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I prefer to bottom, but it does absolutely nothing for me
Like I've never gotten hard from bottoming or even the idea of it, never masturbated with a toy, very rarely masturbate to the idea of being submissive in any way, i dont think I'll ever have an orgasm from sex and i dont even care about cumming

BUT

I only date tops, I put immense amount of time and effort into being hairless and effeminate with the ideal of being married to a masculine man who absolutely destroys my ass every night

Does anyone else feel like this?
Is there anything I can do to work on it cause honestly I do like the idea of being a slutty bottom if it's possible.
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why dont you top if you hate it so much
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>I prefer X but X provides me no joy, but also I really like the idea of liking X
Most introspective zoomer
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>>41193038
It just doesnt feel right idk
Im good at being a bottom, im confident, and i get something out of it beyond getting off.
Its hard to describe its like purely mental serotonin without sexual pleasure, maybe I just enjoy pleasing men?

Idk if I got therapy I wouldn't be on 4chan
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I get it OP, I take a lot of dick but rarely ever take the time to cum during or afterward. I like the feeling of physical closeness, being manhandled, and the satisfaction of whoever's topping me whenever they finish in my ass. It's also aesthetic to be fucked in ridiculous positions
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>>41193028
i would prefer to top but when i do it i feel like a retard, like im supposed to just spasm on top of you? im really horrible at it and feel so embarassed
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>>41193028
>>41193063
honestly I get you. I'm a post-op tranny and never liked to top, but bottoming doesn't feel good either. it's fun emotionally and I like pleasuring someone so I still enjoy it I guess? but physically it does absolutely nothing for me. I really thought it would be different once I was post-op but it's practically the same as anal was. maybe we need to get our prostates fixed or something lol.
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>>41193028
have you tried bottoming for women?
maybe you're not gay, just a bottom
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>>41193028
Your G spot is low on batteries. Take it out & put new ones in
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>>41193123
Ive thought about it but I have absolutely no prior attraction to women or trans women and I prefer not to bother someone just find out i wasted their time
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>>41193089
touch your clit while you have sex
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>>41193028
blackpilling thread
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the real issue is that society makes a huge deal out of sex and you're a loser if you don't have it and you're not a complete person unless you've experienced it, so people build it up in their head and then they experience the real thing and it's kind of mid
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>>41193028
You like the idea of bottoming, or what it signifies (you correlate submission with bottoming which are not the same thing). Honestly you sound like you have porn brain. You’re more attracted to the abstraction of the thing than the actual thing. You’re not really all that different from a sissy gooner who keeps ghosting dudes from Grindr because they like the idea more than the thing. My guess is this wont be sustainable long term particularly when twinkdeath hits.
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>>41194660
wow thanks why didn't I think of that before. that's not the point kys



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