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Assuming most women hate bisexual men, is it a good idea to go to gay/LGBT bars to pick up women? Aren't you ashamed of yourselves when talking to a girl who probably thinks you are a coping fag who enjoys taking up the ass by men? Or is it a lifehack since there a lot less competititon (basically all gay men and you are the only straight/bi man there)?
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>>41215898
please don't go to gay places and try to pick up women.
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>>41215898
Leave women alone
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>>41215902
Why not anon? I see gay men in hetero places as well.
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>>41206425
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>>41215974
I need more replies.
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>>41215902
This.
Gay bars are for homosexuals not spicy heterosexuals.
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>>41215898
Like you may go in with the idea of women and leave with some beefcake daddy that’s more likely
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>>41215898
yeah its wrong,
but its not wrong to go there to party/drink/socialize.

but if you are going there explicitely to pull girls as a dude, then they're going to know what youre up to. and not like you.

unless you are faggy or trans or something.
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>>41215898
Straight women go to bars to avoid getting hit on. Going there as a straight man is rapehon behavior
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They go there to avoid that.
>less competition
Even if you found a girl interested in "men", they'd still have normal men on their mind, you'd be competing against an idealized version of them as a fruity guy that is confused and picking up girls at a gay bar or worse.
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>>41216561
This, but also they will know that the only reason you're there at all is because you can't pick up women at straight bars which is even more pathetic and unattractive.
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>>41216562
>being a straight man means you're a rapist
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>>41216765
You’re a retard. Go to a straight bar your chances are better
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>>41216765
No, going somewhere that women go to specifically to not get hit on, with the sole intention of hitting on them, does.
I'm not gonna call you a rapist because that's a strong word but it's definitely sexpest behavior.
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hairy fags hating when men prefer fat women over them in front of their faces IS so funny
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>>41215898
Yes, if you’re bi. Just approach with a little caution at first to make sure they’re not gay or went there with their gay friends just because they didn’t want to be hit on that night. Just socialize and be chill. You have a right to be there.
>>41215902
>noo don’t go to queer spaces to find partners that accept queer people
Fuck off
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I want to go a LBGT bar and pick up bi/pan guys
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>>41217239
M or F?
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I feel like the issue of flirting is only problematic if it's overt and heavy handed. Flirting is mostly subtext, if you're doing it right it's plausibly deniable for everyone involved and only as awkward as you make it. And even if you are overt, you can just take a rejection graciously and nobody will mind that much, or if they do they're the one that's weird.
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>>41217826
Me? F but I dress and look masc, aside from my big rack



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