/Bigen/ - bisexual general : size difference edition>QotT #1: Do you enjoy size differences in relationships ? What's your preference ?>QotT #2: If you could become the size of your choice, what would it be ? anything goes>optional QotT: do you prefer big cities or ˢᵐᵃˡˡ ᵗᵒʷnˢ ?Previous Thread: >>41124747Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.>Do you love me, OP?Sometimes it's a tall order, others too minuscule a word to use for the sentiments you inspire>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?Only difference is that our flag is prettier.>Am I bi if i have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.>Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?Both are able to be attracted to trans people.>I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?Just make a point to check out members of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.>Should I be harsh on myself?You should be kind on yourself. Few people will do it for youResource for Bisexuals:https://biresource.org/
>1yeah I have to I'm a short man>2 i am happy being my current height>3small towns for living, big towns for vibes
first for women who are mean to me
FUCKKKKok THIRD for women who are mean to me
>>41219329>qott1Yes, sadly I fantasize about bigger partners and almost none of those exist.>qott2I don't really dislike my size, might lose a few inches to save on back pain and leg room.>optionalI prefer the forest and 0 neighbors>>41219355fourth for plush nerds with hearts of gold and asses that could topple empires
>1.Yeah, it provides so many possibilities. I love that my girlfriends are smaller than me. Twice so, when I put on taller shoes and press my advantage. Pulling their hair to make them bend their heads up to kiss me is such a power move.>2.Well, to be frank, big enough for it to be awkward to move in spaces designed with normal people in mind. Having to squeeze through doorways, but without being lanky, I mean. Sure, it might be a hassle at times, but it'd be such a statement to be so entirely out of proportion compared to everything, and would make me feel oh-so-special. And everyone else akin to oversized dolls compared to me.Hell, I might go beyond even that, but I prioritize my ability to interact with people on a personal level. That would be kinda limited by not fitting indoors, wouldn't you agree? Or them being like ants, for that matter.>3.I enjoy my life here, technically in a big city, but in a smaller local center off to its side. Best of both worlds: Dense housing, good connections, and nature a near-literal stone's throw away.
I don't know wether I should come out as bi to my gf. We've only ever had sex with each other and I want to spend my life with her. I don't plan on having sex with other women, since we've both agreed that sex should only be between the both of us. I can easily live with that part because i can't do anything with another woman that I couldn't just do with her.With guys it's different though, it would be something completely different to what I know and I feel like its completely separate from my sex life and relationship with my gf. Though I haven't had any sexual experiences with other men yet.Have you come out to your girlfriends anons? How did they react? Did your relationship continue?Also what if she accepts my bisexuality, but (understandably) still wouldn't want me to experiment with a guy? Wouldn't it be pointless to come out if that where to be the case?
>>41220642I told my wife from the get go and it wasn't really a thing. It was like telling them my favorite color, just a relevant fact, not a controversial topic.Naturally a monogamist wouldn't be okay with you experimenting with other people, their sex won't have any bearing on that. If you weren't ready to be exclusive you shouldn't have entered into a relationship with that precedent, or it should've been ironed out in the early days.
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTA reminder that tomorrow at 21 GMT we will vote for the next two movies for Movie Night! If you want you can also give your recommendation by replying to this post>what the hell is "movie night"its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community>when will movie night take place?its FRIDAY at 22 gmt>where do we watch the movies?on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:https://discord.gg/VNsV3xtw>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
>>41219677I'm at a 44cm difference with my partner. It's kind of an obstacle past a point, have to bend over to kiss and some positions simply aren't an option.
>>41219329page 8 bump, get with it bisexuals
Anyone else seen One Battle After Another? I thought I wasn't gonna like it at first due to the dialogue early in the film being "special" for lack of a better term - but thankfully it quickly picks up and just goes by lightning fast. I don't love it as much as many other people I've seen/heard talk about it, but it's definitely one of the better movies this year.
>>41219467based fugtrup enjoyer
>>41223627i'm planning on seeing it this weekend hopefully
>>41219329oh we are fucking robots now? good.QotT 1: Yes, idc whos is what size it just makes everything hotter.>QotT 2: honestly i'd wish to be taller and wider, more of a unit. must be my bara porn brain. >QotT 3: BIG CITIES
mmm robopussy
There has to be an easier way into a kink scene somehow.>>41219329>QottNo preference I just want to feel loved.
>>41227059>There has to be an easier way into a kink scene somehow.Is your goal to have kinky sex or to join the "kink scene?"If it's the latter, you can just find a munch on Fetlife and show up.If it's the former, you can just have kinky sex with a partner, you don't need to join a scene to do this.
>>41219329When I was a young teen I always wondered why porn sites didn't have a list of categories to choose from, and then for each category, a 2d grid of the interactions of all the pornstars they had on-staff enacting said kink that you could choose from.
