>be me>ftm>first date with a cisbi girl from tinder>going pretty well. she's respectful, pretty, and incredibly smart. >she says she doesn't like sex on the first date, and I agree because I'm "missing something obvious".>she looks confused, then says "oh! took me a sec to get it. you're probably great with your hands, tho">"nah, I've mostly been with trans women, so idk what I'm doing">"oh... ok anon">she ghosts meWhy am I so autistic?
>>41258924any single random awkward thing you say might turn out to be a massive ick and turnoff for women. welcome to straight dating poonanon
>>41258947I mean, it took me a while to realize she was flirting with me. The fact that I responded to being flirted with by saying I'm bad at sex is also generationally dumb.
>>41258924She thinks you are a fag who cannot please a real woman
She thinks you're gay for being with a transwomen
>>41259147not likely if she's bi willing to date a poon herself
>>41259161Bi women don't like bi men
>>41259032>>41259147This. She sees you as a loser and a coping fag.
>>41259169>Bi women don't like bi menwait, what??
>>41258924The mental image of trannies to the public is an ugly hon. It’s not rational but being seen on the same levels as troons is an insult
>>41259182btw what are your letters gewanon?
>>41259207G and J Gay and Jewish
>>41258924The take away from this better be that the reason she ghosted you was because with your"nah, I've mostly been with trans women, so idk what I'm doing" You basically told a girl that wanted pussy that you wanted dick. And you don't just suck at sex but you might be dangerous to have sex with because you just sit there and take it and might do the hand thing wrong and leave her with a UTI. ALL the ftm's i know where lesbian first, and know DAMN WELL how to fuck, and you just said you're a limp noodle that doesn't do anything except bottom. In pokemon that would be a magikarp, Like not just useless but counterproductive too.
>>41259268that's called biphobia!!
>>41259147Real>>41259169The only people more willing to date bi men than straight/gay men are other bi men. Admittedly the effect is pretty mild for bi women but it's still present.
>>41259331Akshoaly, believe it or not, its a form of Bi Empowerment. She turned you down because she didnt want to waste her time on something that was so obviously clueless about basic girl fucking wants and needs. I hear str8 women do the same, if the guy says something dumb like, i'm just gonna sit there, or i they cant get aroused or are to small or anything where the guy cant preform, she will str8 up get annoyed and leave the guy with his pants down and just go home. kek! hell even had a friend tell me something about it a few days ago.
>>41258924u fumbled hard bro
>>41259440i did this to a guy onceliterally we slept naked with each other because he didn't know how to make a movenever talked to him again
>>41259460LoL, i have so many friends that are girls that tell me stuff like that, i cant help but laugh when they tell me. Like i think its fucked up, but at the same time, i really cant help but laugh.
>>41258924Absolutely, don't talk about your exes to your current one... at least if you want the world to fall apart or... well... that; girls like to feel special when they're dating someone, so that means not talking about your exes because it seems like you're still interested in them/she's a second option.And well, sometimes omission is the "you're good with your hands" route, so consider saying something like "yes, of course". Maybe a noncommittal answer would lead to a better outcome; understanding the female mind is a difficult task, but not impossible. And maybe, just maybe, she's a bit "transphobic" and kind of found you less masculine because of it when you said your exes were trans.That's what I think. And I could be very wrong.
>>41259582nah, that had nothing to do with transness, because if she already knew anon was ftm, they already knew, that was a limp dick issue, and ... ngl, Still funny to me, Im sorry in advance, never thought an anon that could BUY a dick that would NEVER STOP would have that kind of an issue. Thats funny.
>>41259612It could also be that, not because Op is trans, but because Op's speech was structured and she expected anon to be more dominant, while his own tone sounded more passive, she probably thought Op would be more dominant/active. The fact that Op doesn't do anything with his fingers, even with trans women, must have raised a red flag for her, like knowing who her local bottom is.And well, while strap-ons or packers are great options, Op's hookup partner might not like it, but if she gets involved with trans men, it would be common; even having a relationship with one, ordinary. But for her to simply ghost him must have a reason behind it, especially considering what Op said. And probably, knowing Op is trans, it wouldn't be about packers, whether the penis can stay hard forever, etc. It must be a more subtext issue.
>>41259825You guys really dont know how fucked up socity really is right now huh? No all Dominant personalities have been stomped on for the last two and a half years, I know ive been stomped on, metaphorically of course. So now all those new gen masc chicks dont even know how to go about it. I know how to go about it, but i dont because times have changed, It would be the bottom making the lines clear so that the top would know where they can or cant step. Hell you can even ask your str8 male aggressive men, they'll tell you all day about it, I used to be one of those, but in today time, everyone's friends feelings stop the individual from getting some. And its their fault, If they cant touch you like that, how exactly are they supposed to touch you at all? Baby poser ftm doesnt even know what they like, or how to do things, they just let everyone do what they wanted and that was enough, ProTip, sexually just sitting there IS NOT ENOUGH. trust me. First thing i found out about myself and intimate stuff like that was what i liked and how i liked it and she would like and might like. Op doesnt even know the basics about herself. If you want a teacher say so, if you dont know, you absolutely have to let the other know before you get to that point.
