It's over
>>41228496Imagine being 30 lmao, you have to choose, be a woman or become a man.
>>41228770I think my body is already too many desu, but if I don't do this now I'll kill myself before I even get to be 30
:(I mean, you could be older, it just gets worse so don't feel like everything's lost.
>>41228496started at 25, 28 now. nothing changed. i should kill myself but i will keep ploughing on and continue the humiliation ritual that is my life
>>41228932I get this, but the "if you did this when you were 18 you wouldn't have this enormous back you know?" And it kills me
>>41228971And if you started at 18 you would find something else to feel bad about, life is just not fair so worrying about stuff you can't change is pointless, just focus on what you can improve and go on.
>>41229120( >Д<;)
>>41228770he's already a man. guys who trooned in their 20s or later are full on men and aren't valid
25 is the last stop before twinkdeath.
>>41228496>starting at 26
>>41229168I'm 24 now, will be 25th next year in March so I'm just thinking of quiting everything and starting private, DIY and with insurance all at the same time I don't care, just make it fast FUCK
>>41229178I feel you, let's do our best
>>41229167>everyone develops equallyEh?
>>41229249Been doing exactly that. Got sick a year ago too so now im an unemployed 29 year old troon with massive health issues from post covid complications. Feels badI must be pretty and passing or something at least, because i still have a boyfriend, so thats something to be thankful for and happy about. Least it means theres reason to put in that effort
>>41229167I got late puberty, the bigest problem is my back...But I'm not stopping, I don't care anymore, I'm tired of crying or not being able to cry because of the numbness I feel, I want to feel alive even if I end up looking bad, I'll be a disgusting hon if that means not killing myself at 28
>>41229290I hope I'll get somewhere sometime, the last 7 years felt like I wasn't living to begin with
>>41229167if i started hrt less than a month after turning 20 is it over
Has anyone ever genuinely felt like they passed without it being a cope no matter when they started?
>>41229434it depends on if you had a truetrans (nonexistent) male puberty or not
>>41229493damn it...
>>41228496better now than late
>>41229290i have a boyfriend and im massive ugly hon so it doesnt mean anything
>>41229493>trutrans is when you face no pushback to ur transition and have it more easy than anybody else
>>41229120i'm starting at 18 and when i see people talk about starting at 13 i feel ill. being a tranny is a curse where you're always envious of someone else lmao
>>4122991213 just sounds unreal to me, but God I wish I had the opportunity to stop puberty
>>41229671Only cis women are trutrans
>>41229912i first started wanting hrt at 14 or so and i had some inkling of the sooner you start the better than i grew up and realised 14 was the only time i could have started and actually made it.
>>41229912i restarted at 18 after being taken off hrt at 15 so for me hearing anyone who got to stay on hrt as a minor makes me fall to my knees and sob. those years turned me into such a fucking monster
I started around your age and I pass absolutely fine. Unless your got really fucked by T you're gmi. Starting post puberty means you have to work harder but its not over at all.
>>41228496I started at 30 (Well, a month before turning 30)25 is youngshit from my perspective. You will make it.
>>41228496I started at 24, been on it for 10 years, feel a hell of a lot better now than before HRT where I felt miserable as shit. Also have a friend that started at 30, 2 years on HRT now and is at minimum androgynous, if not clocked as a girl (and that’s more on her part choosing to dress androgynous still!)Either do it or don’t, but don’t give me that>starting 25 it’s so overshit. Massive majority of you are more obsessed about transitioning to be hot rather than passing but being average looking.Quit being miserable and staying depressed, go to therapy, diet, exercise and take up a hobby.
>>41229167I'm a manmoder but I trooned at 19
it's this or start at 26. or 30. or 40. all you have is now
I started at 25 and I look fine, just lock in.Ignore my shoulders though. They're huge because I started at 25.
>>41228496>being 25 regardless of transition statusover
>>41228496I did and regret it. Should’ve just tried harder at being a proper man>>41231682>look at meee im so luckyy
>>41231682You omitted the most important part for judging your transition, your face
>>41231630I know, but also fuck how much you have to wait for appointments, this is torture and I need momentum to avoid repping again
Good friend of mine trooned out this year at 35. Worried he'll be dead in a couple years.
>>41228496What are ur hobbies
>>41228770either way, you will still be a man at the end of the day
>>41232500I like drawing, going to the gym (mainly just cardio) traveling and hiking, taking pictures of nature and cloudsI also like anime like most trans people hereLately I've been into language learning too
i started at 25, gave up after a year and went back to repping. MISTAKE.i feel like tranny shit is a mind virus i can now never escape from, i have no choice but to sacrifice my life to the feminine demon in my head that keeps telling me to troon out.oh well!
>>41232671I don't see it as a virus, but I get east ypu mean, it's like no matter what you do or how you try to change your mentality or surrounding it never goes awayLike I would love to tell my transphobic friends and family that I tried REALLY hard and it wasn't enough
>>41228770What if I don't want either of that. I just want to be a cute boy
>>41232671This is so pathetic and embarrassing. Not being good at seeing things through is one thing, but deciding to upend your life and make yourself a different person and then quitting halfway through is just embarrassing levels of indecisiveness. Make a choice and commit to it, coward
>>41232838yes i am pathetic and embrassing, thank you.
>>41232789trans women often look like cute boys, like that one detrans mtf who is like 35 and looks like a teen emo boy because she has no balls
>>41232855You could be less so if you stopped whining and went back to transitioning
>>41232884i am, i have been. i will still probably rope but life is an experiment for now
>>41231559>Massive majority of you are more obsessed about transitioningI'm not, I'm worried about hip fusion>go to therapy, diet, exercise and take up a hobby.I'm doing all of that!
>>41232929>worried about hip fusionobsessed in trying to nail every category that involves afab characteristics. We make the most of our situation. We were not born cis female, but we do the best we can with what we got. Maybe the hips are fucked. Then go focus on everything else you can control: fat redistribution, hair and skin care, dressing appropriately for your age and body shape (both sexes can vary and overlap: pear, hourglass, stocky, etc), voice training. There’s so many more factors in your control that needs your attention right now, rather than the things you can’t control outside of taking hormones for.
>>41233237>obsessed in trying to nail every category that involves afab characteristicsI concede here, thank you