>>41227128>find a munch on FetlifeThis is the issue.>you can just have kinky sex with a partnerEven uf that was the case I have been alone my whole life.
>>41227208>This is the issue.How is it the issue? They post events that you can just show up to.>Even uf that was the case I have been alone my whole life.That may be more of an issue.
>>41227237Haven't seen one in my city.>That may be more of an issueHaving one person at all think about me outside of consistently talking or seeing each other in person is the only reason I have any hope in the world but there's no chance of relationship there.I know I'm not the only one feeling like they have to remind people they exist outside of some spaces and actually care about others enough to speak to engage unprompted.
>>41227257I obviously don't know much about your personal life, but if your area is too small to have munches, this is also likely related to your struggles with meeting people. The weirder you are (and obviously we're all somewhat weird posting on 4chan Wednesday morning), the bigger the pool you need to find good matches.
>>41220642Femanon I do not know your exact circumstances but I am a firm believer that honesty is the best policy. If you bottle up that feeling deep inside she’ll be able to tell you’re hiding something and that will create cracks in the relationship. If she truly loves you, and it sounds like she does, she will accept you fully
Anons what kinda music do you like? Is emo still the go to for goth anons?
I have had sex with a cis woman, 2 men, and 2 trans women in the past year ^_^
>>41227412Psychedelia, boomer rock, jrock, dnb, and eurobeat.
>>41227414Nice.
>>41226899mechs/bots/machine that run on bio fuel or need to feed might have an asshole to fuck
>>41227583>>41226282>>41226899Need robot bf/gf.
>>41227262I mean Charlotte isn't small but it feels like, dead, in terms of meeting anyone here. I wonder if I am looking in the wrong places sometimes.
>>41221045Save the green planet!>>41219329>QotT #1:I enjoy them but I like the sizes to be close enough to remain practical>QotT #2:my size is right in the middle of most people regardless of gender so I'm good with it, but growing up I thought I'd be taller....>optional QotT: I love looking at architecture so big cities alas. Living in the countryside would be better for me if I had the choice :'>>41219677Do you know about andré the giant anon ? He lived a pretty miserable life because of his size. Had to shit in tubs in hotels and his body broke down completely in his 40s. Granted he chose to live a life of glory and travels early on, even before acromegalia got found. He got lots of women, but he never could settle with one or be around people in general for too long. He had to shop using his tv because going to the store was impossible. Knowing he was going to die young weighted a lot on him too>>41223627I kinda want to see it now....>>41227412Anything as long as it's good, but I have a preference for phrygian-adjacent modes and fast rhythm-oriented musicI really like tool (in a normal way)>>41227059aw Lay, hug you
>>41219329>>QotT #1yes. as a chadlet, I rteally enjoy servicing much larger men. For girls, it doest matter. I like petite girls but also like buxom tall women who want to mount me with their strap-on.>>41219329>QotT #2:I would be taller- 6fy plus. I would get way more women if I was taller. I've had multiple women who thought I was handsome and wanted to sex/date me until they found out I was short. >#3. big cities for social/sex adventures and small towns for living
>>41219329>>QotT #1Very much so. I think that ~1 head height difference is kind of ideal IRL, that lets the short one nuzzle into the tall one's chest and the tall one gets to rest their chin on the short one's head (this is the case with the guy I've been seeing recently). I like messing around with more exaggerated differences in my art because it creates some fun scenarios.>>QotT #2I'm conflicted, because I'm quite tall and I like being that way, but I often fantasize about being small with a bigger partner. If I were going to switch I'd probably want to be like ~5'3".>>optionalCities. I love going out to my family's ranch to chill out and fuck around, I enjoy the small town attitudes and interactions, but cities are great.
>>41228321>Do you know about andré the giant anon?I was talking in terms of fantasies darling. Don't worry me with reality, I've thought about it before. Of course in MY case everything would just happen to somehow work flawlessly under my conditions.
>>41219329>>QotT #1: Do you enjoy size differences in relationships ? What's your preference ?Well I'm 189cm, so unless I find a very tall woman or another above average man I kinda have to. My last relationship was with small woman (158cm), and though it is kinda hot/funny, it can be pretty impractical especially during sex.>>QotT #2: If you could become the size of your choice, what would it be ? anything goes I'd round myself up to 190cm, even though there are only disadvantages to being taller than I already am.>>optional QotT: do you prefer big cities or ˢᵐᵃˡˡ ᵗᵒʷnˢ ?I tink I prefer bigger cities ? More night life, easier to get around, more people. I do like the countryside a lot though
How do so many of you find this so called "night life"
>>41224895Bisexuals eating good any time he posts.
