the woman as a man. How holy
>>41157999>you should see my redditTexting this to someone on a dating app is the worst thing about this screenshot desu
>>41158626>Texting this to someone on a dating appThis desu if he just said "I love trannies I'm obsessed with them!" It would be a lot less repulsive
>>41157999You could have just accepted yourself as a gay man but wanted to be “straight” so you sold your soul and this is what you deserve
>>41158550This. Men are just generally shit
>>41158550>we communicate badly with men>they don't understand what we want>we get upsetwild
>>41157999test
>>41157999is dating openly bi guys any better or will they just leave me for a cis woman when they inevitably decide they want to have bio kids
>>411605the fun part about bi guys is they can also leave you for a man
>>41158058While this is true, what are you expecting? Making a complex greeting is often enough more effort than it's worth, and are you expecting an engaging conversation off the cuff without even knowing the other person? This is why cold approaches are hard and frowned upon, you always have this awkward moment of not knowing what to talk about except going all out with flirting because you literally have nothing else to work with.Then again, women expect men to be expert psychics who know how to read minds and from that build a rapport where the man writes a novel while the girl answers "thats so cool"
>>41157999dont date people online.just go outside. the public meetup part is already in play.
>>41160507No, just remind them often about how cis girls see them as balless faggots. He will be yours forever
>>41160673I agree, but the thing is that you can still cold open on a dating app without it being "hey" verbatim. With followup messages such as "lol" and "yeah". I'm not saying your first message needs to be a Shakespearian paragraph but these niggas are drooling on the keyboard and can't even be fucked to obfuscate the fact that they only care about sex. I had impostor syndrome as a guy in the dating market but I've looped around so hard after internalizing how bad things actually are
>>41160818The hard reality is just that people play a numbers game at this point, you just get so jaded after having to wade through so many people and end up just going through motions.Also, those guy dry texters are the kind of person that eventually finds someone desperate enough to say yes to them, which is many more than you would think.You see it even here, all it takes is an unsee of a slightly fit body and you immediately get people asking for an handle, even if the dude is clearly just looking for an easy lay
>>41159391i used to be on grindr as a twink the messages i’ve received on there weren’t any better>>41160507>will they just leave me for a cis woman when they inevitably decide they want to have bio kidsin my experience yes unfortunately, gay men have complained about this happening to them tooig i’m just destined to die alone>>41160694i tried approaching men irl but i felt like a creepy disgusting sex pervert and didn’t like making “the first move” so i’m saving myself the embarrassment and the guess-work and meeting men on the apps as much as i hate them>>41158562would LOVE st4t but unfortunately a lot of the ftms that ive met irl were gaydens
>>41158058Only applicable if you are attractive.
>>41158058That's not really the case, its that the shit guys never actually get dates so they outnumber all the normal ones because they are stuck on apps not getting any action. Most guys are normal and maybe some normal guys dont necessary know the best practice when dating so may not be great initially, but are generally great guys.
>>41157999He sent that as a compliment, and any tranny should be greatful to get anything more than a "hey" from a man, all things considered. It means he likes you.
>>41158058>reeeee you have to compose an original shakespearean sonnet for your app intro so I can delete it instantlydie
>>41161633reeee i cant read a fucking bio and ask someone about a shared interest we have
>>41161627That message is way worse than just saying "Hey"
>>41157999New to dating men I see. The sooner you stop giving chasers any of your emotional bandwidth the better off you will be.
>Grrr don't date chasers>Grrr don't date bisexualslol die alone I guess?
>>41162112this nigga mad lol
>>41162112i date bi guys but not chasersmost chasers are ugly losers
>>41162129I'm a gay man. You trannies crack me up. You seem to hate people who like you, most likely because you hate yourself
>>41162218its mostly the classic "women getting upset at dudes who try to hit on them and do it in a lame or gross way" crossed with yeah a little bit of self hatred and dysfunction
>>41158058Wait 'till you see the effort straight trannies and cisf put into conversations.Why any of you think a man should feel honored to be speaking to a wall I needn't imagine.
>>41162106>The sooner you stop giving the only people who like you any attention, the closer to rotting alone you'll getsee:>>41162218>You seem to hate people who like you, most likely because you hate yourself
>>41161646if you're in the 1 in 20 people who actually writes anything of substance in your bio I wasn't talking to you, but given how you reacted your bio is most likely "i cant see ur message dm me on ig at @turbothot2004luv2travel"
>>41162299>rotting aloneI am in a committed relationship while you are a single virgin.
>>41162415my bio is: i am a tranny and that means im allowed to say slurs and then i just type slurs to fill available spacei am very popular on her
>>41157999Lmao!!!chasers are such autistic retards>>41158562true
>>41162218>You seem to hate people who like youAh, yes, the creepy guy who just texted me on the dating app about his coomer habitsHow could've I betrayed his undying love and dedication?
>>41157999For it not to occur to a person that the reason they think that dating a particular group is bad is because that is the group that they have to deal with, and that everyone has to do deal with shit when dating because that's how people are, and instead feel that they are uniquely wronged displays a lack of a basic capacity for three dimensional thinking which indicates that that person is in fact themselves a person not worth dating.Or to put it simply, if you complain about how dirty the dating pool is you're part of the pond scum.
>>41157999>straight>trannyPick one.
>>41162479a trans woman who is only into men = a straight tranny. not that hard of a concept bro.
>>41162150I'm a bi guy and an ugly loser lol
>>41162487A trans woman is a man, bro.
