sometimes i think i deserved being raped because i didn’t do enough to stop it; does any other tranner (or anyone really) feel the same? i hope im not alone, and i want you to know that you’re not alone either.
>>41160490Yeah blaming yourself is sadly normal
I was molested by my male cousin a few times when I was a kid and it really fucked me up in a bunch of ways. Self-blame is absolutely one of them. I’ve always had an exceptionally negative self-esteem in general. I often wanted to hurt myself. It seems pretty common for victims of sexual assault to feel this way. In my case, I’m a cis straightoid. But I don’t think it really matters for things like this. These things can happen to anyone.
>>41160705you’re a good person, you will find happiness past that (if you haven’t already) :) thanks for the words
>>41160490i definitely deserved being raped. they drugged me and i didn't stop them.
>>41160490I dont care who you are, but if you've never raped anyone YOU DIDNT DESERVE IT!! What happened to you was fucked the hell up, and your aggressor should get the same treatment.
>>41162847can I rape the aggressor?
>>41162847ngl, i think YOU SHOULD! If you've been graped, i think there should be some kind of solace for you.