>>41228321I have been hugless for ages now.Doesn't make me feel as old as wehn people slightly younger mention chobits and call it a hidden gem. It isn't hidden younger people kust never watched it.
>>41230764You have to go to a club and I'd rather eat lead paint
>>41230771he truly is one of our greatest champions
>>41220642You'd be asking her for permission to cheat with men.That's all she's going to here.
>>41220642Cis woman. I wouldn't tell her. Straight girls are fucking uncomfortable with bisexual guys. It could doom your relationship (which is probably for the better, because you both sound very young, and you will probably grow out of this relationship).
I wanna suck on some fat tits
>>41230771>>41233385It is literally impossible to be straight as a man in 2025 with a healthy endocrine system
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>>41235635>>41235635>>41235635>>41235635https://discord.gg/ww5ZA5Tq
I came out o my friend over the phone a few weeks ago and he came to hang out todayHe was asking more in depth about my sexuality and my preference in menCouldn't name any celebrities the way I can with women. The only names I could name would be porn dudes he wouldn't know. I wonder if that's because feminine guys never really get to top fame levels so they aren't in the same level as standard het celeb crushes or whatI just know I couldn't name the solo twink porn guys I like to him lmao Timothy Chalamet and Troy Sivan were the best I could come up with
>>41236181Should've told him Valentino AstonHe'd have gotten it
>>41233385Most clubs are shit nowadays I agree, I mainly go to bars. But it's less fun if you're alone. Karaoke bars are cool too
>>41236181timothy chalamet and tom holland are so gorgeous
>>41234004In my eyes it's him and Incase.>>41235459I'll leave that to the straights, I definitely know I'm not.
>>41237314Criminal he doesn't do more masc x fem
>>41237314Him Incase And meesh for meDraws cocks like no others and the chicks are hot too. Good shit
>>41237707>>41237314Incase is based as well but arent you forgetting someone?
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=678d833bd9b95Speaking of porn name a more iconic couple. These two put out the only fem kino that I know of.
>>41233385Why do people still want clubs then???
176lb now and only 20lb left to lose for proper weight.>>41236270I go to none, how do people afford that.
some techno clubs in my area are pretty nicelowk too scared to go tho, also i am shy and dont want confrontations with bouncers
>>41238281Why would you have confrontations with bouncers?>>41238245>176lb now and only 20lb left to lose for proper weight.Keep up the good work!
>>41238281They are the only kind of club I frequent, because I just can't stand mainstream club music for more than 30min if I'm not drunk as shit and getting drunk at a club is a bad financial decision, whereas I can legit dance from 22 to 7 if there's good techno shit playing, regardless of my blood alcohol (although dancing alone drunk to some acid techno is peak night entertainment to me).
>>41238753Where do you guys find this stuff. Not like I wouldn't feel out of place...
what should i be for halloween this year
>>41238991Let horny intrusive thoughts pick.
>>41238426with confrontation i mean like any type of interaction mb i just perceive that stuff as confrontations and get uneasy>>41238753same i hate these mainstream music shit remixes of songs from the top 100 of 2010 or some shit
>>41238802You're using the Internet right now. Use it to search for the things people are talking about, but in your area. This is the most deranged learned helplessness shit I've seen in months. You have to stop whining online about being lonely and actually DO SOMETHING to try to meet people.
>>41237391Incase I'd argue is the most balanced porn artist I've ever seen, truly omnisexual. Everything from hairy dads to flimsy twinks and curvy matrons to lanky tomboys. I guess he does favor futa if anything, but I'm not complaining.If you meant fugtrup then yeah he seems to mostly focus on solo stuff, though the few animations I've seen from him are incredibly hot.>>41237844I'd say he's mostly a gay legend. I was thinking predominantly bisexual.Nyl2 is also mint, but he's futa on female only.>>41237707Haven't seen much of meesh's stuffseems quite furry leaning>>41237934They're pretty good, not the best live action I've seen, but consistent
>>41239323I've looked but going alone to expensive places without knowing the vibe or if I will feel sickly out of place worries me. I still am trying to get pas my memories of all the sport and church camps that I didn't fit in at and was iften made fun of at growing up. It makes you feel like you aren't meant to be anywhere public without a purpose.
>>41239537Maybe start by finding one or two people to go with
>QotT #1: Do you enjoy size differences in relationships ? What's your preference ?Yes, I like being the taller one. Im 175 cm so taller than most women and some men as well. >QotT #2: If you could become the size of your choice, what would it be ? anything goesMaybe I would like to be a little bit taller even.>optional QotT: do you prefer big cities or ˢᵐᵃˡˡ ᵗᵒʷnˢ ?Big cities, grew up in small town and always felt like a freak there. Now I blend in. Does anyone deal with the conflict of wanting to date homosexual but wanting a family? The older I get more attacted I feel to women but also biologal clock is ticking. Most bi/lesbian women dont seem to want children, and even if I find someone who does it is expensive and long process here to get pregnant with donation sperm. I dont really care if I am the stereotypical bi who ends up with a man, but havent found one that I wanted to date in some time now. Doesnt most that show interest toward me are 45+ years old divorced guys vs beautiful women my age or younger.
