Passoids are you disgusted by hons or do you pity them? Or does it depend on the individual? Idk i like it when they're disgusted by me, i feel like i deserve it.
>>41194296i dont feel one way or another. i like being friends with anyone unless they are rude or mean.
>>41194296Most of them are ok as people, I don't feel any emotion towards them, a lot got dealt a shit hand. I did have the displeasure of having a gaza hon treat me like shit for being "privileged", said hon wasn't even on hrt though.
you do deserve it, you make our lives harder
>>41194344>>41194350That's nice to hear at least, idk i worry about ig just being too disgusting to be friends with, esp with trannies cuz they'll feel like I'm going to make them clockier with my presence
>>41194296Honesty I'm only really going to care negatively if you stink in public to the point i cannot stand next you.I thought I wasnt that judgmental a person until I stood next too a hon who you could just tell she hadnt washed in a week and that entire time was just sat inside rotting...Like I understand mental health blah blah, but come on, if you are going out in public i dont care if you are a boy a girl or some secret 3rd thing, just dont stink like unwashed ass that sits inside all day.
>>41194522I think smelly people are a rather unique discomfort yeah. That's not even really a hon thing that's anyone. I'm like always lowk terrified of smelling because i sweat a lot and like, you can't really tell cuz ur obv used to your own smell, but i shower every day so i hope I'm not too bad I've never gotten like criticism for it
it entirely depends on the individual. i think a lot of people imagine passing makes you a different class of tranny but the reality is we are all the same just at different points in transition. i know what its like to not pass because i did not always pass. i have a lot of love for other trans women and someone not passing does not change that. they are the same as me regardless. what i do look down on is pathetic trannies, and this sadly does correlate with not passing. if a trans woman takes no control over her transition and has no desire to better herself i think she is beneath me.
>>41194537I think good looking people are allowed to smell bad and good smelling people are allowed to be ugly but combining both is a bridge too far
>>41194296I treat people on a person to person basis. I've met good and bad of all types of different people, it isn't worth presorting them into boxes since first impressions are generally wrong
>>41194572Yeah that's fair, again I'm glad you're nice ig. Idk i worry about being one of those people who doesn't put enough effort in cuz idk it's hard to find the motivation when it feels pointless but idk i still try anyway >>41194578I don't think anyone can be smelly imo >>41194600Fair
>>41194747>i worry about being one of those peoplei guess i don't even dislike people who don't put effort in. i dislike it when trans women put no effort in and act weird. endlessly dooming for example. its like girl go do your eyebrows lol. its hard not to look down on such people because they so often pedestalise passing and imagine it as something they could never achieve. whereas in reality passing people only got to that point by going all in. and this type of mindset so often predicts other weird uncomfortable behaviour. the whole thing makes me slightly grossed out.if you are just a bit down in the dumps and pessimistic i wouldn't dislike you for that alone. just focus on self improvement and avoid idolizing or othering passing trans women
>>41194296I avoid them entirely
>>41194296Ugly honmoders make me go “ew gross”Ftm make me go “will never troon”
>>41194790just go all in hon!kys passoid bitch
>>41194296i have a kneejerk reaction of disgust when i see a hon, but the neat thing about being human is that you can strive to be better. i recognize that that kneejerk reaction is wrong and i try to be sympathetic in spite of it
>>41195838but thats not enough because the kneejerk reaction still exists, it will always be how you really feel.
>>41194296idiot there arent any passoids on tttt
>>41195863humans can be better than their instincts, that's what makes us human anon
>>41196022if your natural and genuine reaction is to be disgusted by me i dont give a fuck about your sympathy. even if you make it invisible, cant you understand that?
>>41196102>thought policingneeding to control what others think is insane. as long as others treat you kindly it doesn’t matter what their internal first reaction is, freak
>>41196121its ironic that for someone claiming to strive to be a better more sympathetic human your gut reaction again reveals that you arent capable of it.im not saying i want to control what you think, its that YOU cant control what you think despite wanting to feel differently.if others treat me kindly but i know that underneath it all they are masking disgust, how am i supposed to feel good about that?
>>41195863Idk if they can't help it i can at least appreciate keep that initial reaction private and then eventually being nice>>41195976Wrong
>>41196144i'm the anon who said humans can be better and i'm not the one who wrote that replyi'm also closing 4chin for the day so i won't be replying any further eitheri hope you can find happiness in your future though nona
>>41196144Nta butIts not a good feeling. There's no way around it. But you know, its not anybody's fault either. People have involuntary disgust also to amputees or other developmental issues. It's an unfortunate animal response, but if that person is trying to work against that response it means they care about you as a human being. It's not your fault and its not their fault and deep down we just want to appreciate each other as humansBtw not everybody will feel that response and it can go away with familiarity btw.But yes its shit, being trans and not passing is not a fun condition
