I cannot wait until the day that vagina dilation becomes a regular part of my gender-affirmation routine.
>>41254985you know that after about a year or so you don't have to do it any more??
>>41255023right, but the initial recover and dilating will be very exciting for me!I only have money and travel in my way since I've been a year on hrt
>>41255050it'll be a pain
>>41255064a physical pain at the start, surebut emotionally, it will only be euphoria and relief i just know it. you have no idea how much it would mean to me.
>>41255083i've had srs so i kind of do know...
>>41255100spill the tea sis
>>41255127wdymi got a vagina and it hurt a lot but it was nice to have and now i don't really think about it much
>>41255050is this actually true or is it assumed that post srs trannies are having enough sex for it to substitute as dilation?
>>41255165meant for >>41255100 but yeah it just feels like “hrt made me shorter” type cope
>hurt a lotIdk dilation was just annoying cause I had to use one hand to shitpost instead of two
>>41255165i mean i stopped dilating with any regularity at all but when i go to measure it nothing has changedsome of that time i was having sex regularly (but even then that's not near as frequently as anyone is telling us we have to dilate OR ELSE BECAUSE YOUR VAGINA IS NOT REAL YOU MUST DILATE) and other parts of that time i didn't have a bf so i don't think it's just sex>>41255210lol it truly was the worst part
>>41254985Mental illness
>>41255165meh mine closed after a few years even though i did dilate. probably depends on the person
>>41255983Lmao whatNo. It doesn't "depend on the person". Depends on the surgeon if anything. You're either lying or got insanely botched. It also doesn't "close." You would lose depth, slowly over time.Honestly I think you should kys
>>41255997??? obviously it doesnt heal over at the entrance, "close" is just the easiest way to phrase it. though depth loss wasnt very slow for me. granulation grew out one of the walls and fused to the opposite side wall and and blocked off a portion of the canal. you could argue i got botched but at least in my case the surgeon didn't really have a direct hand in that part, it was just the way my body healed. after all, different races and ages of patients get different results i dont think it's that absurd to say "depends on the person"
>>41255997>>41256018i agree with the last point though i have been heavily considering to kms because of this lol
>>41254985I love my pussy
>>41255050>valuing the painful part morehmm?
>>41256018actually healing at the entrance or along some other suture line is the way it "closes" and it's not some neutral thing if you don't want the vagina but still a serious medical concern because you can get pockets of bacteria and ultimately sepsis. that is, of course, exactly what you're reporting.but that more or less can't happen after a year without some issue with healing (because absent that there won't be open tissue), which is why healed trans women report not really needing to dilate near as frequently as advertised.sadly I guess you had some issue with healing that either wasn't being treated properly or was difficult to treat (after all follow up care is nearly non-existent-I can't even find a doctor willing to std test me let alone deal with something like this)