i’m never gonna fucking pass as a dude. i’m 5’1 with wide ass child bearing hips and it makes me want to die. i’m pre everything and i feel like it’ll just be better for me if i suck it up and live as a woman for the rest of my life.
>>41260347>5’1 with wide ass child bearing hipsi don't think that this would make passing impossible, but you won't ever be attractive as a man for sure.
>>41260366yeah, even if i could pass i’d rather be a semi attractive woman and want to die than be an ugly ass manlet and want to die. i’m especially not interested in the certain types of people i would attract if i transitioned.
>>41260347take measurements rn and share them
>>41260420yea i get you op, i'm a 6'1 straight tranny so i know how that feels. i pass decently but it's still mostly lesbos and not men attracted to me. i still ended up transing my gender bc dysphoria
>>41260443my waist is 28” and my hips are 43”
>>41260553damn i wish
>>41260347no need to be a false malesimply becum plapped and plap your problems away
>>41260566fuck you
>>41260447>straight trannynice wow you should immediately die
>>41260566please kill yourselfyou may feel like your life is going wellbut you're on 4chan so clearly notleave op alone man
Modern day female hysteria
>>41260596bc what, bc i won't fuck chaser butts?
>>41260683Historically cured with surgical manual stimulation.Watching the female body quake in ecstasy is a treat. You know you did a good job. Hard to fake it.
>>41260553Hot, basically my measurements. You'll eventually pass though.
>>41260751As... whatlolA transmasc?An NB?
you have nothing to worry about in terms of passing. being on testosterone for a couple of years will make you look, act, and sound like an entirely new person. the height sucks i can’t lie but i’ve met a ton of men shorter than that. you’ll be okay.
what is ur goal? what do you want to appear as?
>>41261053don’t give me false hope.
>>41261128in a perfect world i would just wanna look like any regular decently attractive guy, preferably with a kinda stocky build. but that’s not gonna happen.
>>41261177when did u realize u wanted to look like a guy? what made u decide on that? and also who would u be attracted to? would u wanna be a guy attracted to cis girls or cis guys?
>>41261216well, it’s gonna sound a little cliche but i’ve kinda always known, i just repressed it for most of my life up until i accepted it around a year ago. i had a phase during lockdown where i thought i was non binary, don’t know what that was about. i was always a tomboy growing up and i was fine with how i looked up until my mid-late teens. i’m 20 now. also i like girls.
>>41261314are you taking testosterone or anything like that? or do you just want to be more manly. there are a lot of ways to go about it, even if u cant get test you can still 'masculinize' yourself a bit. its harder for women but its still doable.
>>41261340nah, i’ve never been on T. i would try to get some but the fact that i would just be short and ugly and probably fat on it makes me apprehensive. along with the fact i can’t exactly change my bone structure. i don’t wanna just be masculine or whatever, i wanna be a man. not to be a downer but i don’t really think there’s really a solution for me beyond just sucking it up and living as i am.
>>41260447cis lesbians are the kind of people that always end up in androphilics dating pool out of pity
>>41261413there still is a solution. there's plenty of short men that are confident and attractive. i think confidence is ur main issue. u need some pointers on how to be a better man anon. i could give u some help if youd like
>>41260347society doesnt really care about men that much. if you have a weak personality at 5'1 youre going to be completely unseen and if you have a strong personality youre going to have a normal life. shrimple as that
>>41261528damn… you actually may be right about the confidence thing, i didn’t think about that. yeah, some pointers would be appreciated.
>>41261602what do you mean by having a strong personality?
>>41261706being really funny. a bodybuilder/powerlifter/whatever. eloquent. something like that, anything that would automatically make you stand out a lot
>>41261696Since u aren’t taking test, there are a few ways to masculinizw yourself. The simplest way is this; make a list of all the things that people consider feminine and things ppl consider masculine. Veiny hands are considered masculine, thicker arms and hands are considered masculine. Thicker midsections because of muscles. Also, working out your chest actually does shrink the breasts a tiny bit. It’s proven. You also would want shorter hair, and I don’t mean like a pixie cut. I mean a traditionally masculine haircut. If you don’t know what workouts to do specifically I could give u a detailed plan that u could start at home. What’s ur height and weight if u don’t mind me asking? U mentioned ur height but not weight
>>41261763i’m about 130 lbs last i checked.
>>41261809So you’re on the chubbier side. Men tend to be more lean, and since ur afab your extra weight will deposit in the hips and thighs making you have a more feminine figure. So you’d need to lose a bit of weight as well
>>41261828yeah, that makes sense. i do mostly store weight in my lower body. if i did go on testosterone it would probably redistribute with time, dunno how long that would take though.
>>41261868Testosterone and estrogen for guys and girls is what MSG is for food: if you have a good base, it’ll amplify the results. MSG on shit food isn’t gonna make it better. Likewise, if u have a solid foundation of exercise and presentation, test will boost that in the right direction. If ur base is bad, test won’t give u the results u want.
>>41261938not truetest is much stronger than estrogen. taking it and not doing anything else will completely change your body by itself
>>41261962kinda unsure who to believe right now
>>41261314what’s stopping u from just being butch then anon? that seems like it would solve most of ur issues
>>41261528confidence based on nothing is called arrogance.
>>41260612nta but idk why im here. i am supposed to be happy i pass and am attractive and i have another gender affirming surgery soon but why am i still self harm doomscrolling this place now after years of avoiding it? my life is good but why do i always feel so bad?
>>41264287same idk why i keep letting this place hurt me
>>41260447This board is seriously hopefueling me by giving me the perception that there are like 1000000 6' trannies out there who don't get enough male attention currently
>>41264146my dysphoria. i don’t wanna be a masculine woman, i wanna look like a man. i guess right now i could be considered butch though, i pretty much look the part. i basically only wear baggy shirts and sweatpants.
>>41261053You've met a "ton of men" who are 5'0" or below? Do you live in the fucking Shire?
>>41264484eh, there are some cis men who are that short.
>>41264303hmm let's stop together. it hurts here and everyone is so awful let's go away far away and never look back okay? promise. you too tho
>>41260347If you said mother-bearing hips instead you would be one of the boys.
>>41260347Based. Me too, OP, me too
>>41261413> Wants to Troon out> Doesn't want to be "short and ugly"> Prefers to be a pretty girl than an ugly guyHmm..is this dysphoria or dislike of being a chopped girl and a cope? A lot of trans men suck it up and transition anyways, gymmax and do whatever it takes to be a man. You seem to just want to avoid the weight of being a woman by trooning
>>41265418good idea... i should find somewjere else to browse
>>41264350but i won't date you if you're shorter anyways
>>41265950this is definitely dysphoria, no doubt in my mind about it. you guys can think otherwise if you want but i’ve dealt with this basically all my life. it’s not that i prefer prefer to be a girl over a guy, far from it. i’m debating with myself whether it would even be worth it to transition given the circumstances. i didn’t mention it but it would also strain a lot of my relationships, but at this point the dysphoria is getting worse than ever to the point i can’t push it to the back of my mind anymore. so i either suck it up and rep for the rest of my life or transition for the extremely slim chance i could pass and be normal. either way i’m probably killing myself by 30.