>>41162517>go on /tttt>tell the trannies there to talk different>go on /pol>whine about how trannies are postmodernists who control how you have to talkretard
>>41162517in your dreams gayboy
>>41162517false but even then according to you a trans woman dating a cis woman is straight. so either way straight trans women exist, fucking retard
>>41162540You know it's true. That's why you need to scream TWAW so loud. :)
>>41161442Yeah because you used grindr and not other dating apps . You lowered your dating pool on purpose and expect sympathy when you only find creepy chasers
>>41158550>>41160036>>4115805890% of the trannies I talk to literally talk about how they do nothing, are losers, and the only time they post anything substantial is when they're either trauma dumping, talking about their mental illnesses, begging for some form of sexual validation or giving their lukewarm take on something. Then to top it off it falls on me to keep the ball rolling because they have absolutely no ability to start a conversation.I don't say "oh man trannies are so clueless boohoo" because I'm not an entitled moron. The only time I ever see this entitled, self-important woe-is-me take is from vapid drones.The only way you can feel personally offended or wronged by people not living up to your standards is if you're so self-unaware that you feel like you're owed something. Whenever I see this shitty take I just know that the person behind it is the most boring nothing who thinks they're the main character.
>>41162563No no no, you see a so-called "trans" person excludes themselves from traditional sexuality entirely.They possess a mix of primary and secondary sex characteristics that excludes them from both straight and gay attractions.:D
>>41162564I don't know what that acronym means and I'm a tranny, that's how obsessed you are with troonsget a hooker or something buddy
>>41162579
>>41162587Nah, that just shows how stupid you are. TWAW is what they've been screaming every day since 2012.
>>41162607Is that too complicated for you baby?
>>41162615You've been jerking off to trannies every day since 2012? sad.
>>41160507No, noIt's the secretive bi guys who are getting women do marry and transwomen on the side to BLAP.He wouldn't have a wife if he was openly bi.
>>41162517>>41162579>>41162625>trans women are men>trans women are neither women nor men so therefore they are neither straight nor gay ok retard
>>41162577so completely fucking real jfc, tried to talk to one on discord, not even to sext or meetup or whatevs i just wanted to talk to someone new, and i'd have to come up with EVERY. GODDAMN. TOPIC. for 30 minute increments that felt like ages. after the like fourth day of this shit i just blocked them, trannies if you are reading this your lack of confidence and self respect is killing you
>>41162607You think it's schizo but trans people are artificially intersex and too weird for Kinsey 0s and Kinsey 6sunless, you know, nothing changed about their appearance
>>41162665>>41162650ok retard
>>41162650Don't worry, I'll say it slower for you! ^^"Trans" . people . have . a . mix . of . primary . and . secondary . sex . characteristics!They are in-con-gru-ent. That's a big word that means mismatched!A straight person can not find a trans person attractive. Wrong parts!A gay person can not find a trans person attractive. Still the wrong parts!Do you understand now sweaty?
>>41162699>more drivel thanks for sharing retard. you can go play with your Legos now.
>>41162710kek, telling you tards the truth is too fun, you got no cope.
>>41162753>it’s so fun when I get mocked and dismissed for my opinionssure bud, sure
>>41161633Read my followup post where I explicitly say I don't think that, down to the shakespeare >>41160818
>>41162753They'll keep coping and say the last handful of guys transitioned on them and still call the guys straightThey'll learn about his previous affairs with AMaBsThey'll copeBut it takes a special man with a rather flexible or GAMP-range sex radar to want boobtwinks
>>41157999You don't really have to. Make IRL friends with men and you'll have to fend them off with a stick. Of course you're only going to get the bottom of the barrel and chasers only on dating apps.
>>41162112This is a transbian recruiting thread, anon
>>41162427>relationshipPolycules don't count, Alice.
>>41162858I agree, which is why I’m not in one. Try again.
>>41162150most chasers are bi guys
>>41162760holy... her tits are massive. are they natural?>>41162858polycules are still relationships though. and just like relationships, they can be either stable or unstable, but that doesnt make them any less.
>>41162930and some are homos!
>>41163193>are they natural?yes they are
>>41157999I hate dating I hate dating I hate datingMay god burn the creators of online dating in hell for eternity
>>41162432>chasers are such autistic retardsBirds of a feather flock together anon
>>41162577You can split tranners into two camps with a VERY slim outlier, they're either NEET total losers, which is the vast majority, who often enough just have the basic means to survive, have a terminally online personality with interests that go from the masculine to the stereotypical female, mostly pop-culture stuff, lots of fantasy, and various autistic specific interests.The other camp, while a minority, is sizeable and is ewhores, usually the ones who pass the best and can gather armies of simps that will act as their paypigs, they show no outward interests and gravitate towards very feminized aesthetics to the point of fetish, they might graduate to the status of escorts when they decide that chaser money is good money.Both camps will end up dating either some man as a bank, or another transgirl for "sisterhood", polygamy is widely practiced, be it openly or not.The outliers are who people want to date and fantasize to meet, like all ideals, they're hardly real, an outlier tranner is almost a margin of error in the demographic, and it's more than likely she's dating another transgirl or a cis woman.
>>41157999Men are emotional retards.
>>41162577nigga you too real for this board amd website
I've never really thought about trans-girls any differently than cis-girls when it comes to dating, as long as they're cute it doesn't really matter to me. But every single one i've tried to start conversation with has ghosted me after a day or two out of nowhere, where as I've never had that issue with cis girls
>>41163918Literally the same experience I had
>>41163918ngl i ghost chasers if theyre just boring or unattractive to me
>>41163340chasers and faketroons (chasers that faketrooned)? yea I know
>>41157999lol
>>41164848Bro just wants to make sure her dick isn’t bigger than his. What’s the problem?
>>41164848>not immediately blocking after "how big is it"he has no respect for himself
you are never going to find normal dudes if all you use is dating apps retardsgo out to a bar or something
