im in a dilemma because i do get chest dysphoria, and it can get really bad sometimes. however, when it's not bad, i feel really hot. top surgery is an idea i play with in my head, but im not sure if i could ever bring myself to go thru with it. it just feels like a waste to remove them. my gf also really likes them so i know she would be sad, even if she says she just wants what will make me happiest. binding is also rlly difficult, so ive sorta accepted that i wont pass to the public. esp with long hair </3
>>41244898So you just give up on passing?
>>41245275yea atleast for now idk. im waiting to see how much i can get away with before the testosterone makes it obvious. i mostly just do it at work since it's easier than trying (and failing) at passing. im not too beat up about it though, even if it can hurt
>>41245303I’m honestly in a similar situation but my breasts are small enough to not be too noticeable in baggy clothing. Though I personally would really like to have top surgery, even if it ends up looking unsightly like how all those “theyre deforming our daughters!!!1!” people make it out to be, just because I think it’d be much better than what im working with currently. If it were not such a complicated and expensive process, I would have done it by now.
>>41245522hoping u can get it done one day :)im just bad at making big decisions like that, and i think if im so on the fence about it i should just wait until im certain.
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>>41244898Just do what would make (you) happy
