being almost 30 and never having had sex or a relationship or friends is a fate worse than death
>>41247112Meh
>>41247112picrel>being normie anyday
>>41247218what am i supposed to do with my life as a living ghost
>>41247323Stop being a ghost and start being proactive about it that is if you want to stop and are willing to do everything in your power
>>41247371>go on dating apps>barely any matches>the conversations i do get die>go outside to events>cant talk to anyone because its weird to go up to people without already knowing someone in the group???
>>41247380Im about to go sleep anon so bump i hope someone gives you a reply
>>41247380if you have never had a single friend by the age 30 you need a social worker, not to go on dating apps
>>41247112Prostitutes
>>41247396im exaggerating what i really have is a string of superficial encounters with people who i see a few times at most and then never again. i have no idea how to build a social circle
>>41247112Real. Thank you for understanding. Being a virgin in old age is a misery most people can't even comprehend.
>>41247396What is a social worker and how do I get one?
These types of people seem to think that having those things would rescue them from their situation but they have it all backwards.This sort of isolation comes from a lack of self-confidence which comes from a lack of self-worth. Work on yourself. Exercise. Eat right. Go outside. Get a hobby. Be good at something. Learn how to dress. Find things you enjoy. People don't become losers because they have this level of neuroticism, they have this level of neuroticism because they're losers.
>>41247912>just stop being a loser brook but what if im a loser for genetic reasons
>>41247912>Work on yourself. Done.>Exercise.3 hours a week.>Eat right.Been getting my body weight in protein and all of my vegetables for years.>Go outside. I try to stop by the park on my way home when the weather is nice and of course I run chores around town.>Get a hobby.I have several.>Be good at something. This is difficult to judge for most things but I can admit I'm good at cooking.>Learn how to dress.I've tried but I don't really pass and feel out of place in my own clothes if I'm too femme and dolled up which ironically makes me look worse than tomboymoding does.>Find things you enjoy.I have plenty.I'm still a virgin at 30 with zero friends or positive social contact. I can't remember the last time I had a conversation I didn't start and that wasn't mediated by being in a professional setting.
>>41248004you failed step 1: be attractive
>>41248004>>Work on yourself.>Done.I suppose I should expound on this; I read a lot of books about self improvement and am learning a second language. I journal whenever I feel sad instead of doomgazing. The gym counts too IMO even with as much as I enjoy it. I'm also good at taking care of my finances and love to fix things up on the side and either use or sell them.
>>41247112hi are you ok anon?>>41247912basically I guess, confidence is good, esp if you move around a lot tbqh
>>41247112Living in general is a fate worse than death.
>>41248009Yeah probably. It's been like this my entire life as male or female or twinkhon or whatever. I forgot to mention I also get almost no matches on apps and the ones I do stop responding after a few messages.
>>41247970Not possible. Being genetically deficient doesn't make you a loser.>>41248004Pick social activities and do them until you make friends. It is literally that simple.
>>41248057yeah me too, i think i look somewhat attractive if i anglefraud but i just think my face is just bad, whether as a guy or a tranny its just kinda ugly, i understand that ppl dont want to interact with an ugly person so wcyd
>>41248059>Pick social activities and do them until you make friendsI've played social games online and didn't meet anyone. I don't do sports and can't have a dog to walk where I'm living. I've been trying to find somewhere to meet other musicians but this place seems very dead for music scenes. There's not even a chess club here.
>>41247112life is so easy. just be relaxed and smart. inside is an intuition that will effortlessly guide you and bring to love and being loved in your flock
>be me>fuck dailygit gud nerdscomplete skills issues
>>41247112Same boat, all I do is go to work and play videogames and watch anime, am 28yo, mtf, bi? I think?, pretty fucking ugly and don't understand how people make friends or have relationships. I have an okay job at least and live independently, have no debt, have some cute kitties. I like putting together legos and stuff. Sometimes I think I have autism or something but even the autistic people I know have friends and make connections with others. There's just something deeply wrong with me
>>41248080DND, look at local queer groups, do literally anything where people of low social intelligence gather casually.
>>41248080>I've played social games online and didn't meet anyoneIt is genuinely physically completely impossible to play XIV or WoW for a few years and not end up with friends, and very common to have met up with someone in real life.
>>41248138>how to find a bunch of balding 30s men to hang out with who will probably try to fuck youWHERE ARE MY TRANNIES
>>41248189Yeah if you're too fucking retarded to make friends by 30 then those balding men are a step above you.
>>41248189>WHERE ARE MY TRANNIESPLAY FIGHTING GAMES LIKE STRIVE AND GO TO TOURNAMENTSYOU WILL BE SURROUNDED
>>41247112I'm 30 and haven't had sex since 2015Unironically
>>41248138>DND, look at local queer groupsDND doesn't interest me anymore than an RP server does. I don't know if there are queer groups here or how I'd find them, which is one of the most common issues I run into. If you're not already in you don't know how to get in and end up outside of everything.>>41248164>It is genuinely physically completely impossible to play XIV or WoW for a few years and not end up with friends, and very common to have met up with someone in real life.Well I've done neither in playing regularly from SB to DT. I quit after how bad DT was and apparently so did everyone else.>>41248231Honestly this is a truth nuke that I'm willing to accept. Clearly even they have something about them that I do not.
>>41247380>>go outside to events>>cant talk to anyone because its weird to go up to people without already knowing someone in the groupLiterally just ease into the conversation with a joke and try to find something in common early on. Been my tactic for years and it works.
>>41247912that's not exactly true...i have zero self-esteem but i still have a bf who tells me i matter a lot and am cute (i don't and am not)
