A honmoder works at the checkout of the grocery store that I shop at regularly.She has long, greasy hair that she wears back, showing her deeply receded hairline. She is fat and has a typical face of a middle aged man. She wears black lipstick and nail polish. Complete male voice, nametag that has a female name.Every time she scanned my stuff and I paid, everything was just a normal checkout experience, nothing out of the normal, until I bought alcohol and had to give her my ID.My ID is clearly pretransition, I look male in it, male name, etc. After entering my ID into the system, she hands it back, and doesn't even say anything afterwards. She just starts seemingly freaking out and having a panic attack as she finished scanning my stuff and gave me my receipt. I just kinda awkwardly paid and took my stuff and receipt and left.Now, every time I go to that grocery store and end up in the same checkout line, she does the same thing - just quietly freaks out and seemingly has a panic attack... Should I just intentionally try to avoid her checkout line from now on? It is awkward AF.
>>41262715yeah just avoid her what else you could do lol
>>41262715Ask her if she wants to get a coffee sometime
>>41262733ignore the grammar idk what happened there
if seeing you causes her to have a panic attack then yeah you should avoid her checkout line if it's not too inconvenient
>>41262715I don’t think there’s much you can do but bvmo because this is an interesting thread
