so since I don't pass, I've been man(/boy?)moding for obvious reasons, but I sent this pick to some of my tranny friends today, who then said I look cute, femme, etc.so this makes me wonder...am I just honmoding at this point without being aware of it?here's why I suspect it:> never malefailed once in my life> only gotten these comments from tranny friends> everyone else who knows iwnbaw just keeps things as they are, treating me like any other man and doesn't really think I'd consider name/pronoun change (which I don't), as I've told everyone I'll do that when I pass> do get some more attention from strangers, like stares (which hons certainly do get)> been getting more comments from family members, like you'll never be a woman, etc., which hons also get> more colleagues start to notice/suspect I'm a trannyso: am I accidentally honmoding now?if yes, how do I stop honmoding while keeping my hair? (my hair are kinda holy to me, idk why, but just is that way)also, don't wonder about the pupils, I'm just high on amphs...so sry, if I'm an obvious hon and don't notice, my brain's just kinda muddy rn...
>>41246773you look like a pretty cis woman :O!!queennnn
>>41246773>manmoder
>>41246773Im a straight hetero man and I would date you. I like your fat face
>>412467734chan neo meta tgirl labels are one of the worst things that happened to the community here. You know you can just be a trans woman, right OP?
>>41246780don't you think, I'd malefail if I did?
>>41246797yk I'd rather present as a man than a hon, right anon?
>>41246790uhm thx, but I think I just look like a faggot desu
>>41246785I mean, I present as a man, everyone treats me like any other man, I use a male name and he/him...so yeah, I live as a man, therefore man-moding...
>>41246810people just dont understand true femininity... youre killing it queenie
>>41246832Yes you do but my hetero spirit will counter that
>>41246850>everyone thinks I'm a man>nooo, you look great hon>well, must be everyone else being wrong at the same time independently of another mfw
>>41246864yk that fucking a gay looking male as a man is gay anon, do you?
>>41246773ur friends are hugboxing u
>>41246773Ur hair wants to be curly so bad. Its sad to see. Learn how to take care of that shit
>>41246899ik that, but the question is whether people see me as a hon
>>41246899im not trying to hugboxx her :C
>>41246881Not in 2025, we all hetero these days
>>41246819Why the fuck??
>>41246951because it feels like I'm making a fool of myself, honmoding just feels like going as a woman for halloween
>>41246773are you the german vienna tranny from last time?
>>41246773>femmeyep you're honmoding also don't hang around with trannies they're also honmoding
>>41246773This is a bad selfie because youre not smiling and also covering a part of your face, but whatever.After enough time on hrt, many manmoders naturally find a niche, which is some kind of a feminine man. This happens because estrogen changes you physically and also neurologically. Stares from strangers are p normal after that happens and dont at all mean that you're honmoding.Extremely woke people are allergic to manmoders and want everyone to honmode because hons increase the number of trans people and therefore empower them (yes its that simple, its all economics).I should add that for many, honmode is still worth it over manmode, but that's on you to decide nona. I suggest you still try girlmoding from time to time, ideally with other queer people at some safe space like a gigalib cafe or a gay club.
>>41246773Get bangs, brush your hair, do makeup, save for ffs (mainly just for your browbone) and youll pass
>>41246773Get some good FFS and you might make it
>>41247055probably, I'm a tranny from vienna and I post myself on here pretty often these days
>>41246797yep, austism all the way down> t. hon that knows the tricks to passing, but take clothes makeup off..
>>41247249got an appointment for getting a haircut tmrw, was planning to get tranny bangs anyway, had them once at some point, but my mum gaslight me into believing it was the shittiest haircut ever for some reason
>>41246773you're so pretty :>
>>41246773>more comments YWNBAW IME even if you don't pass, you are looking obviously more feminine than the people close to you are comfortable with. When they keep repeating YWNBAW, they are saying it as a form of denial; what they're seeing isn't happening. They're bothered that they see the changes and their minds are starting to associate you with womanly traitsAlso remember that being attractive is more important than passing. Work on that part
>>41246773Nice made up language
