earlier today i watched a movie in the theater with my bf and i was bored so i put my head on his shoulder and fell asleep..his shoulder was kinda bony like my dads was.when i woke up, i kissed him on his cheek. i felt his stubble. it felt like my dads.we got home and i kissed him on the lips, a soft, chaste kiss. his lips felt like my dads.i havnt seen my father in 6 years today. its for the best. i dont miss him anyways, except when I mountain bike or solder electronics. But why does my bf keep reminding me of him?
god I hope one day to have a relationship like this. that man is rich beyond belief. god bless both of you
>>41225192my dad was rich beyond belief. wish i saw some of that money like akemi did.my bf is a college student like myself, but he does ok. he takes care of me, tells me what to wear and buys me clothes, buys me my hormones. i feel reliant on him
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>>41225180Taking care of a gf feels like being a dad, especially a trans one
>>41225180Some people even subconsciously miss things about a person no longer in their lives so when around someone else sort of graft what that old person onto them. I’ve seen people do this about girlfriends, fathers, siblings, friends, etc.
>>41225474are you a guy dating a trans girl? whats it like from the other perspective? could you elaborate? im interested.>>41225502that makes sense. maybe im doing that with my father and boyfriend. he's the first boy ive ever dated, ive only dated cisgirls and transgirls before this., so it makes sense hes the first person id graft this onto. its just kinda comfy. hes like if my father wasnt..terrifying. and has a vagina
>>41225576holy fuck hes a based poonchad toofuck you for having a better life than me
>>41225588is it really a better life if ive gone through what i have to get here? but i feel lucky to have ended up here, after all of that. i love him.
>>41225576That’s probably it then anon. You’ve bonded with him so you view him in ways that remind you of your dad, especially since you mentioned you’ve become reliant on him
>>41225632he shouldn't remind me of my dad, though. he is terrible with electronics. he hates biking and the outdoors. he doesnt even resemble him, at all. doesnt dress like him either, or smell like him. but the features i mentioned in OP, his lips, cheek, shoulder, arms too. it feels so fatherly.
>>41225724Not necessarily that he’s acting like your did, just that in some way whether you’re cognizant of it or not you miss your dad or a father figure at all & being around someone like your boyfriend brings that out.
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>>41225609look lady we've both suffered you just ended up with a based poonman while i am a sneedhon
>>41225789i suppose you are right. well, its nice. i love having a man around.
>>41225180need a dad boyfriend DESPERATELY
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I remember taking my 23 year old gf to go see kungfu panda 4 then buying her a Lego set and thinking that I'm dating a mental child.
>>41225180I wish I could remember that many details of affection from my dad
>>41226695did you break up with her?
>>41225180Oedipal
>>41225180There’s a lot of evidence that our mental models for caretaking and affection are deeply informed by our childhoods and our caretakers. Either you subconsciously sought out your boyfriend because he reminds you of your father in some ways or you are projecting aspects of your father onto him, or some combination of the two. Neither of these is necessarily bad, btw, just kind of how we are
>>41225180Im sorry, doesnt every trans girl basically see her boyfriend as a bit of a father figure to a degree? Is it weird if its a struggle to not call him "daddy"? Am I weird for also seeing lots of similarities between him and my actual dad?
>>41225180that sounds so cute.
>>41225180are you a boy or a girl. if boy (trans) please rope
>>41225180>why does kissing a man make me thing of my dadgee I wonder why
>>41228996its defiantly the second one. I met him pretty spontaneously and back then I wasn't looking for a father figure at all. Not saying I am now, though. >>41229078i usually want to call him 'papa.' Which is not something I ever called my real father. And again, they arnt very similar on paper. They just..feel similar?>>41229327trans girl>>41229462well it shouldn't? right?
>>41229575well now im just jealous
>>41225214>my dad was rich beyond belief. wish i saw some of that money like akemi did.you read too many incest novels op
>>41225474>especially a trans onewhy does that affect it?
>>41229836ive just read one and its more of a story than a novel
>>41227079The opposite
>>41230180because androphilic trans women are generally even more vulnerable and submissive and desiring of protection than the average cys woman… seems kinda obvious why they’d arouse more protective instincts in men since they do ask for it in a much more primeval survival sense than cys women need to anymore
>>41230823yeah, I guess that's true
