Bi people, do you have different standards for men and women?I'd been hooking up with a woman from work, but she ended things with me. Later on she started going out with another woman from the company. I'm 90% positive that she ended things with me because I opened up to her about my insecurity in my new position at work, and my desire to ask to be demoted back to where I was before the probationary period ended and I was locked in. That's perfectly fine if she lost respect for me because of that.But with this other women she's been seeing, she's infinitely worse. She has BPD and is incredibly anxious and has a very unstable personal life, and the woman I was seeing is being so understanding and is always listening and helping and being supportive, while also fucking her.That's what pisses me off about all this, I don't mind losing the girl, but I do hate the fact that my weakness was so unnaceptable but she's completely okay with the flaws of this woman. Which, I might be biased here, but I think are much more severe than mine.
I don't have different standards, hence why i date men more often, because women are awful
have you considered that maybe she didnt wanna fuck you for other reasons and not the weakness/flaw stuff you just mentioned
>>41186445Yeah gender and expressions and expectations for them are not the sameWomen are much more allowed and expected to have and express weaknesses and insecuritiesAs progressive as women want to believe they are most of them are still widely turned off by men opening up like that to what they deem "too much" or about the wrong things where it's totally fine for womenWay she goes
i can only date a man or women with muscles. alots of muscles.
>Bi people, do you have different standards for men and women?I'd fuck a chubby woman but not a chubby man. In terms of behavior, not really, but I've seen some bi people like this, where they expect a man to be A and a woman to be B and if they deviate from those gender roles, they're unattractive.I guess there's really two types of bisexuals: the ones who are attracted regardless of gender, and the ones attracted specifically to gender. Gender is behavior too, after all.
>>41186445Its easier to love a woman than its to live a man.
>>41186445Women tend to look better on average; they just generally take better care of themselvesI like petite women, a good ass, tits but not massive ones or anything, just nice and purky. I also feel more protective, instinctively take on the more active role, more dominant if they want me to be. For men, I'm a sucker for blue eyes and blonde hair Outside of that, just twunks I guess would be my preference Also, much more willing to be the more submissive partner, and find it more primal and natural. Difficult to explain. t. bi dude
>>41190643>I guess there's really two types of bisexuals: the ones who are attracted regardless of gender, and the ones attracted specifically to gender. Gender is behavior too, after all.Yeah I'd say I'm the latter. Also for men (and most women) I'm only really into FWB, I only date specific women.
>>41186445My standards with women are infinitely higher than my standards with men because I'm kind of a misogynist but can't help that I'm still attracted to them.
>>41186626men are awful too
>>41194493Good that women hate bisexual men. Would be shame if you got aids
>>41189177Yeah nah, rubber meets the road most women are regressive as fuck about male gender roles, because it benefits them. Any progress, if they even pretend to it, remains online only.It's the exact same as parents that say they're fine with gays, "but not my kid".Gay men are just loose, but at least they don't waste you time past realizing you're not willing to gape them in the next 24 hours and just ghost you.Frankly my standards across both, physical differences aside, are exactly the same, I boiled it down to the bare minimum years ago: Heart and fire. They need a good heart and some fire in them, if they had that I gave it a shot. Though to even figure that out I had to be open to flirting, most did not make it very far. Best average by far was non-straight afabs.
>>41189213>i can only date a man or women with muscles. alots of muscles.Are you me? There's a certain subtle androgyny I think I go for overall, too. Like big, tall, brolic women who can also pass as somewhat traditionally feminine.
>>41186445yes I like men masculine and women feminine, unless it's a nuscular strong woman (but which is not butch) or a cute femine man that is not a flammer.
>>41196452I like your gimmick.
>>41186445A lot of woman like a project. They delusionally believe that they can fix broken people with sex. This is also the reason a lot of straight women stay with abusive men.
>>41198428Also fucking the people you work with is trashy and their relationship will blowup in a hugely unprofessional way within six months.
