Anonymous
10/05/25(Sun)06:03:31 No.41265672

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Anonymous 10/05/25(Sun)06:03:31 No.41265672

I'm feeling so fucking frustrated. I'm gay, and my attraction is primarily towards much older men. Best sex ever was with an obese 60yo guy when I was 25. There are two practical problems though:
- these men have completely different lifestyle than I do, making a relationship very difficult to maintain
- even if I do manage to have a relationship, he'll get sick and die soon, putting me back to square one

I can't express how much of bullshit this is. I just don't really feel that much sexual attraction towards guys my age, which is 29. STILL FUCKING COUNTS AS 20'S, I'M NOT OLD YET GOD DAMNIT. When I browse dating profiles of guys my age I just don't have the same patience to sit through bullshit as when looking at daddy bears.

Yeah, dating profiles. The whole online dating thing is fucked. I'm europoor, which means we still do have a few dating sites that haven't been completely corporatized yet, but still. I spent most of my youth living the improov meme, and now when I see people who can't spell, people who do minimum wage jobs, people who are drug addicts, people in debt, and so on, I definitely do feel "the ick". I definitely want socialstatusmatch, I'm not going to date a deadweight.

When going to gay dating spaces I just can't easily filter people through personality and life achievements. It's just a bunch of dudes with whom the only thing I have in common is that we all gay. Rather when going through my daily life I've met a few guys with whom I could see myself having a relationship despite limited sexual attraction - they're honest, hard-working, smart, fun. In various proportions, but still, they're great people. And all of them are straight obviously, since whenever I go to a social event out of genuine curiosity, I'm the only gay there.

I feel trapped with no way out. I've reached the phase of my live when I already have solid foundations, I just need +1. But absolutely zero clue on how to make this happen.