>>41239685I have work friends but anything outside of work with them is a rarity they agree to do with me. Much like everything else in my life people are very unavailable.
>>41237934Where the fuck are all the femboys like pic related at
>>41239727Younger men might just be too self conscious to approach, it's becoming increasingly common with the millennial and gen z guys. Maybe make the move yourself if you like someone.>Does anyone deal with the conflict of wanting to date homosexual but wanting a family?Not especially, I decided to be indifferent on the kid front. I was pessimistic enough going in that I was surprised I even found a partner since I was unyielding with my expectations. Wasn't about to pass up a genuinely great match for the chance to have kids with someone I have no chemistry with.So for me it mattered more that my partner is a good match. If I don't have that, having kids would just make things worse, especially for the kids. I leave it up to my partner whether kids happen and how. I just want to have a good life with them.
>>41239786>Maybe make the move yourself if you like someoneIm used to be the one making first move, but the thing is I get rejected. Also quite true what you are talking about, parents not being a good match is not making a good family. Shouldnt force it.
>>41240000>I get rejectedthe price of trying, at least if you aim well, you only need to be accepted once.Personally I prefer to get to know people before considering them seriously for relationships. Dating strangers is odd to me.
>>41239786>too self conscious to approach, it's becoming increasingly common with the millennial and gen z guys. Maybe make the move yourself if you like someone.I feel like that is true for everyone now. Though these days approaching and asking anyone for a date or anything It is almost treated like the wrong setting everywhere but online.
>>41240142>true for everyone nowyeah but it was mostly true for women before as well, hence the expectation for the men to do it.>Though these days approaching and asking anyone for a date or anything It is almost treated like the wrong setting everywhere but online.people are getting a bit more autistic these days but nah, plenty of flirting still happens it's just all subtext so it's easy to miss unless you're paying attention
>>41240167>plenty of flirting still happensThey were in fact just being polite the last few times.
>>41240065>Dating strangers is odd to me.Well, I mostly meet people from work or friends of friends, most of them already have relationships. Things were better when I was still studying, I met so many people to date and be friends with! I never had to even consider dating apps. One thing I could consider is just having a baby and being a single mother, then I wouldnt need to worry about it I meet anyone. I have close people to support, wont have to be completely on my own even if not with a romantic partner. Just need to make more money first.
>>41240234I suppose so. Having a community to help raise the kid is good.
>>41240234>Just need to make more money first.I told myself that for years and now I'm convinced there isn't a way to keep up with the economy. You kinda have to just make do from the few people I know that ended up having kids.
>>41240259That is true also. I do have a job with a possibility to make quite good extra money, just on the cost of basically all my free time. But the risk is ending up just working 24/7 for years and slowly losing friends, hobbies etc for the grind.
>>41240397See there is the real reason. Also why people usually want a relationship to even start a family because it gets lonely.
>>41219329i wish i were the battledroid in picgetting sparks shot inside of me...>Do you enjoy size differences in relationships ? What's your preference ?yes. i love tall, skinny boys and strong tall women. >If you could become the size of your choice, what would it be ? anything goesim very happy with being 5'7 actually (my current height)short enough for people to think im cute (and to be a bottom) but tall enough i can find non power dynamic relationships and also barely reach the top of my fridge>do you prefer big cities or small towns?big cities!! more stuff to do and more fish in the sea :D
>>41241000>I love tall, skinny boysI've heard this sentiment repeated often, yet I (a tall skinny boy) remained no less bitchless for most of my 20s.
>>41241125My friend managed it.>>41241000Same height, but I don't get called cute except online. How much do you weigh?
>>41241202>My friend managed itnot saying it doesn't happen, saying it never happened to me so the marketing campaign has greatly exaggerated the demand
>>41241216I have a wedding to go to. It seems the slightly alt but religious women go for that. I have no idea what shes like outside of that but I'll find out next may.
>>41241125>no less bitchless for most of my 20shave you tried using any dating apps? im sure you could find some cute boys on grindr :3>>41241202>How much do you weigh?im 130 pounds
>>41241330>130lbI myst lose a lot of weight then.
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTA reminder that at 21 GMT we will choose the next 2 movies for movie night!You can give your recommendation now by replying to this post>what the hell is "movie night"its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community>when will movie night take place?its FRIDAY at 22 gmt>where do we watch the movies?on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:https://discord.gg/VNsV3xtw>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